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So, I've known this girl since 6th grade. We're both going into 12th, now. I realized that I was in love with her about two years ago. I moved one year ago. Up until then, we had more or less palyed a game of cat and mouse: I'd be dating someone when she wanted to date me, and visa versa. So, we never got around to actually dating one another, though we had gone on one or two sparadic dates.
Here in lies my dilema. I sincerely love this girl, and would do anything for her. But, I live a good 600 miles away now, and though we keep close touch, I'm torn apart by the fact that I can't have her, and that I have to watch her date other guys which I know don't love her as much as I do. I told her how I felt, and that I felt that way for a long time. She responded telling me I was too late--that had I told her sooner and if I still lived where she does, things could've been different. And with college near, and both of us with our eyes on the same colleges, I find myself curious as to what could happen there.
So, I guess, my question is, am I just fueling a fire that'll never produce anything and should begin to move on, or am I right to look at college as a new opertunity to show her how much I really love her, and perhaps start the relationship I've always wanted with her?
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wow. i'm going to ask you a question. does she feel the same way about you? i mean so in love with you & all. if she does.. then hunn nothing can stop you two. college could be a point in your lives where you finally get to be together.
&& if you haven't moved on by now.. something is telling you not to. it sounds lame but its true. if there is seriously something about this girl you CANNOT get out of your head... then just leave her there.
i guess what i'm saying is that go for it. you only live once, and you can never truly live until you've found something worth dying for. who knows.. maybe you & this girl will be what you will want to live for everday.
i hope i helped =) if not.. then IM me to see if i can help some more!
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