I'm just entering high school (9th grade). I'm going to involve myself in Key Club, Ruritan, SODA, etc. I wanna look good to the teachers and counslors but I don't wanna seem like a suck up or a teachers pet. How shall I achieve this?
Also, there is this one guy who is 2 of my classes and I like him but he slightly likes me but not really friends. How do I become friends with him? I was friends wit him in the beginning but for one shallow reason, he decided to ditch. Should I even spend my time on him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? MelLeDisko answered Thursday August 31 2006, 12:36 am: Mm, to not be a teacher's pet, just don't try to hard. I mean, try hard on your tests and work and everything, of course, but don't try to be show-offy during class, or always raising the hand and always the one that has to be right, etc. I mean, it's good and all, but it might make the other kids feel dumb if they didn't know the answer. But it shouldn't really matter, you're just trying to do well in school and nothing's wrong with that.
With this guy, just start trying to talk to him again. Bring things up about the class, maybe ask him to be your partner for one of the projects. And then just start talking to him about his other classes, which ones his least favorite, etc. It'll show you're interested in him and want to know more about him. And flirt a little bit with him too. But if he starts to ditch you again, I would just let it alone cause obviously he's not trying to put forth an effort in becoming your friend.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday August 31 2006, 12:07 am: for your first question do not try to be something your not. be yourself. i am the kind of person who does wonderful in school work and i ahve never had any teacher hate me but my advice for this is do not try to hard. just do the work and eb yourself..=)
you have all year long to talk to him get to know him and be friends with him or even more.Talk to him and become friends. flirt is a big thing you should do in order to get this to work.
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