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4 years over 4 months....
So I'm pretty much hopeless. I'm 16 years old and I just got out of a relationship that was about 4 years on and off. Before school ended me and my boyfriend Jason were on a break. When summer started we decided to go out. We went out for about like a month and a half and he broke up with me and said we needed time still since we were still arguing. Well his mom told me to play hard to get and not give in so easily. I went over his house and he started crying (which isn't like him, he hasn't cried since his grandmother passed a couple years before) He told me he realized he loved me and he wanted to be with me. I said yes after giving him a guilt trip. About 3 weeks in the relationship he started acting weird and then he said he just wanted to be single. Well he started talking to his neighbor and I guess he liked her. Well it was the second day of school and he heard I was talking shit about him and the girl Katie. I honest to God didn't say anything bad. If I love him why would I. He got really mad and told me I ruined our friendship. I don't understand why he is choosing Katie over me. I thought we had more than that. People just keep telling me to try to act like he doesn't get to me and that he will realize what he is missing.. I just don't know how to. I don't know if that is going to work. I just really wish I knew how to get him back. Please help me! I don't know what to do!!
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I'm not trying to be mean and this honestly might not help but I'll give it a shot. I can tell you love this guy and I know you really want him back but sometimes you just have to let people go and move on. Trust me, I know how you feel in a way. I started dating my best friend when I was 13 and I dated him for 3 years until about two weeks ago when we broke up. I know how hard it is but I know I have to let him go just like you need to let this guy go. If you guys are meant to be back together then maybe later down the road you will but just give it a break for now. As for the shit you said you didn't say, this guy should know that you wouldn't say something like that if you guys have known eachother for so long. Just tell him how you really feel about the whole situation and tell him that if he really knew you and trusted you he would know that you wouldn't say something like that. I really hope I helped and if I didn't I'm terribly sorry. Message me if you still need some help
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