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les,bi,straight?
Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do?
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I would say that you are either bi-sexual or bi-curious. Don't worry about it at age fouteen I felt up my best friend that was a girl...she moved on and I think that was just her hormones and bi-curiousity where as I know that I am either lesbian or bi-sexual that is what I am not sure of now and am 17...if you need to talk you can email me at blondy1313132003@yahoo.com
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well sometimes a young girl can do weird things. its normal 4 grownig up. you need to think about how do you feel about girls. would you like to be involved with girls AND boys . or this could just be a one time thing. but talk 2 your friend and see how she feels because she may be a big help.
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Well if all you were thinking about is a guy being there, you probably arent lesbian or bisexual, just..curious?
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thats acctuly very normal for a teenager to do, its just cos your hormones & your body & you are just changeing, it dosen't mean you are bi or lesbian, but it could, its a stage pretty mutch everyone goes through, but some people just stay that way or some move on, diffrent people do diffrent things, & the experimenting is a very common thing to, I wouldn't worry to much about it, unless you start having feelings for Marie, then you could possibul become lesbian or bi, because some people if they experiment to much then they start having emoshins for these people, but some people don't, so don't worry unless you start having feelings for her
hope I helped
-Cameron
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No it's really really really really not normal for a 14 year old to do that. Your bisexual for one you thought last night felt pretty good and not bad so your lesbian then you thought that you wanted a guy to be there more than anything so your heterosexual then you combine those two and your bisexual no changing that for the rest of your life your bisexual. please rate thankyou bye.
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your alright you were just having fun your not a lesbian. you mite just be bi or you just were horny and did not think clear.
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i have to say yeahTHAT IT IS NORMAL!, because your bodies are changing, and its normal to be currious. From reading other questions on this site, it seems to happen alot, you are just currious, because your body is changing as well as your friends. Also,your horrmones! :)
-Kels-
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ok your probley bi then. becuase you like guys but you like doing stuff with girls at the same time. Last nite was just best friends having fun and probley being horny. and about the 14 year old thing umm well to some people it is normal and to others its not. but i think it is normal so yeah.
hope i helped
<333 Lexie!
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i'd say its pretty normal. Girls are curious around that age. I went through the curiosty of whether i was bi/straight/lez... i think a lot of peopel do. Don't worry abouti it. I know a guy that went through it too. Hormones can mess you up in the head and make you do funny things liek experiment with some one of the same sex. You are probably just Bi-Curious and thats nothing to be ashamed of not matter what people tell you.
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Your just bi-curious it's okay it's totally normal!
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You're Bi-Curious.Meaning it doesn't mean you're lesbian or bi-sexual, but you are curious to experiment.Most girls start getting very curious at the age of 13/14, i was too.It's normal.
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christine
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if ur still into guys your atleast straight maybe bi if you have emotional feelings towards any girls then yea ur bi dont worry guys dig that and im 14 too for people now in 2005 yea its pretty normal just dont worry your only 14! hope i helped!
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Ok well if you like your friend like that but still want a boy your BI. And there is nothing wrong with that at all!! Dont be ashamed of it. Most BI people would love to have a friend to do things like that with. I dont no what other people think but i think its ok to be 14. Everything will be ok. It might even just be a fase sence your only 14. Hope i helped you out alittle!!
Love,
Ashley
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well you could be bi, or you could jsut be curious. your 14 years old...who knows it could be just a random thing that you didnt know what to do about.
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Samantha says ; You're exactly that.. confused.. you're just bi-curious i guess and thats normal. Because hey your friend was doing the same stuff. You're just going through a rough phase right now and just live your life as happy as you can :)
Danielle says ; It depends on why you did it, if you really liked her or if you just wanted to see what it was like, cuz if you did it because you liked her then you might be bisexual but if you did it because you wanted to know what it was like then you were just wondering.
Hope this helps!
=) samantha and danielle
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Hey well, you're not a freak or anything. But I wouldn't say that it is completelu normal for most 14 year old girls to do that. I mean, it happens, just not that frequently. I think more than anything last night could be considered a "curious experienment with a friend". What I mean by that is that you and your friend both probably want to do stuff with a guy but because there was no guy there and because the two of you are probably so comfortable around each other, you did it on each other instead. I don't think this necessarily means that you are bi, or lesbian. I think you were just curious. I think the reason things 'felt good' was because it's a sexual experience. I think if it's really bothering you just try talking to your friend about it and maybe mention to her some of the things I have said here. Don't let things become akward between the two of you now. And in the future, whether you find that you are bi, lesbian, or straight-it doesn't matter. You're still you! :)
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