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Guy problems... dont kno what to do
I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?
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if i was you i woukdnt listen to all the "other "gurls.. jut go with what you feel in your heart and you should be able to trust him with that kind of stuff, i woukd have alil more of a break before u decdied to go back out with him, who knows maybe u;ll find sumbdoy else with the less DRama, but if you go back out with him talk those things out and tell him how it hurts you when like u find out bout him and other gurls.. just try and be open with things that bother you instead of break up with him everytime something bad hAeppens... xox * Blondie*
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You had been HEARING rumors that he was all over girls. I say you should've maybe confronted him about it to find out if the rumors were true. Don't always believe what you hear! Although you& him have gone out 5 times already, if you honestly feel you can trust him then go ahead& give him one last chance. That's what I would do, only b/c I think those were just rumors that you were hearing, but definately talk to him. Tell him he has one last chance and he needs to think that over before he does something stupid to ruin his last chance. Hope everything works out! -Amber
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I think u guys should take a break. i mean maybe u guys just need some time away from eachother, i mean come on he cried in fornt of all his frineds? tht means tht u obviously mean a lot to him. tell him tht if u guys were to go back out again he would have to stop messing around w/ other girls cuz u arent willign to have tht happen to u and tht u really love him but u cant go on with him if hes goign to do tht to u! well, good luck!
<3 Jen
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if you love him and he loves you then you should go for it! dont waste anytime! follow ur heart and things will turn out great!
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That's a tough one. It always makes it so much worse when they cry, lol. No, but this guy obviously likes you. If you've already gone out that many times and it hasn't worked, then maybe you need to talk to him about WHY it isn't working. Instead of believing everything you hear, talk to him about it. You can't always believe everyone. If you both still have feelings for eachother, then there's potential for it to work. Just let eachother know how you're feeling. Good luck!
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take a break... if he is all over other girls like the day afta then the rumors were prolly true but if he is lookin kinda sad and doesn't really flirt with girls then confront him and tell him how u feel still and tell him what u heard and then decide whether or not u wanna go back out. good luck!!! ; D
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WELL I THINK THAT IF HE CRIED IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS THATS A HUGE DEAL AND THAT HAS GOTTA MEAN SOMETHING. OBVIOUSLY YOU MEAN ALOT TO HIM AND HE SAYS HE REALLY LOVES YOU AND WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET YOU BACK. IF YOU WANT YOU SHOULD ASK HIM TO PROVE IT OR JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU WILL GO BACK OUT WITH HIM ON ONE CONDITION. ITS OKAY TO HAVE GURL FRIENDS BUT DONT HANG ALL OVER THEM AND TELL HIM THAT THIS IS HIS LAST CHANCE!!!!
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I think that if said he really loves you and would do anything to get you back then he isn't lying, because there isn't any reason why you would say that without meaning it. And as you said that you love him to maybe you should go back out with him, but maybe you should talk to him about what you have been hearing and then just give him another chance.
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well do u really lik him or not....if u do lik him than ya go out with him n all that other stuff were probably rumors but if u dont lik him explain to hi in a nice way u jus wannab freinds...~*!*~please rate~*!*~
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Okay I think I would talk to him about people talking about him. You need to ask him if it's true becaue maybe it wasnt. He rally cares about you if he would cry over you, and expecialy infront of his friends. Hes a keeper, Iwoudl go out with him and tell him your sorry if the things your friends say werent true.
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i'd give it a little bit of time, to explore the sincerity of everyone's feelings. besides... he's your best friend, and as little as i personally would like to say this, those kinds of relationships don't always work out too well. so take a break from it all... there's got to be reasons you all have broken up five times... maybe it's time to realize that?
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i wuld say both bcuz he really seem desperate and when u do go bak wit him then try ta get proof of him cheatn',or if u take a break then just tell him u need a lil time apart.
rate pleazeeee hope i helped.
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chow
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Wow. it sounds like he does have real feelings for you .. and you wont find this often. If i was you i would give him another chance. You gotta trust your man, and if you cant trust your man than you got no relationship! Believe me, this happened to me before, i thought this guy was HOTT and was all this and that, but then i found things out that he was flirting with other gurls, and that he was planning on dumping me. I was heart <3 broken, but i didnt show it so before i could give him a word i broke up with him. After this, we talked and i found none of it was true. But we happened 2 not go back out, i wish i would have stayed with him. We didnt go back out because he thought we were better friends. Now we are close i guess you could say and i an glad hes my friend.
- Liz
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Go back out with him, you shouldn't listen to everything you hear, but instead confront him about it. He obviously likes you a lot or else he wouldn't have cried in front of all his friends. Guys just don't do that on a regular basis. He obviously really loves you and I really think you need to go back out with him, that wasn't a good enough reason to break up with him, no offense, but like if he was all over other girls and he liked other girls, then he wouldn't still be with you. -Kayla
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i think you should let him know your serious this time. that this is his last chance to win your heart and keep it. and you cant always believe what other people say. and amybe he means it if he cried infront of all of his friends. and since others grls would give a leg and you dont have to because you have him keep him. if you give him a chance for him to be away from you the more time you r give him to become interested in other girls. so just let him know you mean it.
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You sound exactly like my friend Kristina (Psst if you are her, You can do better than Brandon!) but follow your heart. Even if you do love him, you can take a break and give him that time to get the "touchy feely" out of his system. Tell him that when he's ready to stop being stupid and ready to start acting like he does love you, that you'll be there.. Im sorry I hope I helped a little bit. Good luck. -Jor*
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take a break from him for a little while. like dont hang out with him and try not to think about him and just do stuff with your other friends and see how you fell aftrwards
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