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Question Posted Tuesday May 3 2005, 2:59 pm

Im 15/f..
Hey. I've been friends with this one girl since I was about 3 years old because our sisters were friends. Well, for some odd reason she doesn't like me anymore. So we just stopped being friends. She is horrible to my 2 best friends. She tries to take them away from me. It really gets me mad when she treats them this way.She thinks their her best friends and she constantly talks about me to them and I know shes trying to get them to not be friends with me anymore. What should I do?

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Miaka001 answered Thursday May 5 2005, 10:18 pm:
Talk to her ask her what is going on, and tel her you don't like what she is doing. If she still doesn't stop then just try to avoid her.

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Shelbs4968 answered Wednesday May 4 2005, 6:21 pm:
ignore her. you shouldn't worry about her taking away your best friends, if they really are your best friends then they'll stick up for you.

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charmed3fanatic answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 5:24 pm:
let her know that you know what she is up to!... she will be totally bummed.. and she will deny it but you have to stand up for yourself and say " Look it here Missy!, you can't play me liek that, i know what your up to and i want it to stop! i dont' know what i did to you to make you soo mad and so hateful towards me!" let her know who's boss and make her tell you what is wrong with you to make her be like that to you...

anythign else let me know! hope everyting works out fine and dandy... ps. let her know what she is missing out on ;-)

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sugarmeltsinrain answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 4:52 pm:
Confront her. Ask her why she is out to get you and rip your best friends away. Tell her that you don't appriciate her immaturity about your lost friendship. If she starts cussing you out or does something else dumb, just ignore and say that you won't involve yourself with people that have the attitude of a 5 year old.

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shake answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 4:25 pm:
Beat her up!

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cokecap_x21 answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 3:32 pm:
well,act like you've never met your "friend". Then you can start over,never be mean cause it makes things worse,shake it off,find more new people to hang with. Soon you'll be popular and your friend will want to be your friend.Dont reject her,just remind her [[not in words,in actions]] of what she did to you. Never be mean. That makes things worse

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OrionsFire answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 3:29 pm:
First of all, they may be her best friends too. Second, why don't you just go up to her and ask her what the deal is? Maybe she thinks you did something that you really didn't do, or her sister told her some crap about you. Don't talk crap back to your mutual friends, it will only make you look just as immature. If your best friends don't like being put in the middle of this situation, they will dump her from their group so you don't need to worry about them.

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karenR answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 3:27 pm:
You should sit down with your 2 friends and tell them what you think she's doing. Hopefully they will see your side of it and stop listening to her. :)

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Fontaine answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 3:18 pm:
That is really immature of her to do that. Are you sure that is her plan though? What your best friends are telling you might not always be true. You should confront her in a civil way. Just tell her you've been hearing she doesn't like you and is trying to take all your friends away. Don't freak out on her incase it isn't true. If she tells you it's not true, then accept that and let your friends know she said that she hasn't been doing what they said. Make sure your friends are telling the truth.

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<3 Fontaine

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sunny411 answered Tuesday May 3 2005, 3:09 pm:
Jakie just go up to her and be like I KNOW YOU HATE ME BUT THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT UR FRIENDS AND STOP TALKING SHIT ABOUT ME AND JUST LEAVE ME AND MY FRIENDS ALONE... just have the courage you can do it.....but its not that hard to just say it to someone becasue they are acting like an idiot...hope it all works out.. let me kno..

hope i helped,
sunny411

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