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Hey .. some of you might not no me but my name is Liz! I love hanging out with my friends .. and i love to go shopping! Umm.. i hope you love my site .. and if you have any problems or you wanna talk just e-mail me or ... I.M. me!
XOXO Liz

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I need something for my face that will make it more clear and make my skin more heatly and almost flawless. Any one know of anything good?

Well, i use Mary-Kay they have all differnt things to help your face clear. I would get a mag. and look around, and see what you like the best.And just washing your face evey night can do the trick.
- Liz

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okay well i shave down there and it grows back really fast. like in a week! is that normal or what? is there anything i can do to prevent it? and i also get those little red bumps and sometimes the hair is not always completley gone! any tips please? thank you.

Umm .. i am going 2 try to help you. Ok, i am pretty sure that this is normal. And the red bumps are from you not using shaving gel, and make sure after you get out of the shower to put lotion on it. That will prob. stop the red bumps. Well.. i am pretty sure that will help you out.
- Liz

If you need anymore help .. i.m. me.

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ok..most older sisters r mean to their younger sisters when they follow them around or sumthin annoyin like that. i try to stay away from my sister b/c all she duz is yell at me! and i really dont do nething!! i hate yelling at ppl so i dont want to yell at her back. ne advice on wut to do??

Wow. i am the middle of a younger sister and an older sister. I know wat you are talking about! My oldest sister hates it when we *me n my little sister* hang with her. Shes 17 and i am 13 and my little sister is 12. What i did is try to talk to her. Let her know your there. Now you gotta respect her privicy, so when she tells you 2 leave .. leave. Ask her advice on things, so she remembers your there, and that she knows you need her. What i am trying to say is try 2 build a relationship with her, But wat ever you do dont dis-respect her privicy.
I hoped i helped yea!
- Liz

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?

Wow. it sounds like he does have real feelings for you .. and you wont find this often. If i was you i would give him another chance. You gotta trust your man, and if you cant trust your man than you got no relationship! Believe me, this happened to me before, i thought this guy was HOTT and was all this and that, but then i found things out that he was flirting with other gurls, and that he was planning on dumping me. I was heart

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Well, I have a friend who visits an advice site (the name slips my mind) where most everyone posts idiotic relationship questions riddled with bad spelling, punctuation, and grammer, pretty much in that order. My question is this, how do I tell my friend that he is a moron? And how can I make him stop asking stupid questions? And how can I get him to stop using things like "u" for you, or "r" for are?

Thanks for the help.

Well there is no way you can stop him from doing this .. but you can talk 2 him. But sometimes you just gotta be a friend and let him do what he feels like doing. You cant control his every move. And just because you want him 2 stop using "u" for you and "r" for are, that doesnt mean he should. This is how he is, let him be dont try to change him into what you want him 2 be.
- Liz

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it seems every guy i like is chubby or overweight, i hate skinny guys and fit guys ya know? is there something wrong w// me

Of course theres nothing wrong with you! You just have a different taste in guys! Don't worry every gurl has a different taste in guys! Like me .. i want a tall guy .. but sometimes i get suk with the short ones! LoL .. well It just depends who you are! Dont think you need to change because believe me .. everyone has differnent taste!!
- Liz

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What do I do? Two of my friends like me, who happen to be girls, and I don't know what to do! Should I say that I only want to be firends or what!? Please help me!

Wow.. somehow this sounds fake! Lol .. i have never been though this before but i am going to try 2 help ya! Well i would sit down and tell them that your straight because obviously they are sexual with the same sex, in other words..*Lezbo*. BUt make sure you make it clear that you wanna stay friends, because if not they may judge you to be race againest *Lezbos*
I tried to help, i hope i did!
- Liz

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15/f
Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!!

Ok i just got my braces, lol so i think this will be very helpful! well when you get your braces its not painfull at all .. well @ least for me it wasnt. They just aply a little pressure and thats all. but the next morning .. thought out that week will be pain. You need to make sure your not biting into anything hard because your teeth are going 2 be sore. Oh, and no that color wont look to babyish on you. I bet it will look fine!
- Liz

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i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed

Well i am not a doctor but i think the right thing to do is get some help. Because dealing with that stuff by yourself is very painful. And even thouhg i dont know you, i dont want you going through that pain. My friend broke her arm 2 and she went through more pain than i can think of! I dont want you going through the same pain, and this could be very serious. i hope you get help..
- Liz

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ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort!

Ok well this is tough. Maybe you should write him a note, and tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way. Just make sure you dont FREAK HIM OUT! lol .. Well .. i think this is going 2 work out for you.. and if he finds out that you have feelings for him, I think you are going 2 find out the same about him with you. I hope you and this boy work out!
- Liz

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I have a friend and she dosent tell anybody but i found out..i think she was raped or abused or sumthin she is 13 and her boyfriend is 15 and i is always making her wear hoe stuff like if she wears long pants i rolld thumb up for her to be like short shorts then feels on her and (grabs her front) and back....and the other day she must have left my camra on at her house and when i got it it showed him strapping her to the bed and like you no and she liked it....yuk but im really worried about her..she is 13 he is 15 or 16 and this is like everyday...and she cant be with no one.....and like everyday she dresses bad and we were best friends in elementry and i no

Well, i would confront your friend. Tell her your there for her and that you wanna help her. And make sure you do it in a nice tonefull voice, Just tell her your worried and all you wanna know if shes ok. Tell her your there and express your feelings toward her. You are her bestfriend and she should understand. I think this relationship is going to far. But if this is what she wants we cant stop her. Just be there for her like a bestfriend, and if anything happens, that you feel is worse than what you are telling me. you need to get help. Not advice. I hope you understand all of this .. and I hope i helped you.
- Liz

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My Best Firend went out with this kid for 2 years! they broke up this summer! The kid now is like im love with me and has really strong feelings for me! My BFF tells me to go out with him and everything. She has a new boyfriend and says it will not runin anything between us and we will still be bff but i dono HELPPP!

