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ya so people answered this question just so uk im the 14/m and just so uk im not some crazy killer rapist but w/e people can say wut they want and actually it is more stupid on my part b/c im the one meeting her and i dont have ne body to go w/me and no1 in my family would know if i went there b/c my mom works from 8 to 5:30 so u would be home by then so ya w/e
13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice.
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Well, some interenet guys that I talk to don't sound like creeps. But I've met some and oh my god they are ugly, rude, all fucking pigs. Ugh it's just so bad. I think your a smart person saying that you will bring a friend along because you aren't stupid. Yeah and just think he can be your knight and shining armor. But just remember your only 13 and he might be like 45 and if he showed you pictures he could have got them off the internet. The internet is a scary place believe me. It's smart to know the person meaning like meet them before you talk to them online. But it's ok you have strong feelings for him. It could all change when you meet him. Just be very careful. Hope I helped! Good luck hope you will be ok and meet the guy.
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Just tell a friend where you're going and who you're meeting. While my parents did know who I was meeting from online and where most of the time, I did use a friend from time to time. You can meet in a restaurant where there will be more people if it makes you feel more comfortable. I see nothing wrong with meeting people online and have done it 6 times so far, including meeting my husband online.
Good luck.
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you dont know what people are like online.
they can be lying to your face, and you wouldnt know it. i dont suggest that you do visit him, unless a friend or a parent was with you.
i also suggest that no matter what, you should NOT meet him alone.
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