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a long time crush
ok so ive had a crush on this guy since my freshmen year (Kyle). And then i find out from a friend (Jason) that Kyle's intrested in me too, and he thinks i am cute, has a good personality.. blah blah blah. But as i'm asking Jason about all this he says Kyle is confused and he doesn't know if he wants a relationship! what am i suppose to do? This guy doesn't really know how crazy i am about him. But i mean, how do i get him to think of me as more then a friend? PLEASE SEND WHATEVER ADVICE U GOT! haha thanks!
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SoRRie to give such a typical answeR, but in *MY* opinion the best thing to do is just to come stRaight out, and tell him what you'Re feeling. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. Also, once you bReak the ice, he'll be a whole lot moRe opt to tell you how HE feels, ya know?? Telling him is tRuly the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE how he feels about you; you can *ASSUME* alllll you want... but you'll neveR know EXACTLY how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. Now go get 'em, TigeR; I KNOW you can do this!! :D
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Talk to him. Tell him how you feel about him. You know, Open up to him. Let him get to know you better. If this doesnt work then talk to your friend Jason to see if he can do anything. If this all fails, then just wait it out seew what happens.
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I had the same problem. Go up to HIM and get the straight facts. ask him whats goin on
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Okay for me this one is hard. You can always tell him how you feel, or surprise him with something, like cooking something that he loves and put "I love you" on the plate or on the dish even, or something else like that ya know. One of my friends liked this guy so she had four baseballs and on each one she put 2 words "will you, go to, the dance, with me." He said yes and thought that it was really sweet, awesome, and romantic the way she did gave him the baseballs with the words written on them. If I didn't help, I am sorry but if I did help then I am glad I did.
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Ah case of a simple mind game us guys play. Well hes just having to pick between a relationship with one girl, or a fling with what ever girl walks by. What you have to do to win him over is show him that you are better then all of the "flings." Spend some time with him. Basically make him want you. Flirt with him, Kiss him, Tease him... what ever you have to do to make him come back for more. If a guy has a crush on you, and you two just have a date like to a movie or walking around at 11 pm in the park looking at stars, i dont care but i promise if you play your cards right he will want to spend time with you alot more often. Lemme know how it goes...
-CrW-
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Beware the guy who doesn't want a relationship.
Other than that, you need to get in there and talk to him yourself. You don't necessarily have to come right out and tell him you're nuts about him...just talk about everything and anything. Since he doesn't know if he wants a relationship let him be the one to make the first move. If he doesn't after awhile, you may just have to settle for friendship. :)
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The most important thing you can do is to just let him know how you feel. Hope I helped!
~*Brianna*~
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Well lucky for you he is interested also. But as much as you've been waiting for this, you probably don't want to rush things. Start talking to him more, maybe do things as friends first. If you try and jump into something he is not sure about, it might scare him away (which I'm sure you don't want to happen!) Just be patient, I know how hard it is ;] But hopefully it'll be worth it.
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Okay a lot of birdie huh? Birdie is talking from one person to another person for the "info". Well i think that if kyle is intrested in you and you think its for your personality only then you need to talk to him about it-but from what I read it sounds like its for your looks if he thinks your cute but he doesnt know if he wants a relationship-thats normally how it goes..they just don't want ot sound like a regular guy. Just you need to REALLY talk to him..see what he is all about and then think if you should really waste your time and talk to him.
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