Hi, I am asking you 1-Because your a girl (no offense if that sounds mean at all) 2-Because your only a few years older than me so I think you might be able to relate and 3-Because I've seen some of your advice and it's awsome.
Okay here's the deal:
I am a 14/m.I have liked a girl...her name is Jackie...for a very very long time. The problem is the one time I actually came out and said I liked her, things got extremely akward between us. I finally had to resort to lying(Yea, it was that bad) I told her that I was over her and that things were cool between us. However, I still REALLY like her. She is like my dream girl: GOREGOUS, funny, smart, awsome personality, everything a guy could ask for.
I get out of school on the 18th of May. Should I risk telling her before then or hang-on a while so when I do tell her things arent akward? I am in a tight spot here. I really hope you can help, but if you can't just say so please.
Thanks a ton,
Jeff
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? xxhotsexycutiexx answered Sunday April 24 2005, 1:33 pm: hi, hmm sorry for taking a while to answer this question..i've been bussy lately...but anyways...i read your problem and i know what you're going through and i also understand that is not easy...i'm wondering though if you hang out with her out of schooL? or whatever...but if you dont hang out wit her..i say that you should tell her before you get out of school..tell her how you really feel but find the right time at the right place because if you want to explain to her and to let her know how you really feel you cant be interupted or whatever...so you will need a lot of time to express your self in frotn of her...basically tell her whatever you told me..and ask her for one chance so you could show her what you're capable to do for her and everything..ask her for a chance so she could get to know you better in another point of view and evrything...and then when say all this ask her what she thinks and if she feels anything more then just a friend towards you....then see what happens...if by any chance she doesnt agree or she doesnt feel the same way or whatever...then dont sweat it...just say that you understand and dont worry bout it too much trust me there will be a lot of girls that will walk in to you're life...she's just a lil taste of whats out there...so if u loose the chance wit her...dont worry better things will come your way trust me!!!...if you want to talk more about this or whatever...talk to me in aim xxhotsexycutiexx...i'll b more then glad to help u!! good luck...xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
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