my friend is going to homecoming with the kid i like
Question Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 3:37 pm
Ok, so one of my friends is going to homecoming with the kid i like, like i said in the subject. She knows i like him too. i told her that i started talking to him a lot more and then she went to make her move. i like him A LOT. We arent like, close friends, but we are good enough friends where i tell her who i like.
What can i do to get him back?? i really dont wanna like, let him go. i dont wanna lose him to her.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Saturday September 2 2006, 6:20 pm: if she started making her move whenever she noticed you started talking to him more, then she might like him herself. i would talk to her about it and ask her why she would do that and if she likes him or not. if she does, then there's no real way to "get him back" or anything. if she doesn't, then just ask her if you can snag a few dances with him at the dance. and whenever the dance comes up, just walk over and start talking to him whenever you see him. say that he looks real good and if you could maybe snag a dance with him later. [preferably a slow one so you guys can take and you can even flirt ;P ] and then if you don't want to lose him to her, i would suggest trying to make a better move then she did. let him know how you feel and that you like him, and see what he says. if he says he likes you back, that's awseome! if he says no, it's at least better thanting there NOT finding out if he likes you or not. you at least tried to make a move. i hope i helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Saturday September 2 2006, 6:12 pm: Well, you can't "get him back", becuase you never had him. This same exact thing happened to me before and I know it sucks. You need to ask your friend why she is going with him when she knows you like him. However, maybe she likes him too? If she does, then there really isn't anything you can do. Maybe you can ask her if you could dance with him a time or two. If she doesn't like him, then you can try and steal him away. Flirt with him and say maybe we can dance one time at the dance... [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
ku247 answered Saturday September 2 2006, 5:36 pm: that's probably going to happen to my friend soon. you can either talk to your friend or just straight out and tell the guy you like him. hope all goes well. [ ku247's advice column | Ask ku247 A Question ]
ksblond answered Saturday September 2 2006, 4:51 pm: my god you and i are going throught the same bullshit, my friend knew a really liked this guy and she did too, so she got him, he asked her out. I am still not over him! i wish i was but i still can't control my feelings 4 him. i think ur friend who stole the guy u liked may not be with him for long.... keep trying to subduce him back to you, i know im trying. i dont think their relationship wiilll last too long, i hope in my situation it wont last either. [ ksblond's advice column | Ask ksblond A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday September 2 2006, 3:50 pm: talk to your "friend" about it, thats just plain mean a friend of mine did a simmialr thing, see what your friend has to say...if there is a good reaon for what she did id damn well like to hear it.....as for the boy keep him close as a friend and see wats up mayby he cant say no, tjhats wahy he went out with yoy friens or ya never know mayby he did it to het closer with you
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