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birth control
i dont want to tell my doctor im sexualy active but i want birth control. i think im going to tell him my period has been going on for 15 days for the last times i had it and that i normally only get it for 5 days. or if i DO tell him i am sexualy active will he tell my mom or is it between me and him?
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and your docter has a confidentiality form
he can't tell your mother anything.
Or you could complain about rly bad menstral cramps and they'll put you on the pill to help lighten it up
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you can go to planned parenthood because they will not tell your parents anything and you can get birth control from them it is usually free or give them a donation. but i recommened you go to planned parenthood because the doctor might tell your mom if he knows your mom pretty well.
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it will be directly between you and him. although- i dont think the birth control thing will bebetween you both. becuase your mom will haveto get the precscription filled. but no, do NOT tell him your period has been gonig on longer than usual- becuase then he might get into something serious and prescribe somthing totally unneeded for you, and send you to a gyno, and what not. in other words- BAD IDEA! good luck, and be careful!
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ope unless your mom is in the same room as you. but if i were you i would suggest goin to planned parenthood by yourself and gettin everything you need. they will give you everything you need for free and wont tell your parents no matter what. hope this helps.
♥ Steph
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usually doctors keep things in private. but the only time they would discuss things with your mom would be if you were in trouble. also you could go to a pregnancy resource center if our not comfortbable with your doctore knowing
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If you tell your Dr. that you want birthcontrol and that you are sexually active. He won't tell anyone. Here's why, All doctors are sworn to a Patient Privacy Privelege Act. Basically what it means if he violates that, he could lose his medical license and be sued by you. Yea no Dr. is going to risk that for nobody. But, however if you still dont want him to know, I wouldnt tell him you have been bleeding for 15 days, that's a serious medical problem that he'll have to run lab tests on (my friend actually went through that) What I would tell him is that my periods had been irregualar. 1 month you get it, 1 month you dont and that you want birth control to regulate it.
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he will keep it between you and him as long as you insist on it being confidential.
if your doctor seems as if he wnt do so, just say the cramps are unbearable and midol or any other medication just dnt work. saying your period lasts 15 days or more will lead to more investigating thus, you'll be caught but cramps are an easy way to get it
if all fails, use a condom =]
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Its probably not good to lie about medical things. I dont know why, but it is. My friends have gone to the doctor and told them they were sexually active and needed birth control. So, doctors get it ALL the time. They will keep it confidential..dont worry! Btw, its good that youre getting birth control.
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I know you don't want to tell your doctor, but you need to- just ask him first if he will keep it confidential.
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yeah, dont lie to ur doctor about it because they will give it to you. and he wont tell ur mom either. but if it shows on the insurance she could find out.
also..they do give them to you without the exam. they dont always give you an exam in order to get it. they do a preg. test tho. and they tell you you need to schedule an exam.
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Don't lie to your doctor. Tell him you are sexually active. He won't tell your mom.
In order to get on the pill though you have to have a pelvic exam. No doctor will prescribe them without one and then you have to have one yearly in order to get your prescription renewed.:)
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