I really im in love with this boy, but he has 3 g/f`s. yea, he's a big player. i have tried and tried to get over him, but i just can't. I dont think he would really like me, because he likes darker girls like mexican girls. What should I do. (he has no clue i like him, and I wouldn't want to tell him, because I'm embarassed he'll reject me. :\)
CrystalRenee06 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 2:47 pm: Well sweet heart, if he has 3 girlfriends the boy is nothing but a dog... Yeah, you like him.. But I sugguest you get over him. He is a man whore... And if he only goes out with darker girls, then damn... Lol, that's messed up. I think you should just stay away from him.. Because say you do tell him that you like him, and then you become his 4th girlfriend... Um, then what? Lol, your just getting your self into a big mess... and your heart will end up broken.. [ CrystalRenee06's advice column | Ask CrystalRenee06 A Question ]
Avocodo answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 1:00 pm: Look, I know you probally dont want to hear this, but if you did ask him out and said yes, he would probally just cheat on you. And then you would be even more hurt and crushed. I know its going to be hard to get over him but it will be easier to do it now, becuase it will be harder after you date him. Just be paitent there is someone out there for you. and this guy isnt the one for you. [ Avocodo's advice column | Ask Avocodo A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 3:45 am: I don't think you are in love with him. Being in love means that you can be yourself around the person, and that you can tell them anything and everything. You can't even tell him that you like him, so I personally don't think it's "love". Plus you are very young, and are going to go through a lot of relationships. In my opinion, you should definitely not even like this kid any more than a simple friend. He sounds like he would only break your heart, and make you cry! I mean come on, think about it. He has not 1, not 2, but THREE g/fs. That's a bit ridiculous if I do say so myself. Don't even try to get involved with this kid. It has bad news written all over it. Find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, and isn't as likely to cheat on you, or get another g/f. Sorry this probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but there isn't any way you could possibly make him like you, unless he does it on his own. If you want him to get to know you as a person though, just talk to him and be his friend. Who knows, maybe you can make him change his ways (very unlikely), and be faithful and true to one girl, not the whole town. Just be friends with the kid. [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
ChOcOLoLo answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 11:00 pm: Hey there! Don't fall for guys who seem to have everything, but later break your heart. You kind of have to see through that image and find what his real character is. Would you really want to be with a guy who won't give all his time for you?? I know I wouldn't... Try to spend time with your friends and go out and meet new people. That perfect guy will come into your life, it just takes time. =D
I was in that same situation when I was a freshmen in high school. My crush had already gone out with almost all my friends, but I was still foolish to hold onto him, after I saw how much he hurt them. I forgot about him through time by only seeing him as a friend and spending time with my family and friends. I really hope this works. Take carez!
<3, normie [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
sunnyville answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 10:24 pm: What I would really advice you to do is to go look for some other guy if you know he will not like your skin color which is just ridiculous over a color there is a saying with that"don't judge the color of it's pages",if you wind up being with him he's going to hurt you badly if you know he's a player don't get into illusions he's like a rock with no feelings what so ever how dare him to be dating three girls at the same time!You won't have a future with him at all.Please get over him if you see another guy who you like get to know him,become his friend,if he's the one tell him your feelings but make sure he likes you too before you decide to do that.Counseling could help you to take your frustration out over this guy. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
twistedteen25 answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 10:13 pm: Well I think you DON'T deserve him because he's a foul cockroach. He has 3 girlfriends so get over him you deserve soooooo much better. Even though you THINK he may be the cutest guy you'll ever see, he's NOT. So get over him hun! [ twistedteen25's advice column | Ask twistedteen25 A Question ]
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 10:06 pm: As hard as it may be, you gotta get over him. Look hes already got 3 other girlfriends? hes a manwhore. you dont deserve it. Trust me dear, there are PLENTLY of guys in this world who have respect for girls, and can stick to having just one like there suposed to. That boy obviously has some issues to be having 3! I promise your better off without him. hope i helped alittle<3 [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
ViTaChaN answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 9:39 pm: I know how is feel to fall in love with a player..I think you should stop loving him, there's no point of loving him.First, he likes mexican girls, second he's a player, third he has 3 girlfriends. I don't want you to get hurt.. So.. I think that's the best way.You'll find another guy, who is nicer and not a player.. Hope I helped!
secondsawayxo answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 9:34 pm: Alright, you have to get over him. I was the same way and I ended up going out with the kid who only ended up cheating on me. Stop now before you get hurt. I'm happy now, I have a new boyfriend who loves me and everything. It's better to stick away from the bad guys, trust me. [ secondsawayxo's advice column | Ask secondsawayxo A Question ]
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