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help!
hey
my best mate introduced me to dean through msn. we have never met but we have kinda connected. we have been through the same kind of emotional problems and the other day he said we should meet up and talk about things properly. i really want to as i need to talk about my life. but im scared because i dont like the way i look. i am overweight. do you think that will matter.
i want to meet him because wen we speak to each other its like we know exactley what each other mean. he helped me to get over self harming and a broken heart and i helped him to get over his thoughts of suicide and depression so we are very close emotionally, we just have never met.
do you think it would be a good idea?
thanx
xx
*emz*
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Get your self some Niacin you can get it at any GNC or vitamin shop.
It is why suicidal patients get better. Look it up.
Its your only option Most people will be totally cured from depression im a matter of weeks.
I have tried every thing there is and this is the only thing that works.
Dont stop taking it. With out Niacin it is impossible to get better.
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well....you should tell him about you dont like the way u look...you said u talk 2 each ohter about problems..well tell him this problem .i think it wont really matter
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Hey, me and my boyfriend met online and we've been dating ever since! The outside doesnt matter its the inside. He wouldnt just say lets meet if he didnt care about you! Set up and time and date and dont worry!Rate me!
:->Michelle
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I think that your weight should never be in the way of what you truly want. If he doesn't like b/c of it, then he's just as stuck up as any old guy. But, I think that you two should meet b/c you sound like you like him. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
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Well yes and no, because you never know he could be a cereal killer, but um being over weight shouldn't get you down. He sounds really interested in you, just be careful if you do meet him you should bring a friend like somebody else said they would do. And your more beautiful inside than you'll ever be outside. You still probably are pretty. I'm a different kind of person I never say a chick is ugly unless I hate their dumb slutty asses. It's all good. You should feel confident about yourself and meet him, just be careful. Hope I helped! Good luck hope you two match.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Even if you are heavy you shouldnt worry about what other people think at all. If he turns away and doesnt like you then he is no good anyway so you should have nothing to worry about. But i mean you talked him out of commiting suicide you know? It shouldnt even phase him if you are a little over weight. Just go through with it girl! you two seem perfect for eachother then looks wont matter, remember: (that you dont know what he looks like either). So i think it is a great idea meet him and good luck to you!
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Yeah!!! I think it sounds like a great idea. If you two clicked on-line so well you should be able to do the same in person. If he really likes you for you, as it sounds, he wont care about how you look.
~*lil_froggy9*~
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NO. It's NOT a good idea to arrange to see someone you've met online. You have NO idea who this guy is. For all you know, "Dean" who says he's from Kansas could be a 45-year-old pervert in Petaluma. This girl I know who was 16 met up with this other 16-year-old guy online who helped her with her problems and stuff, much like your situation. They met up at a restaurant in California and he was really a 50-year-old and raped her. Just because your best mate introduced him doesn't make it safe. She could've met him online as well. Even if you live in a small town you may think "what's the harm? where I live nobody's really that dangerous." But the internet is available to everyone all over the world, and whoever you met online could easily take a plane from South Dakota to Oregon. PLEASE DO NOT meet up with this guy! People can wear all sorts of different masks on the Internet where nobody is face-to-face.
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Well, why didn't you say so? You just said that you were introduced 2 him on msn! You didn't say anything about primary school!
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if you guys totally clicked then you should definily meet him. if he is just like you personality wise then honestly it shouldn't matter what you look like. i kinda think it's better when people start talking before they actually see eachother, because you can get a good feel for the persons personality. and like if you two have so much in common than you should deffinitly meet and stuff. so good luck!
<333 much love
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that's great u both have so much in common and help each other, its also great you want to meet. the fact that he brought it up makes me think he wont care about ur appearence. if you are really worried wear something flattering to your body. most guys will chose a pretty nice girl over a hot ditzy girl. and that you have helped each other makes it that much easier =)
hope it helped!! best of luck with Dean
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Yes i think it would be a GREAT idea!!
I had the same thing happen a few months ago and im not exactly thin either and i was very very nervous at first but when we met eachother it was like nothing mattered!! it was really awesome becuase it was comfortable and the conversation flowed evertlessly!!
If youve helped each other thru so much i think its a great idea to finaly meet him!!
And dont worry about how you look...it sounds like this guy wouldnt care at all.
Good luck and have fun!!
=)
-*-Hanny-*-
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I think it is great if you want to meet. He is known by a friend. You may want to take someone with you the first time to help ease the awkwardness. I don't think how you look is going to be a big deal if you connected that well. Tell each other what you look like and be honest about it. So long as you don't make something up all will be fine. :)
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