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ok now this is a question for guys


Question Posted Thursday August 4 2005, 11:39 am

0k wat do u like in a girl? do you like there eyes? body,boobs,personality?
what do you want your gf to be like?
plz answer my question!
i rate high!
btw im 13 and oh yeah whats like the age range or w.e that you pick a girl in?
thankz


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poa answered Thursday August 4 2005, 1:27 pm:
Honestly, I look for intelligence, personality, and a good sense of humor. Then if shes attractive ~ thats a bonus. I went along with the crowd and got into a completely meaningless relationship at a young age. Until you get older and closer to settling down yourself, its almost not worth it to get into a relationship. Once you are moved out to a place where you plan to stay ~ or go to college, then you won't have to neccescarily worry about losing the person to those kind of things. A relationship at the age of 13 (Or ~ I've even see it go down as far as Eight) is definitely for the most part pointless. And trust me, don't even think about it that early. People at that age are very uncommitted and you will more than likely find yourself seeking a new relationship all the time like a pothead seeks his leafy greens ~ kind of addicted to keeping up your image.

Don't bother, enjoy your childhood and don't get involved in all that romance until you are actually ready.

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Real4Christ07 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:40 pm:
You shouldn't shrive to be a people pleaser all the time. Be yourself. Be who you are. If you try and change and make yourself into something your not you'll end up hating who you are and the guys you do hook-up with won't be about nothing and they'll treat you wrong and then you'll be the one looking stupid and being hurt. If you be yourself the right guy for you will come along and give you the love and respect you deserve. Just make sure that you stay clean and like how you look when you leave the house. Confidence is sexy. Wear it!
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way

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X_Amanda_X answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:27 pm:
I'm not a guy but knowing all my guy friends.......all normal guys look at body and boobs because they are so perverted

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TheOldOne answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:21 pm:
Different boys look for different things in a girl. All of the things you mentioned are factors for every boy.

That's because they all indicate a woman's potential to conceive, bear, and raise a healthy baby. Even personality is a factor. On a very basic level in the human brain, what we're all looking for is a mate to produce the best baby possible. That's elementary biology.

And the same thing is true for women, by the way.

Of course, in our CONSCIOUS minds we're not necessarily thinking about that. But in the end, attractiveness is about reproduction.

That said...I think that one of the most influential factors is a smile. I knew a girl who always had a gentle smile on her face - not a huge grin or anything, just a smile. There were DOZENS of boys who were crazy in love with her, while prettier girls got much less attention.

As for age range, at your age I'd strongly recommend against dating boys more than a year older or younger than you. And I hope I don't need to tell you this, but sex at your age is a really bad idea - you're honestly not ready for it. Well, physically you are - you could almost certainly get pregnant, although you're not completely mature, physically - but mentally, you're still making the transition from childhood to womanhood.

Please wait - it's worth it.

At a later age (18 and older), I've seen successful relationships between people whose ages differ by ten years or more - with the male OR the female as the elder. It's not a big deal.

Good luck!

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LoveNJstyle answered Thursday August 4 2005, 12:15 pm:
guys taste in girls varies like girls taste in guys vary. some guys love a lot of personality and some guys like anyone who will give it up to them, see what i mean? just be yourself and the guys will be all over you trust me. i used to think it was inportant to fill the mold and i gradually dropped it and i have a lot more guys liking me now. what they want theyre gfs to be like: nice! some girls are so mean to them... they end up dumped. hope that helps even if im not a guy! <3

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hyperhottiegirl answered Thursday August 4 2005, 11:42 am:
u like there personality

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