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Q: I'm in a very sad depressed mood.
Does anyone have any mood lifters
that I could do at home.
Like activities.
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chocolate? go out and be with friends. talk to someone. don't just stay home. be outside- exercise, do things.
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Q: Ok, so one of my friends is going to homecoming with the kid i like, like i said in the subject. She knows i like him too. i told her that i started talking to him a lot more and then she went to make her move. i like him A LOT. We arent like, close friends, but we are good enough friends where i tell her who i like.
What can i do to get him back?? i really dont wanna like, let him go. i dont wanna lose him to her.
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that's probably going to happen to my friend soon. you can either talk to your friend or just straight out and tell the guy you like him. hope all goes well.
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Q: I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone?
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no offense, but that is the stupidest question i've ever heard. No big deal, hello!?!? Just be honest and just w/e.
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Q: okay so i like this guy but hes really really shy... how can i make him open up??
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i've been in this position, just start talking to him and he'll come around for you
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Q: this is this guy that is older than me and we have been messing around for a few months now...but its not serious and we never took it seriously since i know he is messing around with other girls and what not. but i caught feelings for him and he knows this. well, he keeps telling me all the sweet things i want to hear and then recently he told me that he was just in it for the sex...but then he tried to take that back and say that the only reason he said that was because i kept questioning his feelings towards me. i dont know what to do bc i feel for him and he says he feels for me too but im not sure what to think. he keeps tellin me he wants me to be his girl and all, but whenever he calls me to chill i go and hang out with him and within 10 minutes he always asks me for sex. i know what it looks like but we also talk on the phone alot for lyk an hour at a time just about stupid things and all that ...so were close on that level but i dont know what to think!!!!
ps. he treats me good when we're together and everything
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i would just break it off because guys at that older age all want SEX. i would just be friends with him if i was in your position
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Q: Okay so I am inlove with this guy at my school. So much so that it hurts. He is a pretty shy mexican boy. He has been a friend of mine for about 4-5 months, but I only realized about two and a half months ago that I like him as more than just a friend, and ever since I have been falling more and more inlove with him. He and everyone at the school knows I like him. His brother is not at all shy and calls me future sister-inlaw and when other guys are messing around with me he tells them to leave me alone because I am his brothers lady, ect. Most of the mexican girls at my school don't want him to be with me cuz i am white or whatever, neways, at lunch and stuff he walks by me slowly by himself because he knows I will follow him and we talk but never about us in that way. I have two classes with him and one i sit right next to him and we laugh and talk like always have. But still never talk about us. It hurts so much seeing him there right in my grasp but I can't touch him. Loving him but not being able to tell him directly. Wanting him but not having him. I wish he wasn't so shy. All my friends say to make the first move and ask him out, but I dont want to be to eager. I have called him and we talk but my bestfriend was on the line too.(we are all pretty good friends) But I am too shy to call again. I am so confused and sometimes I think to myself what are you doing even trying it will never work, but then I think of how much worse it will hurt if I don't try. I am a very pretty girl and have a lot of friends and all so it isn't like I am a nerd and cant have him. There has never been someone I wanted and couldn't have which makes it even more painful cuz this hasn't happened before. Do you think he likes me and what should I do? I am going to see him tomarrow for the first time in like 4 days. Please tell me what you think I should do. Sorry it was so long
~!^Nat^!~
Additional info;
Oh yea he has a jealous mexican ex-girl friend but it is okay if she messes with me i will kick her ass. she sometimes gives me dirty looks and I give them back and yell what the f**k you looking at you dumb bitch and she gets scared and she should be. I don't take stuff from people no matter how big they are!.
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hey, how old are you? if you're in high school or middle school or something like that, he's not the only one you will meet in your life. If he's like your best friend, talk to him about it. Some of my guy friends are ok with these things. if he is a understanding guy, he'll get it. forget about what other people say, if you like him, go for it. But i've had trouble in this department. i have told a guy friend of mine that i liked them more, and we haven't spoken in a long time. but think about it, would you rather have him as a close friend or a boyfriend? i mean what are the benefits. It's your desicion and i can't stop you from making the first move. just understand this isn't "real" love it's just a crush. i hope i helped. good luck
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Q: ok so i really like this guy and i perposly try to walk by his and stuff so he'll notice me.. i dont talk to him in school and im not sure if he knows me...but i talked to him on aim a few times. and the other day my friend imed him because she got the sn from looking off my buddylist.. and she asked him if he was friends with me.. and he said yes. its really weird because i didnt even no he knew who i was...and im really scared to talk to him in person so do you have any advice other than that?
