I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him?
TakeItFromMeBaby answered Monday July 25 2005, 4:19 pm: Some guys like hoes. This guy seems like he does (if he likes your friend) so you MIGHT want to just straight out start making out with him if you think he would like that.
pooper answered Monday July 25 2005, 12:02 pm: you should just forget about it..find someone new while shes preoccupied with him. you cant change the way he feels damnit. and if the only reason he likes her better is because shes a SLUT, then hes a doosh anyway. [ pooper's advice column | Ask pooper A Question ]
Orlandoxluva answered Sunday July 24 2005, 4:26 am: you need to flirt leae him wanting more forget about your friend because if she acts all desperate then he's just gonna get annoyed and she'll make herslef look a fool with you just try and flirt a little like go up to him and pretend to bump into him but at the same time touch him like his arm and just be playful don't be to full on but go with the flow and bingo your in there hope i helped sophie [ Orlandoxluva's advice column | Ask Orlandoxluva A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday July 23 2005, 11:31 pm: ok .. first off .. act sweet ..like play ditsy.. like your friend .. i have a friend like that.. an when im around her she wants to hook up with guys.. the guys will go to her looking for like sex ..if you want that act like your friend .. but if you want the guy to like you .. show them somthing more like you care.. be sweet give them a little somthing make out but .. like you sayed ur friends a hoe, dont be like her ... i hope this helps if u need anymore help on this ... you can ask me ... hope i helped [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
LilShorty972 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 10:18 pm: If i was you i would flirt! just talk to him and hang out w/ him but dont throw yourself at him. And if he likes hoe then he isnt worth it
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Avocodo answered Saturday July 23 2005, 9:29 pm: dont risk it, you dont want a bad reputaion for a guy you only kind of like. also you dont want to ruin things with your friends. i think you should just let it go and try to find someone else. anyway if you really like him and want to take this risk then just take baby steps like flirting.but never just start making out with a guy, if you have to do that to get a guy, then that guy isnt right for you. [ Avocodo's advice column | Ask Avocodo A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 8:48 pm: No dont throw yourself at this guy.. just try talking to him like a normal human being.. if he cant respect that and wants a hoe like your friend then he wasnt no good for you anyways.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Saturday July 23 2005, 8:44 pm: flirt with him, but don't make yourself out to be something you're not! it won't be worth it in the end. if you are really good friends with this girl (which it appears you aren't, because you called her a hoe), but if you are..don't do anything that would ruin your friendship with her. relationships don't always last forever..and who knows you could end up with this guy, go out with him for a week, break up and then not have your friend because you made her mad since you went out with him! ask her if she likes him, or if she would mind if you went out with him! if she says that she doesn't like him, but then ends up going out with him you have a right to be mad! Good Luck! [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
ItzMzManda answered Saturday July 23 2005, 8:00 pm: Try talking to him and getting closer to him. Flirt with him, but dont act too much of a hoe. Play around with him like hold his hand or whenever you see him give him hugs or his on the cheek. Dont act like a hoe...dont change yourself to be his kind of girl. Be yourself and if your friend tries to do anything just grab his attention. Try getting him to hang out with you more. Dont invite friends to go with you guys and if things start to change and you think he likes you then ask him what his feelings are towards you and them you tell him. Dont straight out make out with him cuz then he's gonna treat you like a hoe and think your not serious. Dont tell your friend that you like him cuz she's try even harder to bring you down to be with him. Jus hearing about your friend she sounds like a hoe no offense. Hope this helps!
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