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i recently went on vacation to visit my brother. my brother is a marine. so i met other marines and i met one of his friends and we hit it off. the problem is that i have a boyfriend of 9 years. we have three kids together. but i have no sexual intrest in him at all. i felt this way before i went on vacation. we are supposed to be getting married in july. what should i do??
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...My opinion may be worth nothing, but I honestly think you should stick with your boyfriend. I mean...you've been going out with him for 9 years. and you two have three kids together. Don't make it hard for you kids future, and don't brake your boyfriends heart. This guy you just met....is nothing compared to your boyfriend. Just do what your heart feels. hope you make the right decision and hope i helped.
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OKay sweetie, u are obviously havin problems and I really want to help. U need to stay with u're old boyfriend. I see no point in leaving your boyfriend for this guy you just met. I think your kids need their father and He obviously needs you. Hope I helped! Put it on my feedback.
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hey well my advice for you is to tell the guy that your about to marry that u have no sexual interest in him no more and tell him what happened with the guy because if you end up not getting married wit him and then you dont tell him what happened he's goin to think that you left him cause of the other guy and.. is really going to be hard for your 3 kids but if their old enough tell them what happened and if they are not then just tel them that things are not workin out with their daddy. I wish you the best and good luck!!
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Hey if you dont love him anymore then you shouldnt go through with the marriage. but you say you ahve 3 kids are they young? it may be hard on them. maybe try one more time with him and then if you really dont feel lvoe for him.then dont get married,
Love kim
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I think you should tell the friend of your brother that you have 3 kids with another guy. By now, you should choose between your boyfriend of 9 years or the guy you just met. Sometimes when we lose someone, that's the time that you'll realize how much that person means to you. So you should be careful in choosing. 9 years is already a long-term relationship and it'll just come to nothing if you'll choose the friend of your brother. But if you really really wish to choose the friend of your brother, make it sure that he knows that you have 3 kids and also he welcomes you inspite of that. Remember having interest on someone because of sex is not a guarantee of a solid relationship.
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