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The Notebook...??
hey every1. right now my life is so totally like the movie The Notebook, if you've seen it. K so there is this guy who goes to my school and a lot of people don't really like him at all because he is sort of full of himself and annoying. but for some reason at the beginning of this year i really really liked him. i only told a few of my friends though, because it was really embarrassing. then i found out that half way through the year he had to move to Hong Kong. i was really sad and his last day at school , my friend told him that i like him. he said that he liked me too.anyway overtime i kind of got over him and started to like this guy named Ben. Ben has been like my best guy friend for a really long time. anyway he asked me out and i said yes. i was so happy, until Jamie (the guy who moved to Hong Kong) CAME BACK!!! anyway now he is being really sweet, and trying to get me to like him again. the thing is, Ben sometimes ditches me for computer games and stuff, but Jamie never does, hes really sweet now. i don't know what to do at all though because Jamie is moving back to HK for good over the summer, so i probably wont see him again. so i could either break up with ben and spend the remainder of my time going out w/ jamie, or i could stay with ben since i will never see jamie again. no clue what to do! help!
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I think you should break up with Ben and not go out with Jamie because if you two fall in love and he moves then you'll be heart broken and ben freakin DITCHES YOU FOR EFFIN COMPUTER GAMES! OH NO!! thats so effin retarded!! eww dont stay with him!! no no no no no DITCHING!! lol sorry, but you dont want a broken heart!! so i think you should find another guy to date that doesnt ditch you and isnt moving!
*hope i helped*
Kristen~
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i think you should stick with the one you like more. if its jamie...which it really seems like, then you should go out with him, because you could still talk to each other even if he is in hong kong. its better that way...let me tell ya...don't say you like someone when you don't. hope i helped...
-isurfinpink-
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You should probably stick with the one who is going to be around for a while. That doesn't mean you can't be friends with Jamie. Plan on writing and all that. You never know what might happen in the future! :)
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you should go back with jamie. it really seems like you like him more. and maybe yall can work it out. cherish the time yall have left together
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If Ben was your friend for a long time, he probably thinks it's okay to treat him the same way he used to treat you as a friend only- not a girlfriend. Jamie seems like such a sweet guy, that I think you should go back to being friends with Ben and go with Jamie. Basically, don't dump Ben totally, just tell him that you want to become friends again.
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I think you
should go to jamie cause he changed. and if you dont go out wit him, when he leaves you might regreat it so go 4 it! ....besides ben is wrong 2 ditch you for a COMPUTER! hoped i helpe!
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omg that does sound like the notebook!! haha...i dont think you should leave the guy your with now just because he ditches you for comp. games. you don't find many good guys out there..so if he treats you...like really TREATS you good..and with respect..then dont leave him. but if hes just hott and you just like him and dont really know him that well...tell him you need to take a break. and hangout with jamie..the thing is with jamie..ull never see him again..summer is coming up...and its just gonna make his move to HK even harder on both of you guys. and you even said he was embarassing. so if your truly happy with ben..dont leave him...becuse it wil be pointless and youll miss him when jamie is gone..
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I love that movie! Lol, but anways I would deff. go with the Jamie guy. You saw on the Note Book how she went with her first love. Also, the other guy ditches you for a freaking computer! Good luck and make the right choice!
-Brianna
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