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Okay so ive got this problem. theres this guyi think i like now. hes a freshman and im a sophmore. i met him like a month ago but we never really talked til just recently. but its not like talking on the phone or anything, its thruogh text messages. he came and sat with me at lunch otday but didnt really say anthing bc hes really shy. he supposidly drinks a lot and has done a lot with girls, except i find it kinda hard to belive, bc hes so shy! i think im really stratin to like him, but idk if its the person through the texts i like, or him, i mena theyre the same person, but he just acts different. well i think im really startng to fall for him. like i like him a lot, do you think i shuld tell him i like him and hope for the best or should i sit it out until he strats talking to me in person? thanks... i rate!
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well, the first thing to worry about is his reutation. if he drinks- start drinking! it'll give you something in common! and if he has sex a lot, screw the guy! have a nice day
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Did you ever think that maybe someone else is making the text messages? Just a suggestion. I think you should try to get to know the ral person, you can't build a real relationship off of text messages.. I mean, words aren't the only part of the relationship. Maybe if you go on a date with him you'll see his true side, if he really is a bad drinker and does a lot with girls. If you really like him be sure to set boundries and if he can't follow them than he's not worth it.
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Find out more about him, you'll be suprised how different people are when there drinking.... then if all is well talk to him and get him to talk back, he may be shy but once you've made the first move he may begin to open up!! Try and stop yourself from falling for this guy for as long as possible... you don't want to break your own heart!! Befriend him slightly, but not to much, to see what hes like around you. then if you get on really well... go ahead!! But don't jump in the deep end head first!! Good Luck
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tell himur feelings and hope for the best.hey, u may never know might what happens.good luck!thanks and bye.rite back to see what happens.
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forget the other person who said you didnt have a chance if youre ugly...
obviously he likes you if he sat with you at luch. dont jump into anything too soon. sit it out for a while and make sure youre falling for the right part of this guy.
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i think youve got a great chance with this guy unless your ugly.well i dont really know you so i cant tell you what to do but i say go for it!!!!
*gohugurmom*
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First find out if he really drinks a lot or not. It is easy to believe because shy people sometimes aren't shy when they are drunk. You don't want a drunk though. Way to many problems to deal with. So stay friends until you have a little more info on this guy.
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i think next time you tex you should ask him y hes shy around you. if he starts to show he likes you a little then you should go for it. but if he doesnt show it i think you shouldnt tell him cause then he'll really be shy around you. i hope i helped and i hope things work out for you!
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