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blech... boys
Long one get ready for it-
So I was out with a group of friends at a party and I had to wait for someone outside so I'm waiting and all of a sudden I hear the door slam and there's this guy Adam, and his friends locked him out of the house. So we sat out there for like twenty minutes talking waiting for his friedns to let him back in. And he was pretty cool, so after the party I'm standing with my friend Callie, Adam asks one of us to call him to see if his cell's working I don't have one so Callie does. They trade numbers and she eventually gets a crush on him(this is over 2 months or so). But then he tells her he's gay & of cousre she tells me, so they became just friends.
Then apparantly a month ago there was this girl and she "turned him straight." And now he's telling Callie he likes me, in her words "serious relationship likes you." And I don't know what to do. He's cool and all, but I'm not quite sure about the whole once gay thing, he claims he's not bi either. And also since he's not gay Callie seems to be a little jealous.... WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Oh yeah and I'm a fifteen year old doll.
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well my friend was straight and then he turned gay so i guess it could work the other way around sound like yall really liked each other from the beginig so if he likes you go for it and if you like him of coarse and for your friend callie real friends dont let guys come b/t them so hope i helped love talktome224
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Well i can see your whole point on tha being gay thing because not many people wanna go out with someone after they've been gay. But if you truly likes you then i guess you could give it a shot IF you like him. If not i would just be really good friends.. gay guys do make good friends lol ;] hope i helped =]
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dont go out with him you can never be to sure and just tell callie that it will never happen betwin you and the gay guy
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Well, if you ask me, he sounds like a jerk who when he doesn't like girls, hes too much of a chicken to turn them down, so he tells them hes gay.
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Young kids enjoy fads.
Homosexuality was a fad.
But then again - if you are a whore maybe you are too.
If you aren't, then I would still worry, because that means hes bisexual.
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It's normal for teenagers to question their sexuality. Most of the time it's not acted on and the guy or girl just moves on from it.
Rather than hurt your friendship, I would suggest neither you or Callie date this guy unless you can get past any jealousy issues. If Callie says she doesn't mind and you feel you would be comfortable in a relationship with this guy, I see no reason why you shouldn't go for it. If you have reservations, either because you don't think he's made up his mind or because you think it might hurt your friendship with Callie, I would wait before making a decision.
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UHM DOLL. Hell no don't fucking call me doll.. i think you should go stick your dildo up him but hole.
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i*m kinda getting a vibe that he was never gay that he just told callie that so she wouldn*t get too involved. I think you should tell him how you feel n maybe ask questins you don*t have answered. sry i prolly didn*t help <3chelsea
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Well, if she is really your friend, she will understand. Also, you have to aks him to make sure that he's not gay because you don't want to be the one who goes out with him, and then he rediscovers he's gay. That's a major self-esteem downer. So, make sure he is alright, and then again, your friend will get over it. He seems to be fine from what you said. (also, it wasn't that long)
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I don't think that being a homosexual is something you can recover from like that. I believe you either ARE or ARE NOT, and that's JUST THE WAY IT IS. Perhaps he was mistaking or simply jumping to conclusions when he labelled himself homosexual. Perhaps he was only bisexual, or even "bi-curious", when his tastes and views changed; this can easily happen. However, I think that you need to find out from HIM how he feels about you. You can ASSUME his feelings alllllllllllllllll you want, but that's ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL it will EVER be - an ASSUMPTION. If you REALLY wanna know EXACTLY what's in his heart, you need to make shore that these answers are coming straight from HIM, and not some third party. Hopefully everything goes as hoped. =]
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It sounds like he may have never have really been gay but he liked you and not your friend and didn't want to hurt her feelings. I have never heard of a guy just becoming straight after a girl turned him...but you never know maybe he wasn't gay that long and realized it wasn't who he wanted to be. So I would talk to him about relationships, maybe not too much about gayness because he might feel weird talking about it.
Hope I helped
<3 Heather
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