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cousin is intruding


Question Posted Sunday April 17 2005, 5:52 pm

I have a cousin who puts my probles on here for the world to know! It's really annoying me..what should I do..I don't want to seem mean though..

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Miss_Lily answered Monday April 18 2005, 1:31 am:
Stop telling your cousin your problems. If you don't want other people to know what is going on in your life, then stop telling the person who doesn't seem to understand that. She should respect your privacy, but you should know when to say enough is enough.

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isurfinpink answered Sunday April 17 2005, 10:56 pm:
Just tell you cousin that you don't like it and that you want him/her to stop. Whatever you do...revenge isn't the way to go..Just don't like do the same thing back or anything....trust me. I have totally been down that road and it goes nowhere. hope i helped....
-isurfinpink-

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Shortie8959 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 10:16 pm:
Hey. I would say either talk to him/her about it and tell them how you feel or just stop telling them your problems and find someone else that you can trust and won't tell the whole world. It's your decision to tell people, not your cousin's. You have to let them know that. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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redxroses answered Sunday April 17 2005, 9:51 pm:
Tell her how you feel and say you like your privacy. Ask her to stop putting your problems up for the world to see and maybe consider to stop telling her your problems. Good luck. :)

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nicole123 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 9:20 pm:
ur cousin must be super weird

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mapetiteodette answered Sunday April 17 2005, 8:58 pm:
Just tell him straight up in a calm manner that you don't want other people intruding on your life. If he doesn't listen to you, go to your uncle or aunt, or your parents. They will be the best help that you can get.

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o0xbrianna answered Sunday April 17 2005, 7:50 pm:
Tell him/her that you dont appreciate your private life being displayed on the internet. Tell them that it upsets you or makes you angry (however it makes you feel). If they don't stop, don't tell them any of your problems.




-Brianna

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Sweetlittleree answered Sunday April 17 2005, 7:44 pm:
Just ask the cousin why he/she does it. Be polite about it. And tell them you don't like it and ask them to please stop; if they still continue to post your problems then don't tell he/she your problems anymore.

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Ashtobomo answered Sunday April 17 2005, 7:20 pm:
Hmm, well.. first off you just need to talk to your cousin.. ask them why they are doing this and if they would stop. Tell them exactaly how you feel but don't make it seem like you are, well, angry about it, just upset and annoyed. You just have to lay it down and try to be as nice as you can about it... which is hard, but very awarding in the end when you are annoyed.
Hope I helped :-)
~*ash

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gakkuhideto answered Sunday April 17 2005, 7:19 pm:
Don't tell your cousin what your problems are, and tell him/her to cut it out.

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karenR answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:44 pm:
Just don't tell the cousin the problem. She probably think's she's helping though. :)

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shake answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:42 pm:
Dont do anything. No one knew it was you until now. Now we can all point and laugh!

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xOtWiXi answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:20 pm:
Unless your cousin is a sympathetic person, she probably won't stop, and thinks its funny how upset you get. My advice is to just ignore it, this is pretty confidential anyway and really no one will ever know, or you can try talking to her, she might not realize what she's doing, she might be trying to "help". If you need anything, just message me! Hope I've Helped ♥

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MaCky answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:07 pm:
ewwww tell her to stop!! be like its private and i dont want the whole world knowing my buissness!
or next time u have a problem dont tell her!
*MaCky*

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