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I have a friend and she dosent tell anybody but i found out..i think she was raped or abused or sumthin she is 13 and her boyfriend is 15 and i is always making her wear hoe stuff like if she wears long pants i rolld thumb up for her to be like short shorts then feels on her and (grabs her front) and back....and the other day she must have left my camra on at her house and when i got it it showed him strapping her to the bed and like you no and she liked it....yuk but im really worried about her..she is 13 he is 15 or 16 and this is like everyday...and she cant be with no one.....and like everyday she dresses bad and we were best friends in elementry and i no
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people change..and maybe she is just experiancing things right now, like everybody does at a certain point in growing up. But, if you think something else is going on and you are worried about her, talk to her about it. Tell her you're scared and worried for her. Let her know how you feel. If this doesn't work, bring the picture to her parents or someone else that can help. She may be mad at you for telling on her, but it's only to help her out, possible save her life. So, please..do something.
Love, Ash
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talk to her about it if she lets him and is alright with it, then you don't have to worry. but if he is rapping her of abusing her or what ever tell her parents your parents or the police about it, and he will go to jail.
Hope I helped,
Lauren
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well, talk to her abt it just be like, listen ur 13 years old. tell her tht u saw wht was on the camera and tht if thts who she really is then u dont kno her very well. and tell her tht she is goign to get hurt by this guy. i mean come on obviously hes not a very good guy cuz umm well he strapped her to a bed. and yea tell her tht she is going to get hurt by him. if she doesnt listen to u then go tell an adult tht both of u kno and ask thme if they can talk to her. good luck
<3 Jen
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tell her mom and show her ur camera and then he will go to jail i think well maybe but maybe not
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Yeah, 13 is pretty young to be getting into that kind of stuff, and the fact that the guy is older can present a whole lot of pressure that she may not be mature enough to resist. If you haven't tried talking to her, do so. The decisions she makes now can affect the whole rest of her life, and she needs to realize that.
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oooo.... thats not good....well all i can say is talk to her tell her the things that are bothering u and sort them out... let her know that this guy isnt rihgt for her if that dont work try talking to her parents of ur parents or a trusted adult...if her probalem gets worse police may be involved..... she could do one wrong mistake and throw her hole life away..... its scary i know....but its true and if u dont try and work this out u and her may regret this in the long run.
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talk to her, and make her realize that you're worried and that she deserves better. maybe she doesn't see it in the same light or feels hopeless. be there and support her.
if she refuses to do anything, i almost hate to suggest it, but it may be necessary, to tell her parents that you're worried. surely they notice it too.
good luck, to you and her.
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Well, i would confront your friend. Tell her your there for her and that you wanna help her. And make sure you do it in a nice tonefull voice, Just tell her your worried and all you wanna know if shes ok. Tell her your there and express your feelings toward her. You are her bestfriend and she should understand. I think this relationship is going to far. But if this is what she wants we cant stop her. Just be there for her like a bestfriend, and if anything happens, that you feel is worse than what you are telling me. you need to get help. Not advice. I hope you understand all of this .. and I hope i helped you.
- Liz
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ask her.. but dont get into her business.. shell come out when she is ready...
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Talk to her about it. then if it keeps happening or you think is still happening talk to your mom or another trustworthy adult. it will be the best for her and you. hope i helped! mauuhh
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wut exactly od u need advice on im a lil confused but i think u should tell ru friend how u feel n if u kno she shoudlnt b doin all this tell ehr praents i kno it seems bad 2 tell them but woudlnt u rather have them help her b4 she gets pregnent or sum STD's! hope i helped!
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this sounds really serious you should really try reasoning with her and telling her the bad things that can come from what she is doing, and if she dosn't listen you should really tell and adult. she will be mad at first but you have to take that chance that she will talk to you again because either of you will be happy when she gets aids.
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well this is a serious issue. You should first try to tell ur friend that she needs to go to the police, and if she won't and tell you not to..you should anyway. your friend's life is at stake..who knows how far this guy will go if she says no one time? It's your duty to make sure this guy gets put in his place.
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Try confronting her maybe.See whats going on for sure.If you think it's really serious you might want to tell an adult.She may get mad but in the long run she'll thank you.I've been in situations where peopel i really cared about were abused and raped.I'd be happy to give any advice or help ya.Hope i helped and good luck with your friend.
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