hey im katie 16/ female. I find it interesting to listen to all kinds of ppl's problems, i try my best to help.
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alright well its really late and i been up thinking about one of my ex`s and i really loved him! like not even kidding!!! me and him have always had a thing and i don`t think anyone can change that!!! but now that hes all up on some girl that is not to be mean but, not to pretty. and theres a HUGE rumor going around saying that shes going to be having a baby!!! and its kinda gross. but anyways i have a boyfriend and i really like him and all but its like i always have defferent guys on my mind.... i love to flirt! haha well i don`t know what to do... i`m thinking to hang out with my ex and see how it goes. and just tell my boyfriend that i just wanna clear things up this him, and tell him to turst me. idk is that a good plan? (link)
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ok so you are young like me so you will naturally have alot of atractions for differnet guys. I think you should be free and single and not worry about your new crush hitting on the girl who might be pregnant. You will talk agian, as for your boyfriend, stay close but don't get too serious. I think your mixed feelings for these guys should stay repressed, don't evoke these hidden feelings, it would cause alot of drama lol
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ok so i like this guy. but like im sort of obsessed. ha ha. like i have an alert when he signs onto aol. and like i bought the same shoes as him. and i made this book one day because i was bored about him but it just had his name on every page. haha. and hten like i know like almost everything baout him.
and my bestfriend is friends with the boy i like!
so my friend told the guy i like EVERYTHING but like only a few things a day. and its like its annoying but like i cant hate her because like i love her. lol. but like the guy i like feels special and he thinks its cute. but i mean of course he will. anyone will if someone likes them. but liek she i seriously going to far. liek she says she wont tell him anything but then she does. but like my friend isnt telling me that she is. my other friend is. because she is there. and she says she is mad at my friend for telling him everything and she thinks that i should be mad. BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO!!! because i fell liek i cant be mad at my friend. but yet i can. but its like cuz shes sorta of my only way to the guy i like because there like best friends. i dont know what to do. sorry this is so long. its just really confusing. i mean the guy i like is nice so he doesnt really like well he wont make fun of me. but im afraid that if she wont stop then...he might. and my friend sorta kindof has a tiny crush. liek nto enough where they would go out because she likes these other guys so MUCH more. and the guy i like doesnt like her. so theres like a jealosy thing with me. im like totally jelous of her because she can be by him and she knows it. and i feel like im in competition. and this guy isnt even worth it but hey.. i like him so i cant really stop liking him so dont suggest it. sorry if this is confusing. im 14/f and the guy i like is 15/m.. not that that matters. but my friend loves to make me jealous like this saturday the marching band (they both play the sax) and im in the color guard. well our game is saturday. and she is getting a ride from him. and she rubs it in. i dont know. and i know shes not being a real good friend. but i cant make her not be my friend because other than this its like shes always there for me. its just this competition between us but shes not trying to win the prize which is the guy i like.
sorry this is so long (link)
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ok i know what your going through.....my friend, 2 weeks ago, went out with the guy : no the guy friend i liked: and she liked him too. the next thing you know i am alone and jelous...im still not over him. as a matter of fact my friend still blabs about other guys! ha if i went out with the guy i know i wouldnt be even thinking about other boys. that just proves to show that i like him much more than she does..... i think you need to learn to cope and move on with your friend and the guy... you can still like him b/c well hey! you can\'t help your feelings. just don\'t let ur friend get to you, atleest on the outside, don\'t show her green envy! she wants you to feel jelous. she won the guy but she can\'t win your happiness! who knows, the guy may turn around and relize you are a better friend and/or girlfriend!
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Hey!
I'm an 18 year old guy.. and I have found myself to look at gay porn like a lot.. I can't get over how sexy it is.. The sight of two guys making out just arouses me.. especially if they are attractive..
but the thing is.. I have a girlfriend.. and I really love her... like we've had sex like 5 times.. and each time it got better...
I don't want to hurt her.. as I feel very bad after I jack off to gay porn...
Oh.. and I've had sex with like 3 guys (at my best friend's birthday party sleepover).. I didn't know them before.. and I don't keep in contact with them.. except for one of them.. and we keep seeing each other to have sex.. I love him too, just like i love my girlfriend...
And I don't know what to do!
Should I stick with my girlfriend or my gay lover of whom I both love with all my heart..
