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Hey, I'm Brandon I'm 15 and a freshmen, and some things i can usually help you out with but if i cant i will definitely try
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ok this is wierd but am i just fat or pregnant? i just have a wierd stomach. like most peoples are flabby and the flab keeps coming out like straight and look flabby but flattish but mine, my fat comes out like im pregnant. i havent missed any periods, but for the past 3 months theyve been weird. but even if i was pregnant, lol i dont think id be this big already. and when i suck it in i look skinny and fine, but when im not i look pregnant hehe. heres some pics, sorry their kinda gross. but why does my stomach look wierd like this?

http://s167.photobucket.com/albums/u126/brixmariex3/ (link)
go see a doctor, it could be like a growth or something that needs to be removed. I''m not 100% sure but i do not think you are pregnant. If you haven't missed any periods it's almost impossible.


15/female, freshman... ok so I swore to myself I'd try to never get involved with the guys in high school until a few months ago. This one really nice junior just ended up strinking a random conversation with me and for some reason I was (strange as it sounds)hooked. Well today I was finally gonna talk to him and I ended up making a complete idiot out of myself and then his (out of no where!!)girlfriend shows up. I feel so stupid. What do I do now?

-Feelin Crummy (link)
im a junior also, do you have IM or anything?maybe we can talk sometime. H/o my girlfriend just walked through the door, ttyl


Hello: I need to have a slide where text comes into the slide from different directions which I can do. Then I need to have some of the words go toward a center one and they disappear into the big one... or absorb into it. At the same time I need the center work to get bigger when the smaller ones "absorb" into it. Can you help? Thanks! Lisa (link)
can you be a little more descriptive??


myy computer has been messed.
&& myy speakers don`t work it says i need to upgrade or something or my javascript is off && it says that everytime i go on a myspace page.

how to i fix this.?
can i turn whatever javascript back on??

&& i have to somehow fix it cuz this stupid thingyy keeps poppin up sayin it could read it or something. (link)
download the most recent javascript software and adobe flash software from there sites and you should be good to go.


I keep looking at the clock when its 9:11! its so weird. like AM or PM, like.. i dont usually look for the time that often but like its been a pattern for a lot of years.. even before like the 9/11 twin towers thing happened, and i was little. (13/f) well when i was old enough to tell time ofcourse. why do you suppose this happens? or is it just a freaky coincidence? (link)
yeah i have the same thing, and whenever i look at a clock it 9/11 also!! i think its pretty weird..


what are some cool effects that i can do on powerpoint? like, i volunteered to do this thing with the students' baby pictures, and put it in a powerpoint, and i would love it if it'll look cool and has music and stuff. anything that might make the powerpoint better is appreciated! (link)
I'm almost a profesional at powerpoint and i can tell you one thing, music makes all the difference. You must have a good soundtrack. You must also have clean transitions no fancy stuff which makes it look cheesy if thats what your aiming for...i have hundreds of other tips so if you want you could leave on in the inbox anytime and i'd be glad to help.


me and my boyfriend have sex a lot. we have been together almost 2 years. well the other day we had sex three time within a 7 hour period.
i had multiple orgasams and cummed like 3 times in a minute. but after that it got to a point where my entire body tingled and then went numb..i couldnt move at all and i felt like i was going to pass out. he even had to stop for like 15 minutes just so i wouldnt pass out.
i felt high and drunk at the same time and i couldnt even speak without like slurring my words..
is this normal? (link)
if the orgasms felt good and you enjoyed it to a point where they were so overwhelming and powerful that you experienced a full body orgasm that could have been it, and your body may have not been able to handle such the immense pleasure derived from having sex. But...im not a doctor nor an orgasmatologist so you may want to see a qualified physician to give you a proper diagnosis. Any other questions just leave it in the inbox.


I am17 years old and 7 months ago my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I got pregnant and he left me, now I am pregnant with triplets. My mom says that I shouldnt give them away. I'm not sure what to do. (link)
im just curious did you guys use protection at all?? condoms,birth control etc. just message me back in my inbox, i'd be surprised if that happened and you did use protection so im just curious, thanks


hey , um well i am not that old, i just turned a teenager, and well i think i fell in love, and he told me that He loved me too, and I think I gave my heart way too fast, we started going out two years ago, and I am not slutty at all I just got my first kiss a month ago in three days, and I only did that was because I thought we would be together forever And he told me that he wanted to be with me forever and I knew that I did too and I loved him more than anything in the world and we broke up about 3 weeks ago and I found out that he asked out one of my best friends ttwo days ago today, and I am crying right now and I don’t want to over react and hurt myself and I really need some advice and just so you know he was the one that I gave my first kiss to. PLEASE HELP. I need to get over this boy and get on with my life, and do you have aim? If so can u give me ur sn so we can talk more? Ok thanks
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cool it, your just a teenager, you really think someone will stay with you forever if they say that now?? especailly in the world we live in today. I mean yeah its happened but dont count on it. Don't think eiether that your the special one and out of the ordinary and it will happen to you, cause, it prolly won't. I could be wrong but wouldn't bet on it. I know im sounding kind of harsh, not trying to be. Forget about him. The only way is time+distance. Stay far away from him and don't talk to him or see him for a + long long time. Just live.


