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- depressed a little - ?? dunno Xactly what it is
Well ... dont know exactly what this would be... but I get really run down sometimes. Just between school, friends, and all sorts of varied stress. It's like it's too much. I think it's mainly while everyone has there little love lifes, I like someone who lives like 1000 miles away. Wouldnt work, and cant work. We don't talk because we just got out of touch. I did try calling him .. but he was very suprised by my call. I dont know if hes shy or what but he didnt call back. Yeah it may sound like he doesnt care about me... but the times when I visited where he lived, he was really friendly. Like if he hated me, he wouldnt have acted the awsome way he did. Im not saying he LOVES me I just know he considered me AT least a friend. And... lately everything I do isn't working. Idk ... my friends are very fair weather. A lot of change is going on. What do I do? [ ps, tried journals...poetry... they help some but they aren't a cure ]
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i understand how you feel..your probably a teenager right? it might just be your hormones or something like that..like you feel out of place and dont understand why you were put on this earth? dont feel bad..because your definitly not the only one..i myself wonder these same thoughts..but dont stess about it (even tho its difficult not too) just think happy thoughts and get in as much fun as you can with your friends and family..im no doctor but if you have fun and not think about that then you most likley wont be wondering these thoughts anymore..keep your head up and dont think your alone in this .. XoOx
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i think that you should try listening to music and see if that helps any....thats what i always do when i feel like that. Try asking your friends what is going on...maybe they can help too...i know a lot of times when i tell someone i know about what happened it makes me feel better...maybe it will work for you. You should get to know this guy better too, talk to him more and stuff. i really hope i helped....
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Depression is very common in peoples lives, most people aren't open to admit it.. You've taken the first step to overcoming it. In all actuality sometimes life's basic habitual activities can be overwhelming. Maybe you feel depression because you feel like nothing is going right, at the wrong time. Maybe your comparison to other peoples lives have triggered this emotion. Maybe you just are romantically deprived towards this guy... The truth is that if your emotions incline you to think that this guy feels romantically connected with you. You should just do the basic dynamic of asking him how he feels... Express to him your feelings as well, not only the positive ones but also the pessimist side of the situation. Communication is one of the main factors in a successful relationship. If he agrees to your relationship then commit, if he doesn't move on...as cold as that sounds. Sometimes closure is the answer to depression. After this happens and you still feel depressed and feel like your life is unresolved.... you should try to dispute every aspect of your life and set aside what you feel makes you unhappy... Sometimes the answer to your problems is right in your heart...
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Hmmm.. you might want to try going to a councelor or talk with your mom. I think this might help, find a guy you like and maybe go out with him? that probably would keep your mind off some things. Or try going ot with friends, get involved with some activities. I really dont know, hope you feel better though
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Alright... fairweather friends... I understand that completely. I use journals and poetry too, they don't really work... Well have you tried getitng into a group outside of school? Find something that you love to do or that you know how to do very well and find others who share that interest. I have a bus-load of fairweathered friends and they drive me insane. you need a mentor or a group of people who will sympathize and understand you.. As for the long distance thing.. find someone closer and forget about him for now... if he doesn't call he might've lost your number or has a girlfriend, who knows...
Hope this helped..
Suz
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