Am I bisexual? or straight? or gay? I just don't know!!!
Please help! (link)
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wow, right now i think your in a confusing stage where you cant decide on which attraction is more strong than the other. I think you should continue with your girlfriends realationship and stay faithful to her. If you still have temptations looking at other men than you know you are gay on some level. Just be fair, don't play with both lovers hearts, pick one. I don't know if your gay lover knows about the girlfriend but he won't know about it for tooo long, that goes for the girl as well.
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Ok, so one of my friends is going to homecoming with the kid i like, like i said in the subject. She knows i like him too. i told her that i started talking to him a lot more and then she went to make her move. i like him A LOT. We arent like, close friends, but we are good enough friends where i tell her who i like.
What can i do to get him back?? i really dont wanna like, let him go. i dont wanna lose him to her. (link)
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my god you and i are going throught the same bullshit, my friend knew a really liked this guy and she did too, so she got him, he asked her out. I am still not over him! i wish i was but i still can't control my feelings 4 him. i think ur friend who stole the guy u liked may not be with him for long.... keep trying to subduce him back to you, i know im trying. i dont think their relationship wiilll last too long, i hope in my situation it wont last either.
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My friend has a problem ...she cuts herself and nobody can seem to help her ne advise that i could give her to make her stop? (link)
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ask her why she does it, and explain to here that she can take the pain and put it towards more postitive things...like running, boxing..screaming , singing, anything but bleeding
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Hey my name is rachel and iam 17 years old and there's this girl at school shatara she's a senior and iam a junior we are both in the same special ed class at school and she's always talking bad about my clothes like she asks me why don't i ever match my clothes and then she usually calls me a bitch or whore afterwords and then she asked me why didn't I have any brand named shoes then she calls me a m fin bitch and then when then mrs.hope wrote me up and I got suspended for 2 weeks becouse I slapped her in the face I know I shouldn't have done it,but I was just so sick and tired of her ass and mrs.hope didn't even writer her up I think they are both prejudice becouse they are both black and iam whithe oh and by the way iam the only white girl in the class to and everybody makes fun of me what should I do? (link)
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it would be fair if the teacher gave her a punisnishment too for being a bully...if the bulling continues, get help from another teacher and get the girl in trouble for verbal harrassment
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okay, well the last time i shaved was sometime 4 months ago. i couldn't shave again because my legs had like bruises and scratches and stuff because i play volleyball and basketball and i fall down and get hurt on my legs, and i couldnt shave because of all of those scratches and bruises. plus i didn`t want to hurt the wounds. (i've always been wearing jeans ever since) so today i went to the store and i bought this veet razorless hair removal thing that looks like this: http://www.veet.es/images/wn_rasera.gif so since my legs were kinda really hairy, it didn't work as well and after i used the veet i had to go over it with a razor because there were many spots that were still hairy. my question is: is the veet razorless hair removal thing worth it? will it work better next time since there isn't that much hair on my legs? how often should i use it? and if anyone tried it, how did it work for you? thanks so much! ♥ (link)
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shave around the wounds, i do all the time, and i shave over my bruises, it dosent hurt.
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Flight 5191 should not have crashed in Kentucky today. Where was God? And does he not love them? (link)
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in reality the plane had some mechanical difficulties and disfunctions which failed causing the plane to crash, most likely. i think that god just watches us, no actually god is in everyone one of us some how, other known as dignity, or self respect, i believe, but the real fact is its just the laws of the universe, exsistance=life v:s non-exsistance=death. unfortunetly it was all of mans failures of technology ,yea
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i realllly need help getting to sleep and waking up for school! i go to bed at like 2 and wake up at like 11 pills herds ANYTHING (link)
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sometimes i feel like i have insomnia tooo, where i cant sleep alot, have trouble falling asleep.. My mind and YOUR mind can be restless still going 80 miles an hour, multi-tasking daily crap in life school, work, family, friends, chores, etc. so finnallly when u try to wind down, slow down, sleep I know! you just can't... YES i have taken sleeping pills, tylonal PM can work but i strongly sugest you don't take sleeping pills beacause you can get addicted to them, i did once, i would steal them from my parents bedroom. I have to turn off all the technology crap at leest an hour before i sleep. cause it gets me thinking to much, too fast. So turn off ur CELL PHONE, AIM, AOL, COMPUTER, TV, PAGER... and you should try to read something boring or interseting, take a hot bath have a bunch of soothing aromas candles, lavender can make you RELAX. DON'T EAT before you go to sleep, food can give you energy and keep you awake. AHHH, I drink hot sleepy time tea haha, the herbs really make u tired. exsercise during the day so by night u wil be exhusted and slowly get ready for school by seting ur alarm clock alil' earlier each time and try to go the bed a lil' earliewr each time. OK i am finnallly done yeahhhh!