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i was in your position before. i talked to the guy on aim and then i started talking to him at school, a little awkward, but just go for it!
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Q: Okay im new at this but im going to give it a try. I am a sophmore and i am goin out with this guy we've been going out for almost 4 months now. Well there is this girl who USED to be my friend and talks about me all the time and im getting sick of it well i just found out the other day that she has a "plan" to get me and my boyfriend to break up. i dont know what to do??? please help me i'll rate high!! thank you so much
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just talk to her. and say you're being immature and stuff. i'm sure she'll understand, but say to her stop tryin to be me and get a own life, lol. but talk to your boyfriend too.
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Q: so i have this boyfriend. almost 3 months. but we have only held hands and hugged. he is going sooo slow. every one is like .. make the first move. but im really shy. like.. really shy. but just around the boy im going out with. are there anyway i can sortof give him hints.. but not make the firt move? 13/f
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you're only 13, chill out!
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Q: I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Usually it doesn't really bother me but I've seen so many couples who are younger than me and it makes me feel so sad and worthless. I'm ugly and shy and boring so I suppose no boy will ever want to go out with me, and even if a miracle happened and I did get one, I wouldn't really know what to do or what to say =\ People think I'm weird because I've never kissed a boy or even been out with one, I feel so different and frigid =[ I guess I was made to be single but I just want to know what it feels like to be loved.. How am I ever gonna get a boyfriend when I look like I do and I'm as shy as I am? I like this boy at school but he doesn't really like my friends because they're so immature, so he most likely thinks I'm like them and hates me too - I'm not as immature as them though.. Please help? Thanks xx
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dudet-you're only 14! i'm 16 and never kissed or been girlfriends with a boy. boys are stupid at this age. just be patient. it's all stupid crushes from 14-16ish
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Q: im a fourteen year old gurl. i have alot of freinds but ive never had a boyfreind and i think its becuase of my weight i dont understand why guys dont like me just becuase of that one thing im a good person and really does hurt. what should i do to help me?
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i agree with everyone else. boys are stupid. they suck! i'm just like you i'm 16 female and bigger but not big big, you get it. you're 14, you have a LONG ways to go girl!
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Q: I went to a dance last night and had a BLAST! My friends went up to the kid (Ive admired from a distance lets say for like 2 years! lol) and they asked him (Logan) if he would dance with me and I guess he said yes (I wasnt there though.) So, the next slow song came on and he asked me to dance. =) Yay! And we both seemed to really like it and I could tell he was nervous which happens when you like someone right? But, then I kept trying to get his attention on the FAST dances. He would be right next to me and not even look over @ me! I mean, all these other guys told me I looked hot nd stuff byt Logan didnt even care! I was so mad. I was dancing with all my friends and we were dancing really dirty ..lol but obviously it didnt get his attention. ANyways, he didnt ask me to dance at all again the whole dance! So I danced with other people but he didnt dance with any other girls so thats a good sign?? At the end of the dance, my friends dad picked me and my friend up because I was sleeping over her house. And, we were stuck in traffic for like 3 seconds, and i saw mike with a few friends and he looked at me and i looked at him from the car and i smiled and he smiled back! We used to flirt all last year, but then he got really popular and wasnt in any of my classes. DO you think he likes me?! i hate boys ..what would you do NEXT if you were me? I dont know what the next step is for logan and me ..or if there is one at all . SOrry its long!
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you don't need to dance "dirty" to get a boy's attention. maybe he didn't like it, maybe he likes calm serene girls
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Q: My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?
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geez you're in junior high? and this is happening? that's frigging crazy. i would totally yell at his girlfriend, jk, but geez she needs everything her frigging way. just wait until he says something and try to hang out with him and totally ignore what you heard
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Q: my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does.
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Say what you feel. Don't be scared of his reaction, confront him with confidence. Tell him you care about him and you'll help. Spill your feelings to him, I mean he's your bf.
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Q: Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to
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you just need to talk to him with a lot of honestly and he'll probably listen to you. just tell him how you feel.
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Q: OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.
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It's totally fine. It's not like he's 20 or something.
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Member Since: November 19, 2004 Answers: 16 Last Update: September 2, 2006 Visitors: 1668
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