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i dont know wut to do..i have this love for this boy that i have never felt befor i kno im only 15 but neone can fall in love no matter the age its ove thats wut happens well this boy i been wit for like a yr now on and off break ups but he always came back he always tells me he loves me and im difrent from his other girls but how do i believe him...he told me the other day that he wanted to be with me but he wanted to fuck other gurls...hes a player i knew that from the beginning but hes changing little by little... and i dont know if i should wait for him or move on... i dont think ill ever move on cause he is my first love and shit and i never felt this way bout anyone...its hard i almost killed myself over him...help me please... (i rate)
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listen to me PLEASE no boy is worth dying ovver and love is posssible at 15 trust me id know but what you have isnt love its torture . This boy clearly doesnt feel the same way as you so do yourself a favor and try asnd work though him instead of calling him play cards or go outside you can get thru this i promise if ya ever need sum 1 u know where to find me
Jenna
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never kill yourself over A GUY WHO Says he loves you AND Wants to fuck other girls if he truely loves you ASK HIM TO STOP LOOKING and plAYIN around with other girls if he sAYS OK I WILL ONLY BE WITH YOU THEN KEEP HIM IF HE Says i cANT DO THat then he is definelty not the right person for you
sincerely ASKLane
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Thats stupid to think that your in love with someone like that asshole.
It's not love, he does not love you, so move on and get some respect for yourself.
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In my opinion, I think you should see someone else. It's hard to have a good relationship when the boy is a player. Most likely, he will cause you pain in the future. Just wait for someone that is totally perfect for you- and he will treat you how you are supposed to be treated :) I hope I helped... drop one in the inbox if you'd like! <3 Steph
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No relationship will ever run completely smoothly, but there is a point where you have to draw the line - it sounds to me like this guy is using you, and that's only going to keep on hurting if you stay around. I would advice having a break from him for a while - hopefully a few weeks without you will make him realise what he's missing and realise he'd rather have just you then meaningless sex with other girls, or, if he doesn't come round, it'll make you realise what *you* are missing - a wonderful boyfriend who actually respects you. But all the best - I know how hard it is to break free from somebody you really love, even when they aren't treating the relationship with the care it needs.
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You should definitely move on. I know it's tough to leave someone afteR so long, and when that someone is a fiRst love.. things can be extRa painful. But you bReak up.. you get back togetheR... you bReak up.. you get back togetheR.. you bReak up... Too many up's and down's! That's not a healthy Relationship foR anyone!! The love of youR life is supposed to come along and sweep you off of youR feet. He shouldn't feel the need to be with anyone else, because no one else should be able to even compaRe to you! TheRe's no point in being dedicated to someone who is not willing to give you the 100% devotion Right back! I think it'd be best foR you to move on. Don't botheR waiting foR this guy... he doesn't deseRve you! Just keep youR head up, and stick to youR guns! Don't allow someone in who you know is only going to huRt you!! Be smaRt about this! Hope I helped! I wish you the best of luck! I'm heRe to talk/help if you eveR need anything else!! Take caRe!! =D
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