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So, I've known this girl since 6th grade. We're both going into 12th, now. I realized that I was in love with her about two years ago. I moved one year ago. Up until then, we had more or less palyed a game of cat and mouse: I'd be dating someone when she wanted to date me, and visa versa. So, we never got around to actually dating one another, though we had gone on one or two sparadic dates.
Here in lies my dilema. I sincerely love this girl, and would do anything for her. But, I live a good 600 miles away now, and though we keep close touch, I'm torn apart by the fact that I can't have her, and that I have to watch her date other guys which I know don't love her as much as I do. I told her how I felt, and that I felt that way for a long time. She responded telling me I was too late--that had I told her sooner and if I still lived where she does, things could've been different. And with college near, and both of us with our eyes on the same colleges, I find myself curious as to what could happen there.
So, I guess, my question is, am I just fueling a fire that'll never produce anything and should begin to move on, or am I right to look at college as a new opertunity to show her how much I really love her, and perhaps start the relationship I've always wanted with her? (link)
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wow. i'm going to ask you a question. does she feel the same way about you? i mean so in love with you & all. if she does.. then hunn nothing can stop you two. college could be a point in your lives where you finally get to be together.
&& if you haven't moved on by now.. something is telling you not to. it sounds lame but its true. if there is seriously something about this girl you CANNOT get out of your head... then just leave her there.
i guess what i'm saying is that go for it. you only live once, and you can never truly live until you've found something worth dying for. who knows.. maybe you & this girl will be what you will want to live for everday.
i hope i helped =) if not.. then IM me to see if i can help some more!
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You cant say n/a, because we are supposed to beable to ask u anything, so express your self. Do you spit or swallow. Its not hard baby.. (link)
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lol im not comfortable saying on here. if u wanna kno that bad IM me
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Jackie your so hott. Your like a pornstar. lol anyways havnt talked to you alot this summer. hit me upsometime.
adam (link)
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haha adam i love you!
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Do u spit or swallow, either one is straight with me. (link)
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hahahah n/a
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Girl I Would Fuck You For A Good Hour, God Damn You So Fine. (link)
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haha thanks
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i freakin love you jackie! we need to chill sometime...
well ive been working out a lot...and exercising...and im doing this really big diet and i have this party comming up in like less than 2 months...and i relle wanna be in shape do you think i can do it?
and be tan as fuck? lol
i loveeeeee yew! bf4l
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haha im sure you can.
i love you nikki =)
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Hi. I really like one of my best guy friends but I don't know if I should tell him or not. I don't want to mess up our friendship but I think he should know. What should I do?!
I'm a girl and 17 (link)
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hmm.. some friendships can withstand that.. while others cant. it depends...is he the type of guy that would be considerate to your feelings or the kind of guy if you told him he'd give you the cold shoulder? take a look of his ex's.. if hes still friends with them take that as a sign that he'll be considerate towards your feelings. you could be like "i dont want this to change anything between us bcuz your one of my best friends but i think you should know.." or something like that. hope this helped =)
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Should i listen to music or talk on the phone? (link)
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both. learn how to multi-task =)
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Hey Jackie!!!! it's mandy. i don't really have a question.. i just felt like writing you something.. oh well nevermind i'll ask anyway.. so there's this girl. who will remain nameless.. who went on a date with this guy.. nameless again.. and now there are like 2 or 3 other guys that like her.. why is this and why doesn't this girl go out with all of them??? hahaha i love you hunny!!!
~mandy (link)
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haha idk maybe shes just tryin to find the best one!! lol i love you too!!