the girls at my school are getting gayer and gayer everyday, gay in the way that they are acting different and weird not actually gay. Ever since we changed school from 8th grade to freshmen all the girls think there hotshit now and try to boss around all the guys like there nothing so ive started not to listen to them anymore and now im hated?? and all other guys agree with me also. Like girls think there using you know and just start flirting with you to make them feel good about themselves when they really dont want anything from you. I Dont get it. And how should i act towards them without being a total dick cause thats how i have to act to show them there not hotshit. (link)
woah i think you guess are mislead sry for not explaining im a guy


ok i no this sounds like evry other question on here but... i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me. he found out and e mailed me asking me if it was true i liked him. wat do i tell him? do i lie and say no or say yes??/


PLEEEEZE HELP SOON! QUIKLYY! (link)
yes yes yes yes yes im a guy and if i ever emailed a girl asking them is it true that you like me than i deffinitly like them. I wouldn't bother with them if i didnt like them. SO SAY YESSSS. i hate when girls lie and say no so say yes trust me just do it


I am almost positive that one of my professors is changing our answers on tests so that we get better grades. Let me start from the beginning....

After the class took the midterm exam, I was looking over my answers and I noticed that some of the writing was kind of funny. I thought, geez I must have been really tired when I took this test, and I let it go. Then, some of the other people in the class started whispering about it. Apparently someone had changed some of our answers to the correct answers before the tests had been graded! We all assumed that a student aid or graduate student had done it.

What's the problem then you might ask. I got a better grade so I shouldn't complain, right? Well, I try my best to be a good person and the fact that that had happened made me feel sooo guilty. It stressed me out to no end. I don't need to get a great grade in the class. With the corrections my score had been boosed from about a 70 to a 90. I didn't need the extra points. All I have to do is pass the course.

I didn't want to be the tattle tale and ruin everyone's day by possibly making the entire class take the midterm over again, but I couldn't deal with the dishonesty I was feeling. Later in that day I went to talk to the professor about what had happened. I liked her and I thought that telling her was the right thing to do. She seemed very understanding and told me to just keep working hard and that she would take care of it. I felt so good after I did it and knew that it had been the right choice. Well, nothing was done about it and I began to wonder.

We took another test and when I was handed my test back I got a "Great job!". When I noticed that the same thing had happened I almost cried. Nobody else in the class seems to mind, but it is tearing me apart. Now everyone is almost positive that it is the professor that is doing it. It's almost the end of the semester and I worry now that we'll all have to take the whole course over again. I can't afford to do that! I have just enough time to fit all the classes in that I need to graduate.

I think I know the reason why she does it (if she does). She isn't allowed to make her own tests or assignments for us. It has to be the same for everyone that is taking the class. The head of her department makes everything and she is often confused on what to teach us and what to tell us to study. I think that this is terrible and that a professor should be able to teach the way they want. Boosting our grades like she does (or allowing it to happen) is her way of giving us a curve.

It makes sense and it seems like a good thing, but if it's supposed to be the same for everyone taking the class, then my class is getting a very unfair advantage! Yeah, there needs to be some change, but it should be done in an honest way! There are so many better ways to have handled that. I believe that the professor is retiring after this semester so I don't think it would affect much in her life if she was found out.

Should I tell? I think I probably will anyway. I don't want to have to live with this for the rest of my life. If I do, who should I go through? The head of the department or someone higher in the college? She doesn't let us keep the tests and I have a feeling that if she were being investigaed for this that they would mysteriously go missing. With no proof, can anything really be done?

I give a lot of advice, but now I need some myself. I have no idea how I would answer this question if it were asked by someone else. Am I doing the right thing? I doubt anyone has gone through something similar to this and can offer an experience based answer. I shouldn't have to deal with this, I'm a student! I should be the one that's cheating if anybody! HELP!!

~sizzlinmandolin, (20/f) (link)
you do not want to say anything then you might have to retake the tests or course if they find evidence, because imagine how many other things she boosted your grade on? and youll have a very bad rep. Just let it be an next semester you wont even have to worry about it, just forget it even happened.


There is a website on the internet that gives you answers to the vocabulary work in a small orange workbook. Does anyone know the website? My teacher does not take an accuracy grade on the work. She takes a completion grade and makes us read our answers aloud to the class. I hate the nervousness I get being put on the spot to answer a question and me being unsure of my answer. I'm not planning to use this to cheat; I'm solely checking my answers. (link)
Yes i just need more information are you using book D?? Also if you go to NHHS i could possibly get you a book for $2 thats completed??


