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Bestfriend and his g/f
My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?
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um....wait until he brings it up. but if he seems a little, distant (more than usual) then ask him. dont let some other girlie take him! urgh. hate it when that happens.
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Ohkay, well first off, im very sorry to hear her saying that. =[ But you might wanna tell yur best friend that you overheard whut she seyd, and you are worried about loosing yur best friend!
I hope it helps,
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I understand I had the same problem. What happened with me is that he told her that I was no harm to their relationship and then she broke up with him because she sed that we were to "Close" Being friends is lyk the total oppisite. Do u lyk that girl? If not I wouldn't worry if he says you guys can't hang out then you guys aren't TRUE friends!!! I wouldn't worry... I hope things turn out for the best
~*Tori*~
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Dont tell him that you over heard because he will think you was eves dropping on them two. Just wait until he brings it up. Mabe drop a few hints say that just because hes got a girlfriend is it going to affect your friendship with him, Stuff like that.
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sounds like this girl as some issues she has to starighten out, and also sounds like some jealously as well is accuring..i think u should talk to him about what you heard...if he was a good BFF then he wouldnt ruin your friendship that has gone on for 6 years just bc of his gf said so
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I think I would wait it out if anything. I mean you really dont know, maybe he said the right thing. Let him talk to him, and if hes really listening to that jerk, you'll notice off the bat and he'll be a complete trashbag. Trust me darlin', maybe you'll lose some sleep or be kind of nervous for the future, but whatever battle you fight it's for the best.
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cut this bitch up!
but seriously, you were eavesdropping, wait for him to bring it up, then take her on a nice ride into the woods and stab her repeatedly in the face until she dies, then bury her in a shallow grave in a nearby swamp.
-hitler
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You shouldnt wait until he brings it up, because he might not! But i dont think you should tell him you heard.. he might of thought u were being nosy and spying! What I Would Just do is give hints.. "Does your gf like me?" "Heyy maybe me, you, and your gf can hang out sometime.. wud that be cool or is that a problem?" stuff like that.
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OK girl.... this is what needs to go down! You were in your backyard (thats not your fault). SO go ahead and ask him. You might not feel like doing it in person so go ahead and ask him on AIM or something. If he did say that he wouldnt hang out with you for her, then you need to call him and talk to him about it (:
~C2~
P.S Shes jealous of you!
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wait till he brings it up. cuz you don't want him to accuse you of evesdropping. or he might not even listen to her
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Tis easy. Act normal. IF you notice him spending less and less time with you, THEN talk to him. Say that one of your friends told you that his new girlfriend was being really protective and not letting him see friends and stuff. Say that you miss him. After that, he should see she's not worth losing his friends.
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I think I would ask him. If you're that good of friends I doubt that he will stop seeing you though.
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Your Probably wont tell you , because he knows she will get mad, so if i was you say you wer outside and over heard, and were really upset about it and you need him to ask her why she doesnt want to hang, and if she doesnt like her.
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Well ask him about it but in a not so (i was listening to you way) be like hey how are things going between you and ______ then be like has she said anything about me latly but in a nice way!! and if he says no.. then confes say im sorry i was in the backyard doing some yard work when i over heard you and ____ talking i heard my name and i heard that she didnt want me to hang out with you any more and i was just wondering if that was true then just be like do you want a beer!! LoL and just totally change the subject after he as answered
p.s make sure you say Thanks tho!!! when he answers the question ok
p.s.s i hope this turnes out to be a sucess
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If he hears that you know this, he'll know you've been snoopings. He wont accept you as a friends anymore cuz you're a sucky snooper!
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geez you're in junior high? and this is happening? that's frigging crazy. i would totally yell at his girlfriend, jk, but geez she needs everything her frigging way. just wait until he says something and try to hang out with him and totally ignore what you heard
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I wouldn't ask him about it without him bringing it up because he might get all mad and say you were eavesdropping. I hope you can work things out with your bestfriend.
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hmm i would be like...well i was outside and i herd ((her name)) say that she didn't want you hanging out w/ me...i didn't hear what you said and i was wounder what you did say...and then kind of talk to him about it and let him know that you will always be there *bros before hoes* yes i am a girl but friends come before love no mater what!!
<3..good luck
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dont say anything because then he might get mad about you 'spying' on him. just act like normal and see what happens
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