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does anyone understand why life sucks?
ok so i have just realized no one is really happy, everyone is miserable.. everyone thinks life sucks (with a few expetions) and nearly everyone i know cries themselves to sleep!! So what is the meaning of it all? sure we can be really happy every now and then, sometimes we fall in love..sometimes life just go great.. but overall, id say we live 95% of our lives hating life ( i know i do) so what's the g0d do anything about it? dont get me wrong, i love him soo much! he's helped me through a lot!! and i know he loves me no matter what.. so im not trying to say g0d isnt there for me, i just dont understans why life has to be sooo filled with pain, i understand a little.. but seriously more than 90% of my life ive cried myself to sleep! oh i wish i had a better life =( everything has fallen apart, and ive been complaining like crazy.. but i talked to some of my friends.. and they're as miserable as i am! SOOO whyyyyyy? really - why? if everyone hates it, everyone thinks it would be easier to not have lived at all.. like really if you think about it - how good would it be to not be alive? ( not die, but just never have been born) like wouldnt you be relived if g0d said he could take you back, so you wouldnt cause pain to the ones who love you.. but you wouldn't be here.. im so depressed. and im evern more depressed cause i know nearly everyone i care about is too. what's the point? help me make sense of all of this please! help me understand! cause i cant keep living like this, it frustrates me!!
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i had a bad day today, i cried it off b/c i knew i had to let out my emotions, it felt good... i do get deppressed alot to since i do have ranging teenage hormones, i am 16. i ran out of my house and walked the dog.... i feel a little better, and hopefully tommorow i will feel even more better. life should be simple, love and giving are the key to happiness. work for yourself, earn your dignity, SELF RESPECT, like yourself but dont love yourself. challlenges makes life interesting, its not boring It may sound cheesy but boy it is so true. life would SUCK IF IT WAS PERFECT, right? why it would be boring. i feel my best when i make someone feel a lil' better than they did before, make them laugh or smile.... PLEASE don't falll in the deep pits of depresssion laying becides your friends. I know ur there now but u can really be a HERO if you cheer up and appriciate being a bright, creative, outspoken, genorous, giving HUMAN BEING and make the best contributions to this cold world. Maybe they will follow you to a brighter day. there are still some good people out there who can give you a hand too. I find MYSELF HAPPY when i am with nature AND outside too, and away from MONEY. GREED IS THE ROOT TO ALL EVIL, giving love and receiving love is prolly the most beautiful thing you get in human life. :) and its normal to have bad days, like today was mine, i guess i accept it, ha universe, dear Fate, give me a challenge
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"We are like foreigners and strangers in this world." (1 Pet. 2:11)
You will never be completely happy on earth simply because you were not made for earth. Oh, you will have your moments of joy. You will catch glimses of light. You will know moments, even days of peace. But they simply do not compare with the happiness that lies ahead.
"No one has ever imagined what God has prepared for those who love him" (Cor. 2:9).
We will not be truly happy with life until we are saved.
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ok first it's "God" not g0d...
and second if you keep going around thinking your life is meaningless and depressing than thats just sad and that's probably how you're going to live. try to be more positive about your situation because i'm sure there are people out there who have it rougher. just take people in iraq. they have to be worried about stepping outside if theyre going to get shot or not.
and so your life isnt 100% peachy keen at this moment, why give up now? i dont know anyone who enjoys every single part of their life, but you should try to enjoy it to the fullest. everybody has a meaning in life or else they wouldnt be here.
if you think this is a spiritual problem then i would say go to church for help, if you think this is mental than i would say go to the doctors for prozac or something...but life doenst suck. you just have to deal with the hand you've been delt with and realize how lucky you actually are.
if you need anymore help just drop me one in my inbox. :)
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People are unhappy because people can never be satisfied,If it is hot they want it to be cold,if it is cold they want it to be hot.The reality is life was not meant to be a fairytale, because if it was what would we be thankful for.I know there are times when you wake up only to wonder what hell today will bring. but it is only a stage, there will be ups and there will be downs. But sitting around dwelling on what is bad in your life will only bring you down. And believe me everyone is guilty of the feeling that they "have it worst and no one knows how they feel". But there is always someone out there who has it worse than you.And i know now the question arises why do they have to go through that, why does someone constantly have to be miserable? Well God will do anything to bring us back to him. and sometimes that means we have to be broken.We are so caught up with the material things in life that we forget to thank God for everything he has already given us and what blessings are soon to come!Sometimes what we want is not what he wants for us and all we can do is hold on until our time is done.
PS: And anyway if life was perfection what would we have to look forward to when we got to heaven!
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i'm actually happy with my life 95 percent of the time and unhappy the other 5, although i don't necessary hate life or am misterable. it all depends on your outlook on life. if you think you are going to hate it, you probobly will.
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Yes,people have gone through a lot of pain,we all go through it at one point of our lives but it's just how it is that's ,if you want to know why I don't it's just a mystery,like you know when people say things happen for a reason,but what I really am sure is that if the devil wouldn't have come about this earth none of these monstruaties would be happening,all evil would not be here,he is who to blame for all of this,but yet you have to go on with your life think of it this way if I was brought to the world it's for a reason I got to get myself up,face reality,stay strong,make myself a better person,god does not want someone to decide when to end his/her life he is the only one who decides to make that big decision because he made us,this world that we walk on,if you say I'm so depressed,say why I'm still living it's because it's not your time yet to die which has been decided by our lord,then again anything could happen to a person like an accident or something done purposely so they end up dead but you got the chance to live,see what good things wait for you,I know you know that life isn't perfect,imagine others,if you are able to overcome this horrible depression,the feeling of dying you will give others who want to die the idea that they shouldn't,that if you were able to so can they, still go on living wonderful lives,believe me when you get over it but it'll take some time of course it's not easy you are going through something very difficult right now,once that big wound is healed you'll see things in a good way,others will look up to you,and god will be very proud of you.
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I'm not unhappy with my life. Yes, shit happens, that's part of the deal. But bad things help you to learn and help you to improve your life. I, both my best friends and their families are going through a terrible situation at the moment - but that doesn't mean that life is continually bad. Everyone has bad things that happen to them but that doesn't make them unhappy people, it's impossible to be 100% happy 100% of the time.
You are a teenager. When you are a teenager you go through a lot of changes, your hormones go all over the place and you will probably meet at least one big obstacle along the way - by that I mean things like divorce, death and drugs. You probably know a lot of other teenage people, which is why it seems that everyone is going through a lot and is upset. Teenagers are expected to be all over the place and get upset, even the most emotionally stable people get down at times. You are not alone.
As for God, well that's a matter of opinion. I haven't decided whether or not I believe in any type of 'god' yet so I can't give a long talk on religion and how he works in mysterious ways. But just because you're unhappy it doesn't mean you should lose faith.
Not being born at all? We don't get a choice in the matter. You are born and you live. How you spend your life is up to you. Some people get so fed up with it that they kill themselves - but the number of people who do this compared the population of the entire world is tiny. Which just proves that there are people out there with reasons to live. As for causing pain to the ones who love you, suicide would bring them the biggest pain you had ever caused. They would spend their whole lives wondering why you did it and asking themselves if it was something they did.
The people you care about aren't depressed, unhappy maybe, but depressed, no. Depression is a serious illness, it's incredibly unlikely that everyone you know has it.
Even if you haven't got clinical depression, you're right about not being able to continue to live like this.
I suggest you talk to someone, not one of the people you know who is feeling the same way as you - someone like a teacher, a counciller, a parent or a sibling. They will be able to get you the help you need to enjoy your again. There are good things out there for you, you just need to find them.
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