How can I view my conversations [old/recent] that I've had through instant messaging? Is it even possible? Please only answer if you're 100% sure. Thanks! (link)
The only way to retreive old conversations is if you download middleman for aim. Now im not completly sure you can still get it but it's probably there. I still have convos automatically saved from like 5 years ago. It's great. Hope I Helped


okay so, i have a friend his name is derek and um, i like him ALOTT and i dont know if he likes me but he goes to my school and uh he has a girlfriend but he flirts with me.. ALOt and he allwys cheats on his girlfriend.. not with me but with other ppl. and he dared me to act out what iw ould do if we had sex and i said you nkow hed finger me wed have sex hed rubb my boobs and like blowjob and shit and hardcore makeout.. and then on aim the next day he was like "u like me i know it" and i said "yes i do".. and hes like awh and everything and seemd nice about it.. then he was like i gotta go an said he would do all that stuff to me whenever i wanted him to. and i sent to him i put "lmfaooo haha okay :]" and then he sent back ":] gooodbye (link)
Forget about them. I'm a guy and i wouldn't consider you a slut because you want to enjoy yourself sexually. But what you do is just ask him to come over your house or sneak out with him at night "my favorite" because than you know somethings going to happen. Hope i helped good luck. And he does like you so don't worry about that.


Why do guys hate/not like when girls cry? For example, last night I was telling my best guy friend about something really upsetting, and he just kept saying, "Please don't cry, please don't cry." What makes guys always say that, like why does it upset tem when girls cry? (link)
I'm a guy and i personally think it's cute when girls cry over little things like drama going on or somthing with there parents, but no matter what if a girl cries i like to comfort them in every way possible. It doesn't annoy me or make me mad to see girls cry. Hope I helped.


15/f

Everyone is so incredibly jealous of me. I know I'm a nice person and that I don't show off so I don't see how this has happened. My 'best friends' have all turned against me (twice now with different groups, once this year and once last year).

I only have one real friend. People are always complaining how smart, pretty, athletic, rich, stylish etc I am. Never once have I bragged and I NEVER act like I'm better than someone. In fact, I have struggled a lot to achieve everything I have and I love myself. I know exactly who I am.

What I don't understand is why this happened to me or how to get by it. I have tried heart to hearts, ignoring it and everything in between.

I know every single person in my grade at my school (we live in a pretty isolated town) so I can't exactly meet new people. I also don't WANT to forgive the people who have done such mean things to me in my past. Everyone is just so insecure.

How do I get through this? Is there any hope? (link)
well they think you have so just pretend to forgive and pretend that you know what you did wrong


My boyfriend (30yrs) and I (28yrs) met in Australia and I moved to Ireland to be with him, we have only been together (officially) for a year. I found out we were pregnant the other day and whilst I am scared and nervous about it I want to have the baby as I feel we are strong enough to get make it happen and abortion is not an option in my mind. My boyfriend said he will support me what ever I decide but I know he is freaked out by it. I have tried talking to him and I understand his fears. He is worried about finances and that our 1/2 renovated house is not child suitable but I think his biggest worry is that is life of going to clubs and festivals during the summer will be over for ever and he will be chained to the couch for ever. I have tried to tell him life will change but its not the end of his life and things will be different. I asked him if the option was there of an abortion would he want that and he said yes he would. This really hurts me as I dont believe in abortion and I am ready for a baby in some way I am actually excited and would have liked it to have been a planned pregnancy and a mutually wanted baby. Later he came back and said he doesn't want me to have an abortion but he is not sure about me having it. What am I meant to do have half a baby and half of an abortion?? What do I do? Do i give him time to get used to the idea? I dont want him to feel forced into this and him become resentful? Do I just go home to Australia and leave him to his party life? (which really aint that party hard anyway). We are a strong strong very happy and in love couple but I dont want to force this on him but then it was the two of us that got pregnant, why am I meant to feel like I am forcing this on him?? oh its all so confusing? can he go to any decent websites for advice on this stuff? I have checked ou a few sights about girlfirends getting pregnant but they are all for younger guys? (link)
If you really feel you two can't handle it, put the baby up for adoption. You don't have to take car of it and you don't have to kill it eiether. Just another option. O and im jw private message me back on this, did you two use protection at all?


I have an eating disorder.. i keep throwing up i have been for a couple of yeears now....i dont know how to admit it and i dont want to get help from a professional i just dont know what to do .... (link)
what to do, you stop. Just stop cold turkey, It will seem hard but it really isn't. I had a bad eating disorder once and it effected my life badly. So i just sat down thought about it and just stopped right there. IF you have alot of self discipline like me it will be easy, i can stop any bad habit i have. But if you don't just keep working on it hope i helped


in the movie akeela and the bee, the quote that akeela reads off of her spelling coach's wall, does anyone know it? please&thanks. (link)
yea haha i just watched the movie last night. This might be the one your talking about if not then i know the other one just PM me


Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – by Marianne Williamson (not Nelson Mandela)




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