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Ex and current boyfriend
I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?
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ive had my boyfriend for over a year and im also jealous of my ex's girlfriend.. which is my ex best friend.. if your ex was the first guy you really cared about, then hes gonna stick to you. you'll always care about him probably. im not recommending it at all, but me and my ex hooked up a while ago and that made me feel better about missing him..maybe if you guys talked and became friends you'd feel close to him again. its hard to say exactly what to do because i dont know your situations but if you wanna talk about it drop one in my inbox, good luck <3
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Hey, he's your ex and especially if you wern't the one that broke up with him your still going to have feelings for him. Continue to stay with your boyfriend if you care about him and try not to think about your ex. Hope I helped! Rate me!
:->Michelle
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I honestly think you should break up with your boyfriend now. Just incase he finds out about you still having feelings for you ex he'd be really hurt, and staying single for awhile until you get your head all cleared up and until you are 100% positive on what you want. (Just think of who treats or treated you better, and the one that was a better listener to what you had to say) and if your 100% positive you want your ex tell him how you feel about him and all. And if you want your boyfriend that you should dump tell him that your sorry and you were just confused and it won't happen again. Remember (obviously) it's you choice on what you do. Hope I helped! Good luck with your situation.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Well i think its only fair to take a break with your boyfriend. I think you should probably talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. Even if he has a girlfriend. It's better to tell him how you feel and see if he still likes you. But if there was a good reason you two broke up in the first place, remember that.
♥ nicole
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If you still have feelings for your ex, you should dump your current boyfriend. It's not fair to him. You wouldn't want to find out that he has feelings for someone else. As for the ex, tell your ex how you feel about him. If he shuns you, hey, at least you gave it a shot. It's better than regretting the things you never said. Good luck.
♥ Maria
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break up with your bf till you can give him all ur attention. this way you can have some space to think about your feelings
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Things like this happens to everyone. Write it down or talk it out witha friend or your ex. Give it some time and its always hard to forget about the past but move on. Or if you really want another try and really really think wait for the right time and ask him. good luck.
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It's normal to have feelings for your ex. I still do. But really you need to move on and get to know new people.
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Well since he is your ex.. you obvisouly had something with him but it didn't work out.. & now you have feelings for him.. and it's probaly because he has a girlfriend.. many girls get jealous even if there dating someone. because they don't want him to be happy because he dumped her or you just broke up! I have a feeling this jealously thing will go away.. and u'll realize that you don't like him anymore.. so just wait it out! that's what love is.. a waiting game!!
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HEY UMM WELL ii THiiNK THAT YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR EX HOW YOU FEEL AND THEN YOU SHOULD TALK TO YOUR BOYFRiEND AND YOU ALSO HAVE TO THiNK ABOUT HOW HES GOiNG TO FEEL iF YOU CHEAT ON HiM BUT i MEAN iF YOUR EX DOESNT LiKE YOU THEN YOU REALLY SHOULDNT WASTE YOUR TYME ON HiM BECAUSE HES GOiNG TO BE LiKE YEAH HAHA SHES NOT OVER ME YET AND STUFF AND HES GOiNG TO BE LiKE i CAN GET HER ANYTiME i WANT BUT i THiNK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO HiM AND iF HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND JUST TRY AND FORGET ABOUT HiM SLOWLY iTS GOiNG TO TAKE TYME iM LiKE THAT TO i STiLL HAVE FEELiNGS FOR MY EX BUT HE HAS A GiRLFRiEND AND i TOLD HiM HOW i FELT BUT HE JUST SAiD i LOVE YOU LiKE A HOMiE LOL! SO YEAH AND iM GETTiNG OVER HiM SLOWLY! iF YOU NEED TO TALK OR ANYTHiNG YOU CAN iM ME ON OOOS3Xii BABiiOO OR LILBUNIHUNED OR E-MAiL ME ON Xx3DiiNaxX@aol.com! HOPE i HELPED! XoXoDiiNA! ♥
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I feel the same thing you do. I'm pretty sad because me and my ex went out for about two years. Then we broke up all of a sudden. Now he has gone out with plenty of girlfriends since our breakup. All I have to tell you is wait. Thats what I'm doing. I've told him plenty of times that I still have feelings for him. But, keep your current boyfriend. You need to. I didn't because I didn't feel like my focus was on him. Don't worry, you aren't alone. If you have anything else to ask, IM me at beecuzzimcooool. Or email me. =)
Hope I helped <33
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