this is this guy that is older than me and we have been messing around for a few months now...but its not serious and we never took it seriously since i know he is messing around with other girls and what not. but i caught feelings for him and he knows this. well, he keeps telling me all the sweet things i want to hear and then recently he told me that he was just in it for the sex...but then he tried to take that back and say that the only reason he said that was because i kept questioning his feelings towards me. i dont know what to do bc i feel for him and he says he feels for me too but im not sure what to think. he keeps tellin me he wants me to be his girl and all, but whenever he calls me to chill i go and hang out with him and within 10 minutes he always asks me for sex. i know what it looks like but we also talk on the phone alot for lyk an hour at a time just about stupid things and all that ...so were close on that level but i dont know what to think!!!!
ps. he treats me good when we're together and everything
sweetjewel answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 6:09 pm: if hes with other girls too, he just in it for the sex, he say wutever it takes without really meaning it, so get a new guy, you could do better [ sweetjewel's advice column | Ask sweetjewel A Question ]
ku247 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 6:09 pm: i would just break it off because guys at that older age all want SEX. i would just be friends with him if i was in your position [ ku247's advice column | Ask ku247 A Question ]
IfIonlyhadaLIFE answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 5:25 pm: You could ask him why he said he was just in it for the sex. He sounds like he treats you well and that he cares enough about you to try to take back what he said. Plus if you're not into or don't feel like having sex you should tell him. He might understand.
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