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Q: I don't know if I'm going through a phase or not, but I have just suddenly been feeling EXTREMELY self/consious.

I feel SO ugly, SO fat, SO unpopular, and everything else teenagers feel, except all at the same time. (And yeah, I've heard the "Don't worry about whats other think" routine.) I just hate myself. I hate the way I act, look, and am period. I dont think I'll EVER got a boyfriend that's actaully not a geek. I never felt this way before, but all these emotions are coming at me!!! What do I do?!?!?!

it's just hormones..don't worry bout it

Q: this might be long so ill do it in bullet points ha ha
1) i think i like my best boy mate
2) BIG problem hes movin to live in australia
3) i REALLY REALLy dont want him to go

i want him sooo much like sexually as well as in a boyfriend way. im gettin the train alone with him tomorow (usually wid a bunch of mates)
i really want to tell him how i feel and kiss him

so i need help pretty fast...
wat would you boys do if your best girl mate turned round and kissed you .. like full on?
thanx emma xoxox

k..i'ma girl..I say...GO 4 IT!

Q: I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him?

say,"hey next time you don't have to make a shot to win a prize from me"

Q: Ok. Me and my friends are working on a movie and we only have 3 people including me. We each have a lot of parts. Should we get more people? O yah? Do you think making a movie and sending it to Hollywood would make people like have a career in acting like the famous people? Can you give me some tips?

you should get more peeps. truly. I think you should get an agent and then you can get famous. If u want to be in commercials and modeling and films, I suggest going 2 commercialkids.com

Q: I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =(

you are just the same as many of us females. I got my period when I was 9 and I had to put a tampon in then! It always hurts at the beginning, But I promise It gets a lot better later.It is actually good for it to hurt at the beginning, it means it is in far enough.oh, and, actually, the hardest and most painful part is when you pull it out. Short story, I was at a pool party when I got it. I carried a tampon with me in my purse. I put it in and it didn't hurt. well, I jumped in and it fell out. That is why it is Good for it to hurt. oh, it will always be a little uncomfortable. Hope I helped =)

Q: I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me.

God always forgives his children. I have personally made mistakes in my life and I come from a EXTREME Catholic family. You will be accepted into heaven as long as you believe in him. I suggest going to confession and confessing your sins.

Q: ok so ive had a crush on this guy since my freshmen year (Kyle). And then i find out from a friend (Jason) that Kyle's intrested in me too, and he thinks i am cute, has a good personality.. blah blah blah. But as i'm asking Jason about all this he says Kyle is confused and he doesn't know if he wants a relationship! what am i suppose to do? This guy doesn't really know how crazy i am about him. But i mean, how do i get him to think of me as more then a friend? PLEASE SEND WHATEVER ADVICE U GOT! haha thanks!

I had the same problem. Go up to HIM and get the straight facts. ask him whats goin on

Q: Everyone at my school is calling me fat! The last time I checked the scale I weighed 144 pounds! But I gain weekly! I hate my weight! I am very self consious and I've tryed diets but they haven't been working. So lately I have been making myself throw up after very meal! Is it really that harmful? This seems like my last resourt! What should I do! My friends are worrying sick about me! The only thing wrong with this is that it makes me feel kindly weak! But mostly when I get hot or something! What should I do?

OMG! YOU ARE BELIMIC! YOU NEED TO STOP NOW! YOU COULD END UP THROW UP YOUR ORGANS AND CRAP LIKE THAT! stop now!

Q: i recently went on vacation to visit my brother. my brother is a marine. so i met other marines and i met one of his friends and we hit it off. the problem is that i have a boyfriend of 9 years. we have three kids together. but i have no sexual intrest in him at all. i felt this way before i went on vacation. we are supposed to be getting married in july. what should i do??

OKay sweetie, u are obviously havin problems and I really want to help. U need to stay with u're old boyfriend. I see no point in leaving your boyfriend for this guy you just met. I think your kids need their father and He obviously needs you. Hope I helped! Put it on my feedback.

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I love romance questions. I have had soo many boyfriends and experiances (even a boyfriend that turned gay) that I have basically a answer to every question you give me.