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my friend wont stop telling him what i say. sorry this is so
ok so i like this guy. but like im sort of obsessed. ha ha. like i have an alert when he signs onto aol. and like i bought the same shoes as him. and i made this book one day because i was bored about him but it just had his name on every page. haha. and hten like i know like almost everything baout him.
and my bestfriend is friends with the boy i like!
so my friend told the guy i like EVERYTHING but like only a few things a day. and its like its annoying but like i cant hate her because like i love her. lol. but like the guy i like feels special and he thinks its cute. but i mean of course he will. anyone will if someone likes them. but liek she i seriously going to far. liek she says she wont tell him anything but then she does. but like my friend isnt telling me that she is. my other friend is. because she is there. and she says she is mad at my friend for telling him everything and she thinks that i should be mad. BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO!!! because i fell liek i cant be mad at my friend. but yet i can. but its like cuz shes sorta of my only way to the guy i like because there like best friends. i dont know what to do. sorry this is so long. its just really confusing. i mean the guy i like is nice so he doesnt really like well he wont make fun of me. but im afraid that if she wont stop then...he might. and my friend sorta kindof has a tiny crush. liek nto enough where they would go out because she likes these other guys so MUCH more. and the guy i like doesnt like her. so theres like a jealosy thing with me. im like totally jelous of her because she can be by him and she knows it. and i feel like im in competition. and this guy isnt even worth it but hey.. i like him so i cant really stop liking him so dont suggest it. sorry if this is confusing. im 14/f and the guy i like is 15/m.. not that that matters. but my friend loves to make me jealous like this saturday the marching band (they both play the sax) and im in the color guard. well our game is saturday. and she is getting a ride from him. and she rubs it in. i dont know. and i know shes not being a real good friend. but i cant make her not be my friend because other than this its like shes always there for me. its just this competition between us but shes not trying to win the prize which is the guy i like.
sorry this is so long
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why dont you try to focus all of this energy that you have about this boy on something else like a club afterschool or something you enjoy like for instance writting a book. as far as the whole friend telling the guy thing just stop telling her your secrets shes not trust worthy. tell the friend who doesnt tell the guy. find another guy to like. there are tons of guys out there and once you find someone else to like your friend will stop rubbing it in that she gets to spend time with the guy. one day she will forgt that you like him and move on. but I'd start hiding my crushs etc from your friend because she obviously blabs alot!! good luck
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ok i know what your going through.....my friend, 2 weeks ago, went out with the guy : no the guy friend i liked: and she liked him too. the next thing you know i am alone and jelous...im still not over him. as a matter of fact my friend still blabs about other guys! ha if i went out with the guy i know i wouldnt be even thinking about other boys. that just proves to show that i like him much more than she does..... i think you need to learn to cope and move on with your friend and the guy... you can still like him b/c well hey! you can't help your feelings. just don't let ur friend get to you, atleest on the outside, don't show her green envy! she wants you to feel jelous. she won the guy but she can't win your happiness! who knows, the guy may turn around and relize you are a better friend and/or girlfriend!
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okay i only know one part of this and i would stop acting like you like him
becuase thats a little obsessed he probuly doesnt think its cute
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