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I'm not sure what I should do about my relationship with my
I have been friends with my best friend since 4th grade. We are both going into 11th grade currently. Recently, she has found this boy that she really likes and he likes her, but it seems that she doesn't care if I'm there to hang out with them while his friend is there also and makes me feel like a 3rd wheel. She ignores me and doesn't seem to give a damn anymore. The thing is that she's never like that even when she had her other boyfriend beforehand. I am the one who wants a boyfriend and she tells me oh boys are stupid and there's no one around that's good enough. When I was at her house, she seemed to act fake around him and now I have heard that she's been holding hands with him and staring at him too much.Ii don't know but she's not exactly caring if I found a guy yet if she does, it's like oh my god. I don't want to seem jealous but it's like I'm not even her best friend. The sad thing is, they just met in person 3 days ago! I know she needs to have her space with him...but she's acting out of character.
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wow, you have a pretty selfish friend right now. IF she expects you to be happy with her new b/fs, then you should expect the same in return. FRiendship is a give and get relationship, if you give too much and she dosent give back, than its not equal.. and when ur friend isnt the same person in front of u and other people, and changes her identity in fake ways than she dosent know herself, actually right now you know her better than she does. GET her to REMEMBER herself and tell her not to be insecure, beacausec i think she is insecure with herself in front of her boyfriend, fearing that he wont like her real idenity. tell her she dosent need to put on the dumb, cute, girly acts in front of him. otherwise she isnt honest with herslf, or with you or the new b/f.
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Boys make girls go into a mold and ignore everyone outside that fake mold. If she's going boy crazy and not acting herself, you might wnana just sit her down and tell her how you feel. A boy shouldn't break up such a valuable friendship that's hard to find, right?
Tell her that you're feeling left out and that she's not being true to herself and her guy friend.
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