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"life isnt about waiting for the storm to pass, its about getting out there and dancing in the rain"
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Location: Locust Grove, GA
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Age: 15
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You know in the previews a while ago,
for the lake house,
the song that was playing in it and in the end it said something then like ".. dun da at the lake house.."

can anyone tell me who thats by?
ive been loooking and i cant find it,
i looked at the soundtrack too. (link)
i think the song is called "somewhere only we know" by Keane. i hope that was it. if not sorry. :)


is it normal for people to shave there feet? (link)
sure i mean i do and most of my friends do. i dont see where there is anything wrong with it!~


are there any websites that you can look up the meanings of songs ? (link)
www.lyrics.com


i`m 14 years old to start out with && i need help finding some information.
i`ve looked on the internet && even googled but can`t seem to find anything usefull..
So here is the question.
Who && why did we go to war in 2003..?
I know who && i know the terriorist attacks are wat made us go to war but its for school && i NEED alot more information then that,
so please give me some links (link)
search under "the war on terrorism or the war in Iraq" if googling dont work try askjeeves or dogpile! :D


i can`t get over my ex-boyfriend jordan.
we started going out in may and i broke up with him in the middle of july.
now he`s going out with my best friend hannah.
[don`t worry, we`re friends.]

and now everytime i look in his profile on AIM, it says i love hannah so much she`s the one for me.

and it used to say that about ME. not her.
everytime i see them together at school and such, i just want to sit there and cry because that could`ve been me but i had to dump him.
but i dumped him for a pretty stupid reason.

i dumped him because he was really
clingy and like 3 days later i realized
that i missed his clingyness. and now
i can`t get him back because he`s with hannah
and there`s no way i can tell her how i feel.
i can`t tell any of my friends because
they`ll tell hannah.

jordan is just so amazing. he`s cute,
he`s smart, he`s a `rull big jock, and
he`s funny too. (EVERYTHING i like in a guy...)

i don`t know how i`ll ever get over him.


please help me.. (link)
Hun im sorry but you in a bad situtation. Know matter what you do right now someone will get hurt. I know you love this guy, but if his clinginess bothered you before it will most likely bother you again. Just give it some time and if he wants to be with you then he will come back. But until then just relax and let it work its course. Who knows maybe you will find someone else soon!


i feel so weird because im 15 and i havent had my first kiss yet. is this normal? (link)
Ahh 15 is great! i got my first kiss this year! But yeah i know the feeling i thought i was the only person in the world who hadnt had their first kiss. But just remember it will happen!Your not alone!


Alright. Well i'm 14 and my mom thinks I had sex. She's taking me to the gynocologist, and I am very nervous. She said all girls go though. What exactly do they do? Thanks! (link)
well if you have had sex, they will know!! if you havent you dont have anything to worry about in that category.But you mom is right you will have to go eventually anyway. But they will lay you on a table, put your legs in harnases, and then the gyno will stick his/her finger inside you to see is everything is normal and then they will take a swab of you. then its over, its weird, but it doesnt last long


i have to go to the gynocologist tomorrow because i have very irregual and strong periods. what exactly are they gonna do? (link)
Ahh i had the same problem. So i will tell you in graphic detail. You will lay back on a table with your legs spread in harnases. The gyno will stick their finger in you to see if everything is normal and then take a swab. Then its over.Its not that bad, a little weird, but you will live!They will then probably suggest you get on some kind of birth control to help regulate you.


ok so i have just realized no one is really happy, everyone is miserable.. everyone thinks life sucks (with a few expetions) and nearly everyone i know cries themselves to sleep!! So what is the meaning of it all? sure we can be really happy every now and then, sometimes we fall in love..sometimes life just go great.. but overall, id say we live 95% of our lives hating life ( i know i do) so what's the g0d do anything about it? dont get me wrong, i love him soo much! he's helped me through a lot!! and i know he loves me no matter what.. so im not trying to say g0d isnt there for me, i just dont understans why life has to be sooo filled with pain, i understand a little.. but seriously more than 90% of my life ive cried myself to sleep! oh i wish i had a better life =( everything has fallen apart, and ive been complaining like crazy.. but i talked to some of my friends.. and they're as miserable as i am! SOOO whyyyyyy? really - why? if everyone hates it, everyone thinks it would be easier to not have lived at all.. like really if you think about it - how good would it be to not be alive? ( not die, but just never have been born) like wouldnt you be relived if g0d said he could take you back, so you wouldnt cause pain to the ones who love you.. but you wouldn't be here.. im so depressed. and im evern more depressed cause i know nearly everyone i care about is too. what's the point? help me make sense of all of this please! help me understand! cause i cant keep living like this, it frustrates me!! (link)
People are unhappy because people can never be satisfied,If it is hot they want it to be cold,if it is cold they want it to be hot.The reality is life was not meant to be a fairytale, because if it was what would we be thankful for.I know there are times when you wake up only to wonder what hell today will bring. but it is only a stage, there will be ups and there will be downs. But sitting around dwelling on what is bad in your life will only bring you down. And believe me everyone is guilty of the feeling that they "have it worst and no one knows how they feel". But there is always someone out there who has it worse than you.And i know now the question arises why do they have to go through that, why does someone constantly have to be miserable? Well God will do anything to bring us back to him. and sometimes that means we have to be broken.We are so caught up with the material things in life that we forget to thank God for everything he has already given us and what blessings are soon to come!Sometimes what we want is not what he wants for us and all we can do is hold on until our time is done.

PS: And anyway if life was perfection what would we have to look forward to when we got to heaven!




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