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WELL...Im like IN LOVE with this guy name brandon...and i have been fer a LONGGGG time....and like last nite...i was with him at a festival..and like we held hands and we held each other..and omg i felt like the luckiest girl alive....bc like everybody likes him and hes the hottest guy i think ive ever seen and hes the nicest guy and everything about him..i like..and today my friend asked him who he liked and he said me and another girl..im so sad i just want him so bad..i dont kno what to do..ive been like crying and everything..and im pretty sure he knows i like him..because i tell like everybody...sometimes when hes not talking to me when were online..bc sometimes he'll like ignore me..or stop talking to me..ill put i like somebody in my profile and ill put the name..and make him jealous..BC thats just how crazy in love i am with him..and it hurts to not have him..what should i do? PLease help me=\
thanks, Ashlee. (link)
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I know how jealousy is. Believe me it's something rough. I believe that he might be confused but at any age everyone is confused on who they want. I believe you should not act desperate because I think guys love the chase. It gives them some kind of thrill. I know this might sound hard to do but if you act like you aren't totally into him then he might just stick around... If he doesn't he really doesn't deserve you and you have your entire life ahead of you so don't worry you will find someone. So try not to act too wanting because you could drive him away. Don't totally devote yourself to him. If he is playing the field you might as well too. There is no reason to pin over him if he's not all about you. I hope everything works out!
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Does anyone know what the name of the song is that goes like, 'Every mornin when I wake up! Before I put on my makeup...I say a little prayer for you!'. its in the movie my best friends wedding. I really liked the song and want to know what its called and who sings it. Does anyone here know? (link)
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"I say a little Prayer" by Diana King
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my best friends name is cara and we`ve been friends since 7th grade we are in 10th now. my boyfriends name is scott. we all went to the mall when they met and she was flirtin with him and stuff. when my dad picked us up to drive her home and scott was coming back to my house, cara was putting her hand on the seat kinda near his hand and scott told me he thought she was trying to hold his hand. whenever im with her she always tells em how happy she is that im happy and with a ncie boy that loves me and i care about. she was tellin me to have scott to her house along with our other friends brittney, and tim. caras "crush" was supposed to go but he didnt end up coming. last night we were all sitting outback of her house and had a fire and when i got up from the picnic table i guess she tried to kiss scott?! and he thought it was me and he almost did then he was like what the hell are you doing? and she was like i had to tell u sumthin but now i forget.. the whole time we were sort of drinking but cara seriously did not drink alot, there is a big difference between a little buzz and being trashed. its so annoying and she flirts with him so much and i just hated how she hugged him when we were leaving.. what can i say??? thankss (link)
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Wow, sounds like a bit much coming from a 'best friend' I would seriously sit her down, just one on one and tell her your feelings. Try not to be mean about it. But tell her this is really hurting her and your friendship and trust. I mean if you truly like this guy and he truly is trustworthy then you should have no worries but believe me when a girl throws herself at a guy I would be a bit upset myself. You don't want to lose a friend over a guy it's not worth it so don't get too mad at her just yet. Just try to tell her your feelings. If she doesn't understand be presistent. Maybe even when she is flirting right in front of you take her to the side tell her what she did and be like "That is what I'm talking about" If she can't stop, she's not a true friend.
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well me and this guy were together.. but i never kissed him bc i didnt think i was ready.. now i just found out that he was playin with my head the whole time and that he has a gf... i wanna forget about him but he just stays in my head! all the things he told me and everything is stayin in my mind! i cant stop thinkin about him even though hes a scumbag! wat do i do??
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I find it more easy to get over something to ease yourself into doing other things. Start to hang out with friends more, focus on a hobby that you like to do, try to find another guy if you are ready for that. Don't rush yourself though. Expecially if you aren't ready to. I find it easier to keep busy try not to let youself think too much about him. If you slowly do this eventually the pain will fade away. I hope this helps out!
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