Question Posted Thursday November 25 2004, 11:10 am
ok..most older sisters r mean to their younger sisters when they follow them around or sumthin annoyin like that. i try to stay away from my sister b/c all she duz is yell at me! and i really dont do nething!! i hate yelling at ppl so i dont want to yell at her back. ne advice on wut to do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? MissLicious47 answered Thursday November 25 2004, 2:37 pm: Wow. i am the middle of a younger sister and an older sister. I know wat you are talking about! My oldest sister hates it when we *me n my little sister* hang with her. Shes 17 and i am 13 and my little sister is 12. What i did is try to talk to her. Let her know your there. Now you gotta respect her privicy, so when she tells you 2 leave .. leave. Ask her advice on things, so she remembers your there, and that she knows you need her. What i am trying to say is try 2 build a relationship with her, But wat ever you do dont dis-respect her privicy.
I hoped i helped yea!
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misunderstood64 answered Thursday November 25 2004, 1:49 pm: sometimes older sisters are just mean because everyone goes through those teenage stages when they just about hate everything and everyone and they want to be alone. Give her privacy and most importantly give her time. My sis is 5 years older than me and she and I NEVER got along. for all 14 years of life I basically hated her and she picked on me. She went off to college and now we're the best of friends. If she's not off in college yet when she will be you and her will be really good friends. Sometimes it's just a matter of giving her space and if she starts yelling at you just say sorry and try to not to get angry. Good luck, hope I helped I absolutely know what your going through. (I used to cry every night cuz we always fought..but now it's good :) [ misunderstood64's advice column | Ask misunderstood64 A Question ]
-LyL-RyAh- answered Thursday November 25 2004, 1:41 pm: Well, you could ignore her and he may quit it a little bit. I know when you get older you can get a little moody and your sister may just take it out on you because your the only one around. Or you could try to talk to her about it and tell her how she is hurting you. I hope I helped a little!
Much <3 Love
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missindependant answered Thursday November 25 2004, 12:37 pm: you could tell her to leave you alone or say i wana be alone for a little bit and then she may leave you alone if not then i dont kno what else to do thats all u really can do [ missindependant's advice column | Ask missindependant A Question ]
Mandee answered Thursday November 25 2004, 11:50 am: Hey! Well first of all Happy Thanksgiving sweetie! Secondly, if your sister is a teenager chances are she is going to have a lot of mood swings. And because she's older she'll feel like she can tell you anything, and you'll have to listen to whatever she says. But that is not right, and you need to let her know that. Have a heart to heart talk with her even if it seems impossible, you'll have to try. For once, she has got to listen to what you have to say. If you don't tell her what's wrong she will continue to yell at you and it will become more dramatic. Her main problem might be the privacy issue. Having someone follow you can be very annoying, you're right. But if you do look up to her let her know that. Respect her privacy but try to create a good relationship with her. She needs to try to do this to or it will get you know where. But don't worry, as she gets older and matures she will understand that what she did to you was very mean and she will see that having a younger sister is precious. (lol) Really, it happens. Just give her space let her cool off but try to start conversastions with her daily. Try to build up the idea that she can talk to you about anything and you can tell her anything. It worked for me! Happy Thanksgiving again, Love ya!
Love,
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xOKooLAiDOx answered Thursday November 25 2004, 11:29 am: PUNCH HER!! KICK HER ASS!! thatz what i do.. but i dont rilly care if people yell at me.. imma middle child i git hell from my older sis and my younger brother..
just learn to stick up fer yerself and stop bein sucha pussy "I DONT LYKE IT WHEN PEOPLE YELL AT ME" well SORRY HUN itz gonna happen so you shud just grow up and git over it. maybe someday she'll appreciate you kikin her ass.. or MAYBE! JUST MAYBE! you only talk to her when shes PMSIN... thatza hard tyme of the month lyttle girlie.... so.. yaa just KICK HER ASS!! >:D! ookie
hope i've helped >(LaUrA)< [ xOKooLAiDOx's advice column | Ask xOKooLAiDOx A Question ]
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