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slut?
ok this might be long but i really need advice
ok this summer i went to an over night camp for about 5 weeks and i hooked up with a guy that is 3 years older then me. we kissed and held hands and sometimes he would touch my breasts and my ass and put his hand down my pants But one night it went a little to far and we had sex then the next day he broke up with me then he left to go back to his home and i was still @ camp Then all the guys at camp were asking me outa nd stuff and it made me feel special but then this one guy asked me out lets call him bob. I really like bob alot so i went out with him and stuff then one thing led to another and stuff and we had sex and it was so good but that was my last week at camp so i went home me and all my friends always hung out @ this ark down the street from me and stuff And then ppl started asking me if i wanted to come over to their house for the night and this kid that hangs out with us letrs call him dan started to grab my but and my breasts then they all come over to my hosue and everyone left exept dan and he came one to me and started to un zip my pants and shit and i ened up giving a blowjob...then 2 nights ago i slept over my friends house because my parents were gone for a night and they didn't trust me so i was in the guestroom and i guess it was about 2am and her older brother came into my room only in his boxers and i was just in my see thru thong with no shirt on and he started dto kiss me and touch me and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) and then we had sex it was the best! and then the next morning he came into the shower with me and we had sex agian and then he told everyone and now im called a Slut but im not really Am I? and boys touch my ass and breast and try to put there hands down my pants but i don't know...if i am a slut pllz give me ways that i can not become a slut. Thanx
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i don't think your a slut who cares wat people tell you just don't listin to them i just turned 14 and this kid Mike just turned 17 on December 6 and we have been not dating but Friend with a lot of benifits. and we were in bed last night because he is staying with me for a while cuz his rents are fighting and shit like that. and so he's living with us. and he wanted to finger me and i told him he could and i chickened out and he said i lied to him and then i don't think when i get pissed off and im like i hate you right now and then i walked a way and called him a bastered and he won't talk to me i know who u feel i get called a slut a hoe and a bitch all the freakin time im used to it that odd thing about it is how can people call me a slut when im a vergin and does it hurt the frist time?
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Woah.. well if you are a slut you cant just stop being one. People will always call you that. Honestlly, I'm not gonna call you a slut or anything but the things that you did with all those guys seem slutty. Its just def. wrong. I mean how old are you anyways?? Well I'm guessing you would have to be like eather 13-16 but still.. too young for that. Anyways, you should be glad that your friends are still on your side && that they are'nt calling you those names. If you want to stop being slutty and stop being called a slut then you need to stop doing those things. Dont just let people say shit to you like that. Stand up to them and say shut the fuck up. What I do is none of your god damb buisness. Oh.. and tell your friends brother that he needs to stop saying things to other people. I doubt he will tho because all guys HAVE to tell their buds about it. It makes them look "cool". Yeah its lame but still. So you're the only one that can help yourself stop being a slut. If you acually want to have sex && do all that other stuff, wait until you have a good boyfriend. Dont go from guy to guy. Just wait until that one guy comes along. You need to think of the things that could happen! You could end up getting pregant or getting some disease no matter how protected you think you are. Just always make sure you are 110% safe. Good luck to you!
-Teza
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sorry to break it to you but yeah your way way to easy. you let every guy who thinks your hott do sexual stuff with you. and this is leading down a really bad path for you. now some guys will just wanna be with you to get some. and thats a bad reputation to have.
-you need to stop having sex with every joe shmoe that comes into your life.
-you need to stop being so easy. play hard to get.
-you need to give off a vibe that your not a slut.
unless you want to be used and then stepped on change your ways and stop being a slut.
hope i helped :)
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yeah your most definately A SLUT!
there are some pretty obvious signs that your a big slut..here are just a couple:
-you take off your thong for a guy because hes hot..HMMMMM (cough) SLUT
-you have sex with these guys just for the thrill of doing it! there was no connection..you just
had sex with these guys who came on to you..
- your EASY yes, thats right..the guys come on to you because they know your easy and they want some ass
how do you not be a SLUT anymore?
learn to say NO you slut!
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Of course its slutty. You are having sex with random guys for the fun of it. and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) That right there really explains you well.. so what you are saying is if a guy is hot, yea i would have sex with him . You could get pregant or get a disease and i can honestly say, NONE of those guys would even care. You have just totalie ruined your rep. If you dont want to be called a slut anymore then stop sleeping around with guys. And another thing.. havent your parents ever thought you on how to say no? Because you could just simply say no to those guys who touch you. You see guys tell each other almost as much as girls tell each other, and when a guy sleeps with a girl and said it wasnt that hard to get you in bed then all his friends are going to do excatly what he did to get you in bed. All you can do now is just go clean and have no sex or do anything bad for a while to get your rep back.. good luck ♥//ALMA
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uh yeah listen to your self you are a slut you had sex with 4 guys! you proble have a std you should go get checked how old are you ne ways god sex sex sex is that all you do you need to learn to say no like saying no to drugs you need to say no to sex its not to long till you get pregent!
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Wow you idiot, a) you are a slut, b) your almost naked in someone elses house c)wtf is iyour problem?! oaky how can you not be a slut? how bout stop sleeping arouond ofor a change??? and if someone touches your ass and stuff know you had it coming and igonore it
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Well, to tell the truth if you keep on doing what your doing then you are a slut! Plain and simple. I know sex is pleasrable but if your not married then it could lead to problems like this that you don't wanna deal with. Thank God your not pregnant or have an STD.
Romans 6:13
Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer the parts of your body to him as instruments of righteousness. 14For sin shall not be your master, because you are not under law, but under grace.
I want you to know that Jesus Loves you so, so much and he wants you to let him into your heart. Yes you have sinned but Jesus can wipe that all away. He can make you whole, and pure again. Jesus doesn't think you are a slut. I know your wondering how could Jesus Love YOU???
But he does. If you wanna let him into your heart holla bac at me.
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hi. yes you are a slut. but thats ok all you have to do is first date the guy befor you have sex. also do not do it with 10 diffrent guys in 5 weeks. please wright back and rate me. also what is your age?
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well you shouldnt have sex with boys that easily, i mean you should at least wait til you're going out a while because if you dont they will take advantage of you. good luck please rate.
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well first you need to stop having sex with every cute guy that you see! then you need to not let them tough you all the time! doing what you did is actually acting like a slut! i think you need to go to the doctors and get checked out because you dont know if you have aids or std's or what from all these different guys! you need to get to know a guy first before you deside to kiss them or even tough! last dont just do everything a guy tells you to so because it makes you easy to get to (sex) and dont just wear a thong when you are at your friends house! thats disrespectful!
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to be realistic i can see why some people may get the impression that you are and if you were some1 that i knew i may think you were but people i know have done so much worse. and i dont think there is anyway to get rid of that reputation, if you stop doing that kind of stuff mabe the name will drop eventually, even though that might be hard
danni <3
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Don't want to to be called a slut? Then don't have sex with random guys for fun.
If you want to keep living your life this way, then you will have to come to terms with being called a slut by many people. If these are your decisions, then hold your head high. But if you are ashamed of yourself and don't want to be a slut, then stop sleeping around.
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Ok im not trying to be mean but I tkinda sounds slutty!....If you do thid stuff brcause your worried what the guy will say thatn just stop wo4rrying because people will respect you alot more if you refuse than just give in...guys see you as a piece of ass now not a girlfriend....you've dug yourselfn a deep hole but you can still get out if you just stop doing what you've been doing!...i know sex feels good nd all but you can live without it until you find a BOYFRIEND that you actually like alot and he likes you alot not for sex but for you!!! good luck nd i really hope i helped!! xoxo ♥
*caitie*
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