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I have been friends with my best friend since 4th grade. We are both going into 11th grade currently. Recently, she has found this boy that she really likes and he likes her, but it seems that she doesn't care if I'm there to hang out with them while his friend is there also and makes me feel like a 3rd wheel. She ignores me and doesn't seem to give a damn anymore. The thing is that she's never like that even when she had her other boyfriend beforehand. I am the one who wants a boyfriend and she tells me oh boys are stupid and there's no one around that's good enough. When I was at her house, she seemed to act fake around him and now I have heard that she's been holding hands with him and staring at him too much.Ii don't know but she's not exactly caring if I found a guy yet if she does, it's like oh my god. I don't want to seem jealous but it's like I'm not even her best friend. The sad thing is, they just met in person 3 days ago! I know she needs to have her space with him...but she's acting out of character. (link)
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wow, you have a pretty selfish friend right now. IF she expects you to be happy with her new b/fs, then you should expect the same in return. FRiendship is a give and get relationship, if you give too much and she dosent give back, than its not equal.. and when ur friend isnt the same person in front of u and other people, and changes her identity in fake ways than she dosent know herself, actually right now you know her better than she does. GET her to REMEMBER herself and tell her not to be insecure, beacausec i think she is insecure with herself in front of her boyfriend, fearing that he wont like her real idenity. tell her she dosent need to put on the dumb, cute, girly acts in front of him. otherwise she isnt honest with herslf, or with you or the new b/f.
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ok so i have just realized no one is really happy, everyone is miserable.. everyone thinks life sucks (with a few expetions) and nearly everyone i know cries themselves to sleep!! So what is the meaning of it all? sure we can be really happy every now and then, sometimes we fall in love..sometimes life just go great.. but overall, id say we live 95% of our lives hating life ( i know i do) so what's the g0d do anything about it? dont get me wrong, i love him soo much! he's helped me through a lot!! and i know he loves me no matter what.. so im not trying to say g0d isnt there for me, i just dont understans why life has to be sooo filled with pain, i understand a little.. but seriously more than 90% of my life ive cried myself to sleep! oh i wish i had a better life =( everything has fallen apart, and ive been complaining like crazy.. but i talked to some of my friends.. and they're as miserable as i am! SOOO whyyyyyy? really - why? if everyone hates it, everyone thinks it would be easier to not have lived at all.. like really if you think about it - how good would it be to not be alive? ( not die, but just never have been born) like wouldnt you be relived if g0d said he could take you back, so you wouldnt cause pain to the ones who love you.. but you wouldn't be here.. im so depressed. and im evern more depressed cause i know nearly everyone i care about is too. what's the point? help me make sense of all of this please! help me understand! cause i cant keep living like this, it frustrates me!! (link)
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i had a bad day today, i cried it off b/c i knew i had to let out my emotions, it felt good... i do get deppressed alot to since i do have ranging teenage hormones, i am 16. i ran out of my house and walked the dog.... i feel a little better, and hopefully tommorow i will feel even more better. life should be simple, love and giving are the key to happiness. work for yourself, earn your dignity, SELF RESPECT, like yourself but dont love yourself. challlenges makes life interesting, its not boring It may sound cheesy but boy it is so true. life would SUCK IF IT WAS PERFECT, right? why it would be boring. i feel my best when i make someone feel a lil' better than they did before, make them laugh or smile.... PLEASE don't falll in the deep pits of depresssion laying becides your friends. I know ur there now but u can really be a HERO if you cheer up and appriciate being a bright, creative, outspoken, genorous, giving HUMAN BEING and make the best contributions to this cold world. Maybe they will follow you to a brighter day. there are still some good people out there who can give you a hand too. I find MYSELF HAPPY when i am with nature AND outside too, and away from MONEY. GREED IS THE ROOT TO ALL EVIL, giving love and receiving love is prolly the most beautiful thing you get in human life. :) and its normal to have bad days, like today was mine, i guess i accept it, ha universe, dear Fate, give me a challenge
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heya, i have a best friend called Laura. Shes great fun to be around and we are into the same stuff and its great coz we treat each other like equals. I do stuff with her that i dont do with my other friends like go straight up to lads and talk to them or go to nightclubs for under 18s and recently she treated me to a trip to alton towers.
