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Question Posted Wednesday June 1 2005, 12:01 am

I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me.

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melmel88 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 8:55 pm:
IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO REPENT!! GOD ALWAYS HAS A PLACE FOR U IN HIS HEART YOUR NAME IS WRITTEN ON HIS HANDS!! if u ask him to forgive your sins, he will. i am a very strong 13 year old christian and i hope you become a christian and go to heaven!! PRAY!!!!

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MD_Girl101 answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:17 pm:
No matter what you have doen god will forgive you.If you have exepted Jesus christ into you heart then you will go to heaven.The only way is through him.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101

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DancinCutie08 answered Friday July 8 2005, 5:48 pm:
as ive heard god will forgive you for anything whenever, even for the worst crimes god is always there and loves you

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GodRockz91 answered Friday July 8 2005, 12:46 pm:
No, God is a very understanding God, he'll always except you, Just pray and ask the Lord to forgive you, and to make you whole, and he will show you who you are in Christ, God is always with you .. Im here if you have any futher questions on this type of thing ..
Love Always in Christ,
Trint

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tasuki answered Thursday July 7 2005, 8:52 pm:
You don't need a husband to be a complete person. Focus less on that and more on being a good mother. Most people believe that God will always forgive you. I believe that no God would punish His or Her people. I think that whole Heaven/Hell thing is sick. There's nothing wrong with being a single mother. MEN are trying to bring you down, MEN are trying to opress you and control you. That's why MEN tell you that your lifestyle is wrong. Even God is depicted as a MAN, and guess what else? MEN wrote the Bible! You're a woman. DON'T LET ANYBODY CONTROL YOU. And don't worry about getting to Heaven until you're dead. -.^

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dancergirl678 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 3:04 pm:
it is never too late for God! He tries your whole life to get you to turn to Him. If you really seek forgiveness and ask Him for it, the Bible says that He will remember your past sins no more. Even though you have made a lot of mistakes, it's doesn't mean that you can't accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and not be let into heaven. Think of the apostle Paul...he lived his whole life persecuting christians, and he even murdered hundreds of them! but while he was on his way to another city to persecute more, Jesus appeared to him and said *saul saul why do you persecute me* and made him blind for 3 days until he accepted Christ. after than he changed his name to paul *saul means tall, paul means small* and he began preaching and spreading the good news of Jesus around.
everything happens for a purpose...maybe you made those mistakes so you could see how much you really need God in your life. the Bible says that God will NEVER leave you nor forsake you.
God is the great shepherd, and you were one of His lost sheep. He keeps trying to find you, and once He does, He'll never let you go

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XxKaTiExLeIgHxX answered Monday July 4 2005, 12:14 pm:
It is never too late for God to forgive you. God forgives many people for many things. But you cant just all the sudden be like " God Im sorry for what I have Done Please forgive me " This takes time. So I suggest every night say this " God, Please forgive me for what I might have done today and forgive me of the sins I have made today, I hope I can become more in touch with you God, By trying harder each and every day to not make thoes sins. Amen " You need to pray. Also Dont put yourself around people who do bad things, like swear, smoke, drink, fight, steal, etc. Surround yourself with people who are christian. If you dont stand up for something you will Fall for anything. If you dont stand up for God and say " YES I AM A PROUD CHRISTIAN AND I LOVE THE LORD FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE FOR ME " you will never truely understand the worth of God. And its not just even about saying it, you have to truely believe it, or else it means nothing. I say go to chruch every sunday, and pray every day. You have to believe in God and understand what has happened. So Read the Bible also if you havent already. But dont just read it, Do it. Live by it. Understand it. When I first found out like really found out about God, I was sitting in church and we were singing these 2 songs, and it hit me, This, this is what its about, this is the feeling im supposed to get, and I knew i had just finally been saved. the 2 songs were-Prince Of Peace, and -We Fall Down, Ill Give you the lyrics-
We Fall Down:

We fall down
We lay our crowns
At the feet of Jesus
The greatness of mercy and love
At the feet of Jesus
We cry holy, holy, holy
We cry holy, holy, holy
We cry holy, holy, holy
Is the lamb

Prince Of Peace:-the guys sind the regular the girls sing the parentheses (sp)

You are holy (you are holy)
You are mighty (you are mighty)
You are worthy (you are worthy)
Worthy of praise (Worthy of praise)
I will follow (I will follow)
I will listen (I will listen)
I will love you (I will love you)
All of my days (All of my days)

-Men-
I will sing to
And worship
The Kingdom is worthy
I will love and adore Him
And I will bow down before Him
And I will sing to and worship the Kingdom is worthy
And I will love and adore
And I will bow down before Him
Youre my prince of peace
And I will live my life for You

