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So mad!
Ok,i have this friend,we'll call her ...Jenna. Well Jenna and i are "friends" but the problem is when ever i become friends with another person,she jumps all over them and they like her better. She dosent let me have one friend to myself and i get sort of mad by that. What should i do?
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hi, i'm sorry, it's all in the personality...she's propably more friendly and more open. lot of people like easy going people...may be you're not so friendly and open as jenna...dont be mad at her for stupid thing like this...just try to be more open and understandable and more outgoing and more hmmm friendly...things will change :) dont be mad at ur friend though its not her foult! xoxo effy
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ha ha my name is jenna, well thats beside the point really i just thought it was little fun fact to start out my answere... well just tell "Jenna" exactly what you wrote on here only word it differently but mayB make friends with someone and dont tell her about it or make friends with someone from a different school or somthing i dont know what to tell ya.. much luck
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let her know.. talk to her about it.. tell her you want to have more than one friend... let her know how you feel and what you told us.. it should work and i hope everything else works out with you.. if you have any other questions let me know.. and i will feel free to help you!
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when you get new friends dont tell her about them. that may seem really rude, but your friend "jenna" dosnt have to kno about your every step and move. ya kno? lol! some of my friends are like that. when they like to take over my new friendships, i learn to dwell with it becuz when the new friends get tired of my original friends then they come back to me. isnt it great to think of it that way even tho its the truth, most of the time. its really nice that you care for the new friends that you make. so, if they come back kissing your feet, then we can all have a giggle.
*giggles* see im laughing already
Sammie ^_^
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Friends are not your personal property! Why don't you just not hang out with her all the time so you can meet people and hang out with them, but don't ask her along.
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You should really talk to her and tell her how you feel when she does this. A friend would let you have other friends and they wouldn't try stopping you from making new friends. If you tell her about the people you meet, then stop for now so she won't take them away from you. Talking to her is the only thing that will help.
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i think you should just talk to her about it. but if you dont want to, then just dont tell her about your friends. hang out with them wen she's not there, so if hey dont meet her, they wont know shes there, and they wont like her better. =)
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Just let everyone be friends with everyone! Its not like shes going to forget about you and go to them! And if they like her better then let that just be it! Its sorta not good if you just have a friend to yourself..its ugh..idK! Just tell her how you feel but be nice about it I BET SHE WILL UNDERSTAND!
xOx ViLLy*
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You should probably tell her, or stop being greedy, your choice.
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You could eather tell her thats its bothering you or you could just share your friends. You really cant have a friend all to your self. Its better if both of you are friends with her/him. Go out and do stuff with all of your friends and you wont worry about getting mad or anything! X0`
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Maybe she's lonely so she's overcompensating by trying to make as many friends. Why is it so bad for you both to share friends? It's hard to have a friend to yourself unless they hate her or don't know her, which would put more pressure on you because they would make you feel like you shouldn't be friends with her either. You should be happy that YOUR friends want to be friends with her too.
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Definitely tell her - just say I need some space right now. And then you should talk to her about having lots of friends. Make sure she knows you are not trying to yell at her and you want to be her friend still, but you dont belong to her. You have to make new friends and branch out and you cant just give her 100% attention. Promise to give her SOME attention, though - have you been accidnetly/purposely avoiding her lately? If so shes noticed and she may just be defending you as her friend - trying to say to other girls "This is my friend so back off!" Maybe she feels like when you hang out with other girls, you dont seem to like her. Try to make all your friends equal as possible with you, so Jenna doesnt get so jealous. ♥ Laura
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