**I have feelings for him**

Well, Maybe you should talk 2 your friend one on one and tell her how you feel about him. Now, if shes ok with it i personaly would give him a chance. Now, I know that some gurls thinks its bad to go after your best friends X .. but if you have feelings for them you cant help it. Now this doesnt give your friend the right to be mad because yall go out, If she was a real friend she would back you up and be there for you. Even if she doesnt approve of what you are doing. I hoped i helped you.
- Liz

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In order to understand this question you need to know a little background:
This guy lived two rooms down from me on a co-ed, all-feshman dorm floor and I never really talked to him before. But at my school (college) there was a big drinking fest and everyone is out drinking and socializing with people. I was standing in a large group of people outside, talking and drinking, with all the same age, and he comes to me and asks me if I could get him in to the dorm because he 'lost' or forgot his key. So a couple of people I was with, me and the guy, (lets call him P) walked back to the dorm. We hung out in the lobby for awhile and we all talked. The night is kinda hazy for me, but I remember most parts. ANYWAYS, later on, somehow the conversation lead to P staying with me in my room that night. So it happened, he spent the night and everything in my dorm room. Obviously it was hours after we had been drinking. But we did stuff. The next day he talked to me as if nothing happened. Now this school year started and I rarely see him. We both live off campus and when I do see him, we say hi, how are ya and everything but never a complete conversation. I don't want to keep him from class. But after I see him I just wanna grab him and kiss him like that night we spent together.

Now my question is, From all this background info, do you think he actually likes me, or do you think he was trying to get in my pants that night. BUT lately, he says hi, even if I dont see him walk past or something he makes sure I see him. Should I just stop him and make him late to his class and talk to him, see if he wants to get together some time. I dont have a clue at all. I really like the guy but I'm confused on what I should do.. If anyone could help me, that would be awesome!!


I'm really sorry this is long...

Well, it seems you feel something for him, and i think he feels the same. Not all guys wanna get in your pants remember that, and this guy doesnt seem like hes that type. If hes going out of his way to say hi .. then i think he does have the same feelings your feeling. I think you should stop him and talk .. maybe not during School, Maybe you can ask him to meet you after school and yall can hook up. I hoped i helped!
- Liz

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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed

Well theres only one thing you can do, and thats pray. The Lord will help her, and just keep trying dont give up! Make sure you explain to her that you are there for her every minute and express to her your feelings and how you feel towards her not eating, if she finds out that shes hurting you and others hopefully she will stop and do the best thing. All we can do is pray and be there for her 100% I hope i helped you in away that wil save your friend. Beause i know so many have died from this!
- Liz

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ok...my very close friend told me that in her study hall class allll the guys wouldnt shut up bout my ass and my tits and thats all they talk about. and i no that 3 of them definitly like me...but she said the other 3 were sayin they do to. its not a big deal that their talkin bout me but they talk about me in front of me!! and thats kinda pissing me off. yea, their sayin good things but its just ew...lol. a lotta ppl tell me that i should b happy that im a "pimpette"but their all my close freinds and its just makin me kinda mad.

Hey, I am going 2 try to help you.. and this is what i think!
I think you should call them and one @ a time express the way you feel about them talking to you. If they really do like you, and you mean something to them then they will stop. I promise this will work.Just talk to them, and if this happens to fail, then i would try to find another way to tell them you dont like it. Like when they say this stuff about you. Tell them right then n there that you dont like how they are talking about you, and change the subject. Well i hope i helped you.
- Liz

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WHy Do ppl think they are more christian than others. they dont know what you believe? why do they say taht and why does it matter about looks? A guy named Chase thinks it is all about looks? Why

There is no right way to prove that you are more Christian than others. And if you believe in GOD and you think the only way to Heaven is through Jesus, than you have your after life covered. Saying that you are more Christian than others is judging, And if you read the BIBLE you should know wat it says about Judging. And your right, You dont know what someone believes, but you know what you believe and thats all that matters. Looks don't matter. GOD made you how he wanted you to look, and if ANYONE says you are ugly or fat, than they can take that up with GOD, because GOD made you and in his eyes you are the most beautiful person in the world. Dont let this guy bother you, hes putting you down so he can feel good about himself. And Chase has a problem, if he thinks its just about looks, than he doesnt know what coming, What happens when you grow old? Is he going to divorce his wife because shes old and ugly. I dont think so, he needs to look inside your heart, not JUDGE you by your size or looks.
I Hope i answered your answer.
- Liz

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Ok, I have a boyfriend, But when everyone asks me if i am single.. i wanna say yes, i think its because i am embrassed to say that i am going out with this guy. I dont know what to do! Does this mean we shouldnt be together? Or is it just a frase everyone goes through? Well please help me!

Ok! You need to get your feelings straight. Weather you like him, or you don't. If you are having second thoughts, Then maybe you should take a break. But the one thing you can't do, Is hind your feelings. You can't be worried about what other people think. That takes alot of guts but you gotta do it. And if you are embrassed by him, then maybe you shouldn't be with him until you cant except that ya'll are together.
I hope i helped you.
- Liz

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