-Women-
You are the Lord of Lords
You are the King or Kings
You are mighty God
Lord of everything
Youre Emmanuel
Youre the great I Am
Youre the Prince of Peace
Who is the Lamb
Youre the living God
Youre my Saving Grace
You will reign Forever
You are ancient of days
You are Alpha Omega
Beginning and End
Youre my Savior, Messiah
Redeemer and Friend

-Both sing-
Youre my Prince of Peace,
And I will live my life for you

I hope this helps you, remember its never too late, you just have to dedicate and give your life to him. Much Love. ♥

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CAPTAINKJ618 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 3:58 pm:
I dont know but if you have ever heard the song "take you back" by jeremy camp...it talks about how no matter how many mistakes you make god will always forgive you and take you back..... From personal experiences i can tell u he is amazing...he odoesnt care about your past...you just have to believe that he is your personal savior and he is the only way to get to heaven.

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rkgurl13 answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 6:20 pm:
yes he will forgive you but that is only if you really love him and comite your self to god and try to get a christen counselor or something like that. and if you have gotten your life turnd around then that is good.
hope i helped
rkgurl13
ps. what church do you go to if you do go to church?

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RocksBabyGirl993 answered Monday June 13 2005, 10:38 pm:
God always forgives his children. I have personally made mistakes in my life and I come from a EXTREME Catholic family. You will be accepted into heaven as long as you believe in him. I suggest going to confession and confessing your sins.

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SecretWhispers answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 3:15 pm:
Did you know that in the bible, there was this man named Paul. His name was orginally saul before he was saved. He used to persecute christians and had a lot of mistakes. Then, God filled his life, and became a christian, and recieved the gift of eternal life in heaven. There was a king named David in the old testament who made numerous mistakes, but God had still loved him. Even God's people, the Isrealites, Sin over and over and over again, yet God kept forgiving them! Surely, if he could forgive them of that, God can easily forgive you. He loves you no matter what mistakes you make, and as long as you have him in your heart, and accept him, and ask for him to forgive those mistakes, you will join him in heaven someday. In Acts 2:38-39 it states, 38Peter replied, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. 39The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off—for all whom the Lord our God will call.". You are one of his children, and can be forgiven. If you need more extensive help on this subject, I strongly suggest attending a church or talking to a pastor of a church nearby.

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Mackenzie answered Thursday June 2 2005, 1:29 pm:
I think you should woRRie LESS about what "GOD" thinks, and just concentRate on maintaining and happie and healthy life foR youRself and youR little ones...

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LoveNJstyle answered Thursday June 2 2005, 4:58 am:
if you truely want to be forgiven, im sure god will accept your plea. no, its never too late to start...God's been waiting for you. go to a local church and im sure they wil welcome you in and tell you that you can be forgiven. <3

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mylordwon answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:27 pm:
Edit after comments: Well, sister, let me encourage you in this. Remember King David? He lusted after another man's wife, then had the husband murdered so he could cover up his sin and have her. So David commited adultry, he coveted, murdered, lied and yet God forgave him. Why? Because he prayed this with all his heart:

Psa 51:10-12 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit.

And here is what God said about David:

Act 13:22 And when he had removed him, he raised up David to be their king, of whom he testified and said, 'I have found in David the son of Jesse a man after my heart, who will do all my will.'

God is interested in where your heart is. Judging from the concern in your question, I would say your heart is tender and open. Give it to Him to mold and shape you. James 4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

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FunnyCide answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 6:42 pm:
It is absolutely NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER too late to be forgiven by God! I am a devout Christian, and I know people who have been in your situation or have made similar choices. No, I can't say that you made "right" choices, but you can be forgiven. You've made a serious step towards that! You've recognized that you made mistakes. You know you need God's forgiveness, and you're asking if it's too late. It's NOT too late. God will forgive you in a heartbeat! Jesus once walked, talked, and forgave a prostitute for her sins, He will do the same for you. I have made mistakes, too. No, I don't have children; but I've sinned nonetheless. God wants to forgive you. You must accept His free gift of eternal life by asking Jesus Christ to come into your heart and be your Savior. If you're not already a Christian, please pray to God and ask Him to come into your life and be your Savior. Once you've done this, ask Him to forgive you. I'm sure God appreciates specific and detailed pleas, but He knows your heart - you are entitled to be as vague as you wish. If you're not a Christian, please pray the following prayer and mean it with all your heart:


God,
I'm a sinner. I know I've sinned against You. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. I want You to send Your Son to live in my life and be my Savior forever. Thank You, Lord.
Amen



If you prayed that prayer with all of your heart and soul and mind - you are a born again daughter of Christ. If you've done this, I welcome you into the family, Sister. If you need a bit more time, please pray and think hard about this decision. You never know when your life will be taken from you. Don't wait! This is a free gift of eternal life! You will go to live in Heaven with Jesus when He ressurects the Church. I wont go into details, because it's very confusing (at least for my simple mind).


Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. But in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. - Psalms


I wish I could remember the reference for that verse, but I can't. I've memorized it, though.


A good idea, if you're a new Christian, is to begin studing God's Word - the Bible. Begin reading Matthew, Mark, Luke or John and pray on what you are reading and let God take control of your life.


I am praying for you, friend. Do not hesitate to ask if you have any more questions.

In Christ,
-FunnyCide

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HeathaAa answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 4:30 pm:
God always forgives you for your mistakes.. everybody makes them!! To truley be forgiven in the catholic faith (i don't know what religion you are, but thats what i am) you should go to confession & tell a priest your sins. He'll clear your slate. God doesn't accept you into Heaven based on your mistakes he does it if you are a BELIEVER and a LOVER of Christ.

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>_Ashlie!_< answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 1:43 pm:
it is ever too late to ask God for forgiveness. just tell him that you believe that he sent his one and only son to die for your sins, and that he was raised from the dead on the 3rd day and that you know you are a sinner and you want him to forgive you and that you want him to come into your life, and he will glady do that. then find a church home somewhere near you so that they can help you grow in Him.

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zapreth answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 1:07 pm:
God is the Father and His love is unconditional. If you truely believe and are honest in your desire for forgiveness, you ARE forgiven. God doesn't have a problem forgiving our sins. We have a harder time forgiving ourselves.

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sweetcountrybabe answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 10:37 am:
You need to ask God to come into your heart and to be your savior. Admit to your sins and let him know you believe Christ. After you do this you will be saved and you will not need to worry anymore. Everyone that is saved will go to heaven! God bless.

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chaos answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 10:17 am:
It is never too late to turn back to God. Look at the thief on the cross next to Jesus, he was forgiven. Find a local church that you like and start talking to the pastor/priest. Once you get involved you will start feeling better.
Even if you don't decide to be Catholic, look up St. Mary of Egypt. She did bad things, but later turned into a Saint. May God Bless you.

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cailoisa answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 9:28 am:
I think that you a preacher could answer a lot of your questions. They are all very caring and very sensitive about such situations. Even if you are not a member of a church, call one and see if you can get some time to talk to the reverend. I believe that he/she would be able to answer all of your questions, and really help you out.

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vodooRomance182 answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 4:35 am:
im not going to preach to you im going to be as real as possible. sins are a big thing and they are what keep us from god everyday mistakes keep us away from god but now that your seeing that and you wanna change theres no possible way god could keep you out of heaven! pray on this to him and give him all your hurt and sin but never walk around thinking you wont make it into heaven. your friendly neighborhood -Flash

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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 1:26 am:
No, no, no! Its definately not too late! God is thrilled to be in your heart & glad that you have let him into it. No one is perfect and people make mistakes. Ask God for foregiveness and keep things right from now until forever. I'm sure theres a good church in your area that will be good to go to to learn more about God and your religion. There will be TONS of welcoming people there, and different groups (I'm sure there will be some kind of Single Moms class that will help you out). I know at my church they have all kinds of stuff for the different groups, and they're always getting together and either doing luncheons, or having retreats to get away and learn more about God (I'm a Southern Baptist, Christian). If you aren't regularly attending a church, its something positive to get involved in and a great atmosphere. And if you ever need any help, you can always talk to your Pastor about problems, or if you need to open up. Good luck!
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3__oNLyiNadReaM__3 answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 1:09 am:
It doesn't matter how many times you sin or if you don't believe in him. God loves all of his children. He will still love you. I'm proud of you for turning you life around and I'm sure God is too. Just make sure to pray and let God know your love for him.God will forgive you!

x0x-Sarah

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TimeOfYourLife answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 12:29 am:
God loves you for you, not the mistakes you've made. Of course he'll forgive you, but only if you ask for forgiveness. Being Baptized is always a good start.

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MFS answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 12:26 am:
It is not up to any person to tell you if God forgives you. In fact, I think it is pretty well documented that one of God's big things is that whole forgiveness to whose who seek it.

You say you've turned your life around - do you believe that? It seems to me that you still question it - do you feel you should have done something different to seek forgiveness? Do you feel you havne't done enough? Or are you at peace with your decisions and feel that you can reconcile what's happened and move forward from here?

My thought would be that you have 2 kids, you're actively seeking reconcilliation, and you feel that you're now on the right course in life... What more could any God ask of you?

I mean, I don't like to toss around the whole "sin" word because I feel it overused... we live our lives, and we're given the ability to make our own decisions, including screwing up. If we screw up and learn from it, then we've got something... if we screw up and continue to do so, we've learned nothing, and we've got very little.

You've got something.

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