Ive always been slightly jealouos of her because she is really pretty and she lives in a big house (in a different village) with a gorgeous dog and her family is quite rich and they spoil her a bit thought she doesnt act spoilt but now its all getting too much..
1.Recently shes been acting snobby and too good for my other friends and ive realised that shes quite 2faced too.
2.Whenever i go to her house i always come back wishing i was her or completely stressing out because of what she has that i dont.
3.She can afford to be what i want to be if you know what i mean its like shes living my life but better
4.She takes credit for my ideas and style
5. I introduced her to my friends at the skatepark and shes taken them all away from me
6.She is so pretty but its the products she can afford to buy that makes her pretty
7. I pointed out a bag i really wanted and she liked it too and was going to buy it because she had the money on her but i made it clear that it was mine when i got the money . i was really pleased because i had something against her but shes gone back and her mum gave her the money for the same bag in a different colour which made me want to kill her becuase my anger had built up so much over the year and it was like that was the final straw
8. Shes decorating her room the same style as mine but hers will be better because she can afford more and she'll take the credit for it
9.She has a ahem 'perfect' boyfriend that she keeps rubbing in my face anbut she dont realise shes doing it.
10. Shes moving down my street soon.........this REALLY PISSES ME OFF BECAUSE ITS A MASSIVE HOUSE AND I LIVE IN A CUTE LIL BUNGALOW BUT HERS WILL BE REALLY POSH INSIDE AND SHES HAVING THE WHOLE TOP FLOOR TO HERSELF AND SHES GONNA TAKE OVER MY NEIGHBOURHOOD. and she says shes gonna have loadsa partys but i wanted to be the one hu throws the partys in my town but itll be her now and ill have to live with it and be the 'other one' if you know what i mean. i could go on..
11.aaarrgghh i wanna die..or her to die...either way wud suit me... (link)
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wow, you should be happy that you have all the things she dosent have, like your sencerity, your generousity, ur kindness and honesty. she is just not in tune with what really is important in life, one word LOVE. she might not get enough, thats why shes been snobby to you , she is in DESPERETE NEED for love and ATTENTION. get her to avoid all the materialist thingd=s and superficial things in life like her new big house. As long as she can appriciate it, and be generous to you, no snottinesss, then she will be good agian.
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i havent seen my friend all summer so we kinda drifted apart since school ended. i was talking to her online but she was kinda ignoring me and didn't say much. when i asked her what shes been doing lately she just says "nothing" and i was expecting an actual full answer from her. i've been asking her to hang out but she makes up a stupid excuse every day why she can't. and get this, ill ask her to hang out she will say she cant then 2 seconds later her away message is "going to ___'s house" i can't stand it. and it happens all the time too. shes not a busy person and she couldnt find 1 day this whole summer to hang out with me. if i call her she says she has to go within a minute and just hangs up. i've had several conversations with her asking her what the problem is and she treats me like a 2 year old and says i need to get over it.school is starting soon and we are on oposite sides of the school and we wont see eachother will keep us farther apart from eachother. i want my best friend back. the one that likes to talk and be around me. what can i do to get her back? (link)
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warn her you won't be waiting to long for her reply or friendship. KEEP trying to pry her open and ask what wrong with the friendship, ask the problem, if she still won't aknowlege you im afraid you will drift apart and move on, it is not worth worring about all summer long. HEr loss not yours.
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex only for a few weeks now. He's been enjoying it very much and it doesn't take him long to 'cum'. I see no pleasure in it at all. It doesn't hurt any longer, it's just...blah. Why is this happening? Is this on my part or his? I was a virgin before him and I thought sex was supposed to be amazing when you're in love! (link)
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seems pretty indifferent (meaning ordinary) to me, the sex, not extrodinary just casual. I think deep down inside there is no connection or strong vibe for this b/f of yours. If you had it, you would prolly love the sex
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