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we were friends but...
hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?
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It's probably her. Since she's hanging around with different people she's gonna act different ecspecially if she wants them to like her. Ask her to hang out a lot or go somewhere and tell her what your feeling. Just don't tell her she's acting different, tell her you haven't hung out in awhile and it would be nice. She'll get the hint. Good Luck! <3
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From your discription, she is a different person. She doesn't seem to value the friendship you have to offer, and if she can't value that, then why be friends with her? Yes you may be attached, but there are better people out in the world who will appreciate you for who you are. I bet almost anything that in 20 years, you will be farther ahead in life than she is because she is shallow, and being shallow gets you no where.
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Hi. i would talk to her one in one about why she's being so different when she's around you and her new friends...thats all i can say because matters can get worst where she doesnt want to me your friend no more besides canceling dates and things. just invite her over one day before her new friends get to her and tell her it's very important. i'm sure she will show up and just talk everything out and ask her why. i hope i hepled! x3 SweetStar
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This happens alot, And problably will happen to you more. Friends grow apart. I would try talking to her and if things don't resolve then maybe look for another good girl friend... Best wishes
-Britty-
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Its not you . This girl cleary doesnt think u imporant enough to chiil wit so make other friends cause chances shes coming back arent very high
if u need a friend im here
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