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my best friends name is cara and we`ve been friends since 7th grade we are in 10th now. my boyfriends name is scott. we all went to the mall when they met and she was flirtin with him and stuff. when my dad picked us up to drive her home and scott was coming back to my house, cara was putting her hand on the seat kinda near his hand and scott told me he thought she was trying to hold his hand. whenever im with her she always tells em how happy she is that im happy and with a ncie boy that loves me and i care about. she was tellin me to have scott to her house along with our other friends brittney, and tim. caras "crush" was supposed to go but he didnt end up coming. last night we were all sitting outback of her house and had a fire and when i got up from the picnic table i guess she tried to kiss scott?! and he thought it was me and he almost did then he was like what the hell are you doing? and she was like i had to tell u sumthin but now i forget.. the whole time we were sort of drinking but cara seriously did not drink alot, there is a big difference between a little buzz and being trashed. its so annoying and she flirts with him so much and i just hated how she hugged him when we were leaving.. what can i say??? thankss<333
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don't have cara and your bf around each other. if you're going to have a party or something then just explain to your bf that it's a girl party and you don't want cara hitting on you so he shouldn't come. then have another time when it's just you and him to make up for time lost.
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well shes not a best friend at all!seriously u need to ditch her or not hang out with scott n her at the same time
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Hey! What shes doing isnt right. Thats not something a "best friend" would do. Definetely talk to her about it. Tell her that it is your boyfriend and that she should stop trying to get with him. And ask her why she is doing it. If she says she didnt, than tell her best friends dont lie to eachother. And if nothing works and she will probably keep denying it. Than I wouldn't talk to her or keep being her friend. It's very messed up for her to do that. Oh and your lucky you have a boyfriend like you do. He didnt let her kiss him and he was loyal to you. That boyfriend is a keeper. But you really need to talk this over with your friend. And keep her away from your boyfriend. =), sorry this may not have been much help.
♥ nicole
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first of all.....
this was a random question sent to me.
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i think that you should ask Cara to stop flirting with him, and if she doesnt stop, you should think about not being her friend anymore, because she isnt a true friend if she is hitting on your bf....
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*Kell*
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You need to talk to her if she's trying to take take your your boyfriend away from you and always trying to be with him, and if she wont stop try asking your Boy Friend to tell her that he's not interested in her and that he's into you, and if your Best Friend knows he's off limm and she wont back down maybe it's time to find a new Best Friend.
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Wow, sounds like a bit much coming from a 'best friend' I would seriously sit her down, just one on one and tell her your feelings. Try not to be mean about it. But tell her this is really hurting her and your friendship and trust. I mean if you truly like this guy and he truly is trustworthy then you should have no worries but believe me when a girl throws herself at a guy I would be a bit upset myself. You don't want to lose a friend over a guy it's not worth it so don't get too mad at her just yet. Just try to tell her your feelings. If she doesn't understand be presistent. Maybe even when she is flirting right in front of you take her to the side tell her what she did and be like "That is what I'm talking about" If she can't stop, she's not a true friend.
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i think that you just need to talk to her and tell her to back off because scott isnt interested in her. either that or just mention that she is getting sligtly to friendly with him and you think that it would be better if she stopped it. if it doesnt work comming from you then i think that scott should say something. this may get through to her quicker because it is comming from him and not you. hope i helped
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You need to tell her that neither you or Scott like it and she should stop. It may actually be better if he said it to her. At least it sounds like Scott knows what shes up too. I don't think you have anything to worry about as far as he goes, but I am sure it gets down right annoying. :)
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Isn't it possible that Cara gets a little jealous of you and Scott? She may not even like him as more than a friend, she just may be jealous that you have a boyfriend and she doesn't. You know how best friends think they can share everything? Well, maybe she thinks this way about Scott. It sounds Corny, but it could be true. Also maybe Shes only curious what having a boyfriend is like.
I think that you should calmly say, "I've noticed you acting differently around Scott. Are you starting to have feelings for him?" Tell her she can be honest with you and that you won't get mad. Its normal for someone to have feelings for their friend's boyfriend. A good solution would be finding a guy Cara could date. You said she had a crush, so why not try to get him and her together? Once she has a boyfriend, she might stop doing this with Scott.
Hope I helped! Much love,
--Johanna
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wow you've got your hands full huh? Well look. I can tell you straight up from experience *my BF of 7 months broke up with me for a freind.* that She is not being a very good friend.. if you have seen this go on continuously you need to stop it.. on the other hand.. scott didn't know it wasn't you.. i wouldn't totally blame him for that one at all.. but you should also maybe be aware of that... oh BTW there is no such thing a sort of drinking.. hehe... *dont worry i do too.* umm okay on another point she shouldnt' hug your boyfriend.. YOUR BF. kay? NO. You need to tell her how you feel, tell her that she is invading space and you are very uncomfortable with it... she might try to put it on scott but dont let her.. bring up all of the instances you cna think of to show her that it's true. Don't let her change the subject or ignore your questions. Tell her that if you want to remain friends then she needs to back off and let you be with your boyfriend and not her. Ask her if it's jealously and if you can HELP her to find someone she might be interested in.. if so then that will take her mind off of scott and vola double dates. Okay do you understand, if you need any thing else just give me a holler! hope i helped!~Dee
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seriously talk to her. thts sooo not cool that shes trying to steal your boyfriend. if shes really that good of a friend, i have no idea why she would do that. i know boys are really complicated and the one you like its hard to get over. but she has to have respect for you and your bf. usually me and my friends wont even date eachothers exes. talk to scott to, i would get all 3 of you together and talk to cara, and have scott put input too because hes gettin hit on by his girlfriend's (you) best friend. and if she really doesnt wana give up on scott, you might want to take a break from hanging out with cara all the time. i mean you should dump a best friend, but really let her know that its not cool how shes doin this to you and your boyfriend. hope it all works out! tell me how it goes!
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Tell your friend that you feel as if she's hitting on your boyfriend and let her know that you won't tolerate it. Let her know that you consider her your best friend, but that may change if she continues to try to sabatoge your relationship with your boyfriend.
♥ Hope I helped.
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