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hey...see well theres this girl that i saw on this website and her names jackie..she is probably one of the most gorgeous girls ive ever seen and im wondering if shed give me a chance to talk and get to know eachother...haha well what do u think i should do? cause if this girl gave me that one chance she wouldnt regret it id make it worth every bit...get back to me or IM me on aim cstevens0869..peace (link)
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haha sure. IM me =)
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hi. ive known this guy for a very long time and we just startd goin out. the problem is that whenever we go out anywhere if there is goin to be people he knows or we both know he doesnt really hold my hand or anything a bf should do. hes also scared to kiss me if an enemy is around. if we are somewhere where he knows theres no1 he knows then he will be normal. the thing is ive broughten this up to him b4 and he just blows it off like nothing and tells me thats not true.i dont know what to do..im feelin rejected. what would you do in my situation? (link)
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set him straight. but yah basically confront him and be like okay dude you wanted to be with me, you wanted to be my boyfriend. so act like it. don\'t make empty threats tho.. give him a little bit of time and take it slow. if hes around people he knows after you confront him with you and he like kind of touches you, take it as progress.
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well...i couldnt think of a ? to ask u jackie...so..how did the movie go?
-eric (link)
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haha its was funny. GO SEE IT!!!!!! lol
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I'm 15 years old and ive gone out with my boyfriend Jon for 2 and a half years now..weve done everything but sex pretty much and im not sure when i should have sex? I was going to wait till I got on birth control because im so scared that if we have sex i'll get pregnant..im really ready to have sex but since i have to wait till i get on birth control i was wondering if you knew anything that was sexual & fun that i could do with him while I wait to get on birthcontrol? Sorry this question is so weird..but ive run out of things to do!=( (link)
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uhmm..idk anythings to do..sorry. maybe yall should just take a break n stop thinking about sex? your only 15..geeze..thats really young no matter how long youve been dating the dude.
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Hey Jackie! Okay, I have this friend, who I have had a crush on, ever since I met him, and we've gone out a lot. I recently broke up with him, because he kissed another girl. And I cheated on him. But I really like him, and we madeout on Monday. It meant a lot to me, seeing we'd never made out before. And I told him I still have feelings for him, and he said he likes me too, but he doesnt want e girlfriend. This guy, Tim, was my first love, and it's the Summer! I don't know if I'm wasting my time ... what would you do in my situation? (link)
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umm okay. i know what you mean bcuz i was kind of in the same situation sort of.. if you both still have feelings for eahc other thats great. but if he doesnt want a girlfriend right now theres not much you can do to change his mind.. it's summer time, so maybe you both should go crazy and have fun..and when school starts up again if yall still have feelings for each other then give it another shot. i hope that helped lol
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man..such a hottie..what do u look for in a guy? (link)
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cute, sweet, nice eyes, nice body, kind, funny.. haha normal stuff. as long as you can make me laugh then im good
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im thinking about staying a virgin until marriage .. ive been getting diffrent opinions but i think i might tell my bf that im waiting til marriage. are you a virgin and would you wait til marriage. .. sorry this is kinda personal im just getting diffrent opinions from people
also.. where did you get your tank top? its soo cute!! (link)
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i really respect that you wanna wait until marriage. i think jessica simpson was a really good role-model for that. uhmm i'm a virgin, but idk if i'd wait until marriage. i'm going to wait until someone i love && really trust comes along. who knows i might have already found him and we might work it all out. ya never know.
lol i got it from walmart =)
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dude where r yur fuckin eyebrows? (link)
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above my eyes you retard
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Why are you so darn pretty?!? Grrrr!!! (link)
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haha its a gift =P
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Why are most teenage girls so two faced? One second they are nice to your face then the next they are stabbing you in the back? I know this is a common question but I just want to see what you think? (link)
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ahaha uhmmm.. girls act like who theyre hanging out with. all girls can deny this but its true. if theyre hanging out with someone that doesnt like you, then they might go a long with them && shit. ooorrrrr it could be jealousy could be a factor. if girls are jealous of you they'll try to say anything to bring you down. hope this helped =)
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i've seen your picture around. what sites are you ACTUALLY on? (link)
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haha uhh i'm on this, xanga, livejournal, webshots, myspace & buddypic. that's it. if you want to know the names of the sites then let me know.
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