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ignoring me
i havent seen my friend all summer so we kinda drifted apart since school ended. i was talking to her online but she was kinda ignoring me and didn't say much. when i asked her what shes been doing lately she just says "nothing" and i was expecting an actual full answer from her. i've been asking her to hang out but she makes up a stupid excuse every day why she can't. and get this, ill ask her to hang out she will say she cant then 2 seconds later her away message is "going to ___'s house" i can't stand it. and it happens all the time too. shes not a busy person and she couldnt find 1 day this whole summer to hang out with me. if i call her she says she has to go within a minute and just hangs up. i've had several conversations with her asking her what the problem is and she treats me like a 2 year old and says i need to get over it.school is starting soon and we are on oposite sides of the school and we wont see eachother will keep us farther apart from eachother. i want my best friend back. the one that likes to talk and be around me. what can i do to get her back?
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warn her you won't be waiting to long for her reply or friendship. KEEP trying to pry her open and ask what wrong with the friendship, ask the problem, if she still won't aknowlege you im afraid you will drift apart and move on, it is not worth worring about all summer long. HEr loss not yours.
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Well maybe you ned to find a new bestie. Do things with other people. Or if you really want her back, corner her and ask straight out, " What is your deal?" If she wants your friendship, she'll respond. If not, find another girlfriend.
Hope I helped!
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well, I dot think you shohuld even me friends with her again. If she was your best friend she wouldn't be ignoring you. She sounds pretty bitchy so if I were you, I would forget about her and hang out with your better friends. Don't kill yourself trying to figure her out.
<3 briana
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well, first of all, i don't think you should try becoming friends with her again. i mean, what kind of friend treats you like that? makes up all these excuses for not hanging out with you or talking to you on the phone?
i'm sorry to say, but this is the one bad thing about summer. friendships can sometimes end if people don't talk that much, and it seems she's not making a huge effort to keep the friendship alive. :l
i might want to try and give it one last shot and talk to her. just be ask her what's going on and does she even want to be friends anymore, because she's been ignoring you so much lately. and if she doesn't try and talk it out with you, i just say move on and find someone who'll treat you alot better. i hope i helped. <3
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i think you deserve a better best friend. you should be treated better than that.. seriously.
there's no reason she couldn't see you. one day out of the summer. just one day she could have done something with you.
she's just making up excuses.
i think it means she doesn't want to be friends anymore :
you should talk to her about that. ask her if you are friends..
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