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Music Boy Blues
ok so i really like this guy that has music with me.Throughout the course of the week my friend gave him clues totell him who liked him. Well he figured it out. But he said right now he isn't looking for a gf because he just got out of a really bad relationship. So what do i do now? Do i wait and see if he starts to like me or just forget about him?
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okay, from what he said, he's not interested in dating someone right now. however, i don't know how things are between you. are you friends at all? do you talk to him? just because he doesn't want a girlfriend doesn't mean he'd mind hanging out with you. if the two of you don't really know each other, his answer might mean he'd rather not have any kind of a relationship at all. it's hard to say whether you should wait or forget, but i think that's something only you can answer, because it again depends on the relationship that you already have. if you aren't very close and won't be spending time together, my opinion would be that this isn't going to go anywhere, because you won't have the chance to find out whether he could BECOME interested in you. i don't think he'd give an answer like the one he gave, not spend time with you but then begin liking you out of the blue. but like i said before, if you already talk and have a bit of a friendship, you might want to see how things progress.
i hope this isn't too long and confusing, but this is one of those questions where i can only use instinct based on what you've told me and there's always the chance that something might happen that turns everything around. if 'wait' for you means obsess, i'd say red light. i know i have a hard time 'forgetting' people, so if something started to develop i'd probably still like him when it happened. you really just have to look at what you guys already have and the way he acts and try to figure out where things are going. i've had many a crush and i know how it is, so i'm wishing you the best of luck!
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