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Well Hello There;;
my name is Lauren.

There is alot of unique things about me. Im me and me only. i dont try to be anyone other than me. I have gone through lots of stuff in life;; divorce with parents;; friendship problems;; love life i have been through it all. well most of it. i love helping my friends through things and now im here to help you. ifyou need help im volenteering to help you in any way i can.

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okay so i can never tell anyone this because my friends wouldnt agree to it. ii went out with a boy for uh about a week and i can swear it was love at first site. the first night we started talking i just found out he was amazing and was everything i hoped for in a guy. well when he broke up with me a week later - i continued to like him because hes so amaxing and you cant get over a boy just like that. well we kept hooking up and everytime hed be like yeah im asking her out but he never did. one day when we were going to hook up he said he was affraid of a comitment.i was really sad and stuff and i finally managed to have my heart healed. weLL he turned into a huge ass hole and started being horribly mean to me. i couldnt stand him well one night we were on aim and he told me the only reason he was mean to me was because hes trying to get over me. and when i get mad at him he gets mad at me for getting mad at him which helps him get over me. i got really confused not knowing if to believe iit or not. th en i started talking to his best friend. well one of them and me and his friend are supposed to hOOK up in acouple days but would that be like mean? would he hate me? what should i do? do i still like him? gosh im so confused. : ) please help!

Well lets start off here.

love at first sight may be true and you may think its true but real love never dies.
and him being mean to you for that excuse thatss not a excuse at all. if he liked you he would be trying to get back with you or if he wanted to get over you he might avviod you. so i wouldnt know what to tell you because that situation is very uncommon for a boy to do that sorta thing.

but going out with hiis best friend when he still likes you or not from my opinion is wrong and alright in many ways. its wrong because you did love this boy and you moved on to his best friend which may hurt him very badly and cause his to do a lil more than dislike you. it may cause him to hate you very strongly. but its alright in many ways to. this boy cant stop you from doing it and if you like this boy i would say go for iit - but hold back because of the other reason. your stuck with a fork in the road that needs to be removed or you will get more and more confused. your going to have to make your best judgement and maybe ask your ex if he would mind. even if he does and you still want to hook up with him just because you ex says he would mine dont let that stop you from doing what you please. he does not control you or the boys you date.

and if you still like this boy or not your going to have to decide because ihave no idea what you are feeling on the inside to tell you.

hope i helped as much as possible.

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I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!

all the teen magizines. thwy have pictures of the hottest bands and other sutff. J14 is the best prob.!.!.!.!.!


You could tkaes pic of your friendss and post them on your wall!

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how can you tell when a guy likes u? ill rate

you can tell when i guy likes you when he flirts with you nad like never leaves you alone. you cant really tell if he likes you because some guys just like to flirt and they like you but the might not! -lauren

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i've known my best friend for almost two and a half years now, and i have some hilarious pictures and memories from the past bit. also some serious ones and all that. anyway, i want to somehow incorporate everything he and i have been through into some sort of gift to be able to give him at the end of high school (we're juniors right now). but i'm kind of blanking on good ideas. i want to make sure it can have all of our inside jokes and all that, and be something he can keep forever, you know? any help would be greatly appreciated!

make a scrapbook. those would allways be greatifts and just write your insiders by the the picture it fits.he will always remember you and yalls fun yall had together if he sees a picture. a picture is worth a 1000 words! -lauren

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I have wavy hair that is very thick and very frizzy in humidity. I live in Maine we have pretty humid summers. I am looking into getting a striaght perm in the summer. Does anyone know:
1.) If they have harmful chemicals that are carcinogenic or damage your hair?
2.) If they don't get frizzy even in humidity
3.) How long they last
4.) How much they cost
5.) Anything else about them!
Thanks much!



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I don have a book for a 1992 subaru justy and I need to know the best and fastest way to change the clutch and pressure plate so if anyone can help me i would thank you

just order a book of ebay. they prob. have one or take it to a shop or ask a friend if they know how. you have senses use them!

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I've had this problem for years. My parents and my sister always accuse me of talking too much and see nothing wrong with interrupting me in the middle or end of my sentences to tell me to shut up and that I talk too much. I respond by telling them that I was already done talking and that they should'nt assume I'm going to say more, and that it is rude to interrupt someone even if you don't care about what they are saying. At least if it's someone you care about, you should find a nicer way to tell them. They don't listen, they just keep telling me to be quiet when I try to tell them how I feel. I sometimes end up in tears, and then they tell me I'm being grumpy or silly. I'm 35 years old and I'm tired of being treated this way. How can I get them to listen? It's especially embarrassing when they do this in front of others, like my daughter, husband, other family and friends. I'm I partially to blame? Please help!

no dont blame yourself. you try to sit your parents a side and if they say shut up stand up for yourslef. say bno i want you to listin to me and if they tell you that your being silly be like no im not being silly i want to talk to you and your like shutting me out. if you dont give me a chance to talk im leaving. you dont have to stand for that! if they wont talk to you then just go and talk to someone else and treat them the same way they treat you. and try to get them to see how you feel!
-lauren

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I have a problem with getting a boyfriend. The guys think i am really ugly, But they dont know me like i want them to know me! I am always wishing that i could get a make-over but then i think about it .. and i like me, its just that he guys dont. I promise if they got 2 know me .. they would think that i am really kool. Well, I just dont know wat to do! Please help me!!

WHo cares about looks. you will find a boyfriend one day that goes byu the inside. god didnt want you any other way than you are today. who cares about the looks CHASE! sorry taht is a guy that os the most stuck up person alive. if you like how you are there is nothin else to change. no one is hott or prettier than someone else. a couple of ppl might think that they are but everyone is the same in gods eyes!!
-LAUREN

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Sorry it's long, but please try to help.
This might be confusing, so if it is, sorry. But this girl I've known since 6th grade,(I'm now a freshman, grade 9) Brittany, and have had classes with since 7th, and became friends with this year, well her mom had a tumor in her eye. And Brittany's mom had it removed about a week ago. And she had to have her head shaved because they were doing surgery going through her head. Well, lately Brittany has been getting upset a lot in class, and I want to try to cheer her up, and make her happy, but her mom might be dying because the surgery didn't go to well, she's recovering, but not the best way possible, so I have a few questions.

1.) What can I say to her to comfort her, she knows I give advice, and a lot of times she asks me, but when it comes to a personal friend, it's hard

2.) This really weird teacher that none of us like who is a lesbian (not saying that's bad, but... it's weird w/ what she's been doing) Well, she, w/o Britt's permission, told the whole class about Britt's mom, and Britt ran out crying, and we didn't know how to comfort her. And then that teacher gave Britt her cell phone number, and was like call me, and don't leave a message, keep calling until you reach me, so I was wondering, is that okay for a teacher to do that? None of us like her, and Britt said she asked 2 teachers about it, and they said it wasn't normal, but Britt does tend to over exaggerate, or lie about things (she's really popular, and does whatever she can to boost the popularity, I didn't like her until this year b/c I always thought she had a perfect life and was concieted, b/c she's really rich and stuff, but now that I've gotten to know her, I've realized why she acts that way.)

3.) We're only 14, and freshman in high school. I don't associate with her that much outside of school, unless it's at a game, or if we see each other at the mall, like I don't invite her to the mall with me and my friends, but if we see each other, we talk, and/or walk around w/ each other. So please, help me try to comfort her, and is it right for that teacher to be doing what she's doing? What can I do to help, or what can I say. Also are there any gifts I could give her for x-mas that might make her feel better, or might make her laugh, or smile? I'm not trying to be weird, or act gay, but it's been so long since I've seen her smile, and it's been so long since I've heard her laugh. She's cut her wrists in the past, and I don't want her to use self-harm again, and I'm afraid about with what's going on with her mom, she might go farther than just cutting her wrists.

Oh, and about the whole teacher thing, we don't know how that teacher found out, Brittany didn't say anything to her, we figure she must've overheard Britt telling one of us. Please, any help would be appreciated! And if you're one of those people that like to leave sarcastic, or rude advice, I could do with a good laugh, so make it funny. Thanks in advance for all the help. And again, sorry it's so long.

ok first of all the teacher thing is kinda scary. that teacher is crayz. it doesnt matter about looks. britt just needs to relize her mom is beautiful with or without hair. she should talk to her mom tell her how she is feeling and about the teacher thing. she needs to tell her mom stuff so her mom knoes how she feels and try to help. if the teacher gives her, her number britt needs to say ,im sorry but this is a lil akward moment id rather not have your number. if you want to talk to me you can kall me mom. and her moms hair isnt going to be gone forever. her mom looks the same on the inside. and if someones makes fun of her they couldend up the same way. just pray for her.

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I wanna be more popular at school? how do i get that far?

Who cares about popularity. You may not be popular at your skewl but you are popular to your friends. In out world some ppl think they are prettier than others but those ppl are just not true to themsleves. ppl who go by looks or popularity never turn out to be a good person in life. but if you want to be popular that is your choice. you could look up fashion, do your hair every day, just work on the outside of you! But it does not always matter about the outside. you could like the hottest guy in the world but he could end up to be the dumbest. if it was me i would worry bout the insides. you are popular to god what else does it matter. but if you want to you can. everyone is diff. no one is prettier than other.so you have a good chance like everyone else. do the things above if you want to! like fashion and all those kinda things. if you need help on fashion tips i can help you!

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