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i am 13 years old and i have been thru alot so i give great advice so ask me stuff!!o-and i am a very strong christian!! hope mah advice helps ya!
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k well u see, my 'friend' seems to be having more mood swings and i dont think that she loves me as much as she used to. but i dont know how to ask her and what to say. and thats the problum i dont know what to say. should i just ask her if she loves me anymore, or should i not say anything? but maby her mood swings may lead us two the different direcion. maby i should ask her if she wants to move to the next level or shall we just move on ourselves. do u think a shall start loving a man?! that will be different for thy heart! but maby i shall start to move on too! well i musn't keep you too long... answer SOON!!!
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well my friend...i am very sorry about yer friends mood swings...i rele am..but i htink its time 4 you 2 move on with your life and date a MAN....ok?? i think u and this 'friend' of yours should just stay...well...rele good 'friends' but u should rele date a man now, ok?? tell me how it goes!!good luck??


ahhhhhhh! I AHTE MYSELF LIKE THIS!! pleeeeeese help me i need mager help!! i'm not fat but like my butt really is.....HUGE!! well anyway, my butt wont even fit in to the biggest size thonge at ANY store i have ben to!! do u know of any diets i should go on?
I NEED MEDICAL HELP!! (link)
i am rele rele sry about your...butt issue...i think you should just...keep your butt that way! no1 rele looks at your butt...that much?? sry lol this probly doesnt help!! but i have herd thongs arent very comfterble any ways so you arent rele missing out that much..lol...thongs r ment 4 skinny butts...i am rele sry..lol thats all i kno..mayb there is some diet?? i dunno..my recommendation is that you eat lots and lots of canteloe and less of apples!! thats just my personal oppinion just b/c thats me! anyways hope this helps!
--melmel88--


how do u make cheese cake???????????????????????

(b/c it is gooey) (link)
niice sammi lol well...i am not rele sure...i guess u just smush cheese until it tastes yummy n put it in a pie crust?? try it out~hahaha..tell me how it goes....
--melmel88--


I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
welll i do believe in God n all that y shouldnt u believe it?! i mean-you dont actually believe in the scientific way this earth was created, do you?! seriously!! God luvs you very much and he created you so i hope you realize he is real or else there are EXTREME consequences if you dont believe in him!! hopefully you know that!!well..hope this is wut u wanted 2 hear...
--melmel88--


what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>?? (link)
i am a christian and dog gone proud of it!! i think thats wut u wanted...


a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen. (link)
well heres wut i think of it...having cancer is a bad thing...no duh, rite!! but dying is a bad hting 4 us but a good thing 4 them..if they kno the Lord, because they go 2 heaven!! so dont cry n be all mad about it, be happy!! because my dad died so i kno how u feel in a way!! i am rele rele sad!! so just dont get mad at God! he was just rele eager 2 c yer friend so he took her rite then and is wit her rite now!! feel better soon! hope this encorages you!--melmel88--


I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.


I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~ (link)
the trinity is the father, the son and the holy spirit..the father is God and the son is Jesus, in case you didnt know. i hope this is wut u wanted!!--melmel88--


i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God. (link)
he will help yu thru it just trust him for he knows your future and has it all planne out so just take it one day at a time!! hope it helps!!


Since I was five and up until I was ten, there was a man that used to abuse me and my bedridden mother. Finally when I was ten years old, my mother kicked him out. A few years after that, I was taken out of my mother's house, and am now living with my 30 year old sister, and her fiance. Anyway, off of the background. a couple years ago, I had a dream that I would run into the abuser guy, and then I did! Nothing bad happened to me that time, but now I'm having nightmares about him again! I'm afraid, because the nightmares are worse than last time, and I'm afraid something really bad might happen. What should I do??? I know dreams don't always mean something, but it's been happening for three nights now. I'm really frightened. :O (link)
if you are scared just remember that yu are nvr alone. God is always wit u no matter wut happens. he always is and always will b and dont u 4get it!! God knows your future, so go to him in prayer and ask him to protect you, and tell him yu are worried!! thats al i have!! may God bless you!!--melmel88--


Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help! (link)
y do u wanna become a buddist?? there is only one God and that is hte one who created the heavens and the Earth..so worship the rite one and stay out of trouble wit yer mom and become a christian pleez!! i am not tryin 2 put words in yer mouth but its the rite choice..and yu asked 4 help


Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this? (link)
i think its not the end of the world yet..its the end of the world on this earth when Jesus comes down from Heaven and takes all his ppl bak to heaven so NO its not the end of the world yet...when THAT happens...it is..hopes this makes sense...


ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.
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you have NEVER missed your chance to be saved!! you can ask God yourself in prayer!! just tell him youd like to be saved and have eternal life and he will do it in his time!!NEVER doubt God! he has control in your life and he will make it all alrite in the end if u believe in him!!
hope it helps!! xoxo---melmel88--


I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me. (link)
IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO REPENT!! GOD ALWAYS HAS A PLACE FOR U IN HIS HEART YOUR NAME IS WRITTEN ON HIS HANDS!! if u ask him to forgive your sins, he will. i am a very strong 13 year old christian and i hope you become a christian and go to heaven!! PRAY!!!!


i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?
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i am having that same problem!! just read the bible and try to understand it...pray every nite b4 u go 2 bed, and ask God how you can get to know him bettter..and he should let you know somehow...he is God and he wwill set it rite!! thats wut i've dun!! and repent of your sins...and al that 2. i would ask your pastor or youth group leader..hope it helps!! GROW CLOSER TO GOD!!i will pray 4 ya!
xoxo --melmel88--


I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again. (link)
you just need to get to know God, so he can make your problems all better! if you havent been ASKING God to help u, he wont..the bible says "ask and it shall be given...seek and yee shall find...knock and the door shall be opened unto you, opened in Gods time...yee have not because yee ask not...so seek and yee shall find...for the LORD gives good things in his time" so u just need 2 ask God in prayer!! i hope it helps!! o-and they arent shoving God in your face-he is the answer to your problems....so they are trying to help!! just try to listen and if you dont understand, then tell them that!! okie dokie?? rele hope it works out 4 ya!! --melmel88--


Does the ouija board really work?bb (link)
well, it does work, but you are messing with the wrong stuff!! that board thing is like a demon!! so dont mess wit it--it will mess wit u!! NO JOKE




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