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so confused.
okay so i can never tell anyone this because my friends wouldnt agree to it. ii went out with a boy for uh about a week and i can swear it was love at first site. the first night we started talking i just found out he was amazing and was everything i hoped for in a guy. well when he broke up with me a week later - i continued to like him because hes so amaxing and you cant get over a boy just like that. well we kept hooking up and everytime hed be like yeah im asking her out but he never did. one day when we were going to hook up he said he was affraid of a comitment.i was really sad and stuff and i finally managed to have my heart healed. weLL he turned into a huge ass hole and started being horribly mean to me. i couldnt stand him well one night we were on aim and he told me the only reason he was mean to me was because hes trying to get over me. and when i get mad at him he gets mad at me for getting mad at him which helps him get over me. i got really confused not knowing if to believe iit or not. th en i started talking to his best friend. well one of them and me and his friend are supposed to hOOK up in acouple days but would that be like mean? would he hate me? what should i do? do i still like him? gosh im so confused. : ) please help!
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If you are trying to get over that guy, then it wouldn't be mean to hook up with someone else. I mean you guys aren't together and you can do anything you want. It's your choice and he souldn't hate you for it and if he does, he is just jelous. You might even like his friend and that might turn out to be something good. You can't find out until you do it. Just go for it and see what happens. Make sure you still know your limits and do something that you will not regret because it will be too late. Maybe he was being mean because he was trying to get over you, but that doesn't make sense. I think he still knew that you liked him so why would he do that? You guys are now over, and you can hook up with anyone you want.
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Well lets start off here.
love at first sight may be true and you may think its true but real love never dies.
and him being mean to you for that excuse thatss not a excuse at all. if he liked you he would be trying to get back with you or if he wanted to get over you he might avviod you. so i wouldnt know what to tell you because that situation is very uncommon for a boy to do that sorta thing.
but going out with hiis best friend when he still likes you or not from my opinion is wrong and alright in many ways. its wrong because you did love this boy and you moved on to his best friend which may hurt him very badly and cause his to do a lil more than dislike you. it may cause him to hate you very strongly. but its alright in many ways to. this boy cant stop you from doing it and if you like this boy i would say go for iit - but hold back because of the other reason. your stuck with a fork in the road that needs to be removed or you will get more and more confused. your going to have to make your best judgement and maybe ask your ex if he would mind. even if he does and you still want to hook up with him just because you ex says he would mine dont let that stop you from doing what you please. he does not control you or the boys you date.
and if you still like this boy or not your going to have to decide because ihave no idea what you are feeling on the inside to tell you.
hope i helped as much as possible.
<3 Lauren
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