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can`t get over him.
i can`t get over my ex-boyfriend jordan.
we started going out in may and i broke up with him in the middle of july.
now he`s going out with my best friend hannah.
[don`t worry, we`re friends.]
and now everytime i look in his profile on AIM, it says i love hannah so much she`s the one for me.
and it used to say that about ME. not her.
everytime i see them together at school and such, i just want to sit there and cry because that could`ve been me but i had to dump him.
but i dumped him for a pretty stupid reason.
i dumped him because he was really
clingy and like 3 days later i realized
that i missed his clingyness. and now
i can`t get him back because he`s with hannah
and there`s no way i can tell her how i feel.
i can`t tell any of my friends because
they`ll tell hannah.
jordan is just so amazing. he`s cute,
he`s smart, he`s a `rull big jock, and
he`s funny too. (EVERYTHING i like in a guy...)
i don`t know how i`ll ever get over him.
please help me..
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Gah, that's a really crappy situation, sorry. :l
But the most I can tell you is that you do, indeed, have to try your best and get over him. It takes awhile, but it slowly starts to happen. You just have to focus your attention elsewhere. Don't look at them, anything that reminds you of him, songs, letters he wrote, anything, just put it away in a box and keep it all under your bed and don't look at it. Try finding a new hobby or learning an instrument. And just hang out with your friends and maybe even try and meet a new guy. If you are start to think about it, quickly move your attention elsewhere. Think of a song you recently started liking that's catchy and will get stuck in your head. Or find an interest in a new TV show that's coming out. Maybe try and do some chores around the house which'll be a good thing to focus on and keep your mind off of everything else, but you can also try and do it for some cash too!
I mean, even if Hannah and him were to ever break up and you two went back out, imagine how Hannah would feel. She'd probably feel just like you do right now, and I don't think you'd want your best friend to feel that way. And even though you say you miss him, if his clingyness bothered you before, it might bother you again, and the whole process might just repeat itself.
But at least you realize you have to try and get over him. Most girls'd probably try and win him over and hurt their best friend in the process, which would only make things much worse. I hope I helped. <3
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Hun im sorry but you in a bad situtation. Know matter what you do right now someone will get hurt. I know you love this guy, but if his clinginess bothered you before it will most likely bother you again. Just give it some time and if he wants to be with you then he will come back. But until then just relax and let it work its course. Who knows maybe you will find someone else soon!
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