My parents are fighting. I mean it's really bad tonight. I'm afaid they are gonna get a divorce and I donno what I'll do if they do. My dad went to his maamws house where his brother stays and mom is at the house and i'm out my mamaws and it all messed up and scary and i'm afraid they will. i donno i just need some help on how to deal if they do. thanks. <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? cougarbabe11 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:58 pm: well when i was like 6 or 7 my rents got into big fights mayb like urs theirs wre pretty bad mine didnt get an divorce but they took some time away my dad went n got an apartment for idk maybe a good 4 or5 months then when i got hurt pretty bad one day at my day care (didnt get beat up or nething lol) my mom n dad came together n realized that they should be together maybe they jus need a break im sure they wont divorce they might jus need some time thats hwat mine needed n it worked good we are all living together again happy as hell lol well kinda not for me but that another story but yeah maybe theyjus need some time thats all [ cougarbabe11's advice column | Ask cougarbabe11 A Question ]
applescruff answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 11:27 pm: Well, first of all, a lot of the time fighting can get scary, but it doesn't necessarily mean your parents will actually get a divorce. The fact that your dad went to stay somewhere may make it seem worse, but it might help make it better if they have a chance to cool down. If they do get a divorce, well, that's going to be tough for you. I feel bad for you that any of this is happening, because I remember how I use to worry that my parents would get a divorce because of their fighting. Unfortunately for me, they got separated about 2 years ago and it was no bed of roses. after awhile you get used to it. just remember that even though the relationship between your parents may not be the best, it's important that you maintain a good bond with both of them yourself. it'll be easier for you to deal if you do. make sure you talk to your friends about it because they should be a good form of support for you. Good luck and hang in there! [ applescruff's advice column | Ask applescruff A Question ]
AskSpanky answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:22 pm: Well...not much I can say on divorce, although my parents seperated for a while.
Well try to spend equal time with them, don't talk smack about the other parent to one parent, and try not to alienate, I guess. But yes, it'll be tough.
charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:08 pm: Aww I am sorry sweetie!
Well just be sure to see your dad and spend time with both of